Parenting a child or teen who learns, communicates, organizes, or responds to the world differently can come with questions that don't always have simple answers.
You may know what you want to change but feel unsure about how to get there.
How do I help without constantly reminding?
Why can my child do something sometimes but not consistently?
How do we build independence without setting expectations too high—or too low?
What should I do when strategies that work for other families don't work for mine?
Parent coaching provides an opportunity to step outside of the immediate situation, identify what may be getting in the way, and develop practical strategies that fit your child and your family.
Parent coaching is individualized to your family's needs and may address:
Executive functioning and organization
Homework and school routines
Task initiation and follow-through
Reducing dependence on repeated reminders
Building routines and healthy habits
Increasing independence
Motivation and reinforcement
Challenging or frustrating behavior
Understanding why a behavior may be occurring
Developing replacement skills
Communication and self-advocacy
Preparing for transitions and changes
Supporting autistic children and teens
Supporting children and teens with ADHD
School-related concerns
Preparing for greater independence during high school, college, and young adulthood
Behavior rarely occurs in isolation.
When something isn't working, simply trying harder—or adding more reminders, consequences, or rewards—may not solve the underlying problem.
Together, we can look at what happens before and after a challenge, the skills your child currently has, environmental factors, expectations, motivation, executive functioning demands, and other variables that may be influencing what you are seeing.
From there, we can develop strategies designed around the reason a difficulty is occurring, rather than relying on a one-size-fits-all solution.
One of the most difficult balances for parents is knowing when to help and when to step back.
This becomes especially important as children move into adolescence and young adulthood.
Parent coaching can help you gradually shift from managing responsibilities for your child toward creating systems, teaching skills, and providing the level of support they need to manage more independently.
The goal isn't to remove support overnight.
It's to build the skills that allow support to be reduced over time.
Sessions are collaborative and practical.
We'll start by identifying your concerns, priorities, and what you have already tried. From there, we can develop strategies to implement between sessions and review what's working, what's not, and what may need to change.
Depending on your goals, sessions may include:
Identifying patterns and possible barriers
Developing home routines and systems
Breaking complex expectations into teachable steps
Creating visual or organizational supports
Developing prompting and reinforcement strategies
Teaching skills that can replace challenging behavior
Troubleshooting strategies that aren't working
Planning how to gradually increase independence
Preparing for conversations with educators or other professionals
Parents can participate in coaching without their child attending sessions.
Parent coaching may be helpful for families of children, teens, and young adults who:
Have ADHD or executive functioning challenges
Are autistic
Have learning or developmental differences
Struggle with organization, motivation, or follow-through
Need significant prompting to complete everyday responsibilities
Experience challenging behavior at home
Have difficulty applying skills independently
Are preparing for high school, college, employment, or greater independence
A diagnosis is not required.
I am a Board Certified Behavior Analyst and National Board Certified special educator with more than 10 years of experience supporting students, families, educators, and professionals.
My background includes special education, autism support, behavior analysis, executive functioning, transition services, parent and educator coaching, and professional development.
I combine my education and behavior-analysis backgrounds to help families understand not only what strategies to try, but also why a particular challenge may be occurring and how skills can be taught in practical, respectful ways.
There is no single parenting strategy that works for every child.
Parent coaching is designed to help you better understand your child's individual strengths and needs, identify barriers to success, and develop realistic strategies that work within your family's everyday life.
The ultimate goal is not perfect behavior.
It's helping your child develop the skills and independence they need for the future.
If you're wondering what might be getting in the way, or you're simply tired of trying strategies that don't seem to stick—parent coaching can provide a place to problem-solve and develop a plan.
Contact Pathways Learning & Development to schedule an initial consultation.