THERE ARE EXPECTATIONS THAT ONE HAS TO LOSE WEIGHT TO BE “HEALTHY” REGARDLESS OF ONE’S BACKGROUND/FAMILIAL HISTORY 

“They say it [my weight] is too high and they suggest that the issue is because of weight.” so if I lose some do others don't so i find another doctor.”

“I feel like doctors assume many issues are due to weight or ignore concerns and say to lose weight and that should solve all issues.”