Lesson 3- Appearance Ideals

Learning intention

Students understand that the workshop will focus on understanding appearance ideals and how they can challenge the pressure these ideals create

Success criteria

I can understand what a beauty standard is

I understand the harms of beauty standards

I know how to deal with the chalenges of beauty standards.

What are appearance ideals??

The way a culture tells us is the ideal way to look in a certain moment of time.

What appearance ideals can you come up with for boys/girls?

Why are they harmful?

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10 Tips to help when feeling the pressure from beauty standards!

1. Understand That Beauty Ideals Are Unrealistic

Beauty standards are often exaggerated by social media, movies, and advertisements, and they don’t reflect real life. Models and celebrities often have professional stylists, photo editing, and filters, which create an unrealistic standard.

2. Focus on What Makes You Unique

Instead of trying to look like someone else, celebrate what makes you unique. Things like your personality, skills, and kindness make a lasting impression, not just your appearance.

3. Limit Social Media Time

Social media can make it easy to compare yourself to others. Try limiting your time on apps that focus on appearances, or follow accounts that promote body positivity and diversity.

4. Surround Yourself with Positive People

Spend time with friends and family who make you feel good about yourself and accept you as you are. Avoid people who pressure you to look a certain way or make you feel insecure about your appearance.

5. Challenge Stereotypes and Expectations

Remember that there is no one “right” way to look. Challenge beauty stereotypes by embracing different styles, interests, and hobbies. Talk openly about unrealistic expectations with friends, teachers, or family.

6. Take Care of Yourself for Health, Not Just Appearance

Focus on healthy habits like eating well, exercising, and getting enough sleep because they make you feel strong and energized—not just to fit a certain “look.” When you feel good, confidence follows.

7. Be Kind to Yourself

Practice positive self-talk. If you find yourself being critical of your appearance, ask yourself if you would say the same things to a friend. Treat yourself with kindness, patience, and understanding.

8. Ask for Support When You Need It

If you’re feeling pressured or unhappy with your appearance, talk to someone you trust, like a friend, parent, or school counselor. They can help you gain perspective and remind you of your worth beyond looks.

9. Understand That Confidence Comes From Within

True confidence comes from knowing who you are and being comfortable with it. Embrace your values, talents, and personality traits as things that make you valuable, regardless of appearance.

10. Remember That Beauty Standards Change

Beauty ideals change over time and differ across cultures. What’s “in style” now won’t be the same in a few years, so it’s more fulfilling to focus on qualities that won’t change, like kindness, respect, and resilience.

Activity

🎭 Activity: “The Social Media Museum”

Topic: Appearance Ideals
Time: 40–50 minutes

What you’ll do

You’ll work in a small group to make two walls of “social media posts”:

One that shows unrealistic appearance ideals (what people think they should look like)
One that shows realistic and positive messages about body image

Step 1: Create the “Ideal” Wall (15 min)

On 3–4 pieces of paper, design fake social-media posts that show appearance ideals.
- You can draw them, cut out magazine pictures, or write captions.
- Examples:
  - “Perfect summer body”
  - “Flawless skin = beauty”
  - “Strong = six-pack abs”
Under each post, write:
- What message it sends (e.g. “You must be thin to be attractive.”)
- How it might make people feel (e.g. “Sad, not good enough.”)

Step 2: Flip the Message (15 min)

Now, make your Reality Wall — re-create each post with a positive or real message.
- Examples:
  - “All bodies are summer bodies.”
  - “Real skin has pores and that’s normal.”
  - “Strong looks different on everyone.”
Add a short note: “We changed this because…”

Step 3: Gallery Walk (10 min)

Hang both walls up in the classroom.
Walk around and look at everyone’s work.
Leave one sticky note on another group’s wall with a kind comment or question.

Step 4: Quick Reflection (5 min)

Answer these in your book or on a sticky note:

What appearance ideal do you see most online?
How does it make you feel?
What’s one thing you can do to make your feed more positive?

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