ADHD is one of the most common neurodevelopmental disorders of childhood. It is usually first diagnosed in childhood and often lasts into adulthood. Children with ADHD may have trouble paying attention, controlling impulsive behaviors (may act without thinking about what the result will be), or be overly active.
Signs and Symptoms
It is normal for children to have trouble focusing and behaving at one time or another. However, children with ADHD do not just grow out of these behaviors. The symptoms continue, can be severe, and can cause difficulty at school, at home, or with friends. A child with ADHD might:
daydream a lot
forget or lose things a lot
squirm or fidget
talk too much
make careless mistakes or take unnecessary risks
have a hard time resisting temptation
have trouble taking turns
have difficulty getting along with others
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Child psychology has directed a lot of focus on this concept in the last decade. Mindfulness is "mental state achieved by focusing one's awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one's feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations." Teaching a child how to recognize and process their emotions is a powerful and lifelong skill.
Below are some apps and resources. These apps help us learn to "turn down the worry" in our brains.
A Glitter Jar is a jar filled with water, dish soap and glitter- when shaken, the chaos is a good visual representation of how your child's brain is feeling during a tantrum/breakdown- having them watch the glitter settle is both calming and representative of their brain quieting as well.
In a Calm Down Corner you are designating a space where children who are having trouble regulating their emotions can go and use a variety of techniques to calm down their brains instead of acting out inappropriately. The location should be relatively small and cozy, with visuals that can help your child identify what emotion they are working through, and suggestions as to how to handle the emotion. You can have music, some pillows to punch, manipulative to play with, signs of breathing exercises or the aforementioned glitter jar.
Movement can be another powerful way of settling a child- GoNoodle is an movement/mindfulness app that is especially useful for children with restless energy, or those who need to physically work out their emotions.
Calm (pre-teen – adult; go to guided meditations on the app)
The Smiling Mind (programs for children 7 – 11, 12 – 15 and for young adults
Simply Being (customizable length)
Breathe (pre-teen through adult)
Mood meter (self-identifies feelings and teaching feeling vocabulary, offers suggestions on self calming and keeps a log)
Aura (3 minute meditations)
Insight Timer (>4,000 guided meditations from 1,000 teachers)
Stop, Breath & Think Good for kids ages 5-10, learn how to tune into feelings and choose a mission to create a force field of calm. https://www.stopbreathethink.com
Sattva (includes social connections)