How to make him fall in love with you over text

7 secrets of texting men

1. Never send a text message that is lengthier than necessary.

Turn off or mute your phone. Consider texting him via SMS, Facebook, Whatsapp, or Snapchat as a route to meet him in person. Don't waste months exchanging messages with someone you've never met in person. What you actually want to do is make it easy for him to ask you out right away. You do this by dropping clues at him.

For example, you could text a guy, "I've always wanted to go to that museum."

“I heard that bar was a lot of fun.”

Give him a few tiny opportunity to suggest something like, "How about we go there together?"

Don't be alarmed if he doesn't get these indications.

If it takes too long, you can simply say something like, "I honestly believe getting to know each other by text is a little impersonal." Let's simply get together.” It's not a bad idea to come up with your own ideas. At the very least, try to avoid trading messages for months on end.

2. Make an "inside joke"

Laugh at his jokes (even if you don't think he's funny)

When messaging a guy, this is one of the best flirting strategies you can use. With a joke like that, your SMS messages will feel much more genuine.

Consider this scenario: you went on a date to the petting zoo, and while you were there, he cracked a joke about goats.

“Look at those goats!” exclaims the narrator. They have a variety of sheep of all shapes and sizes!”

Of course, as a wise woman, you don't have a sheepish sense of humour.

But let's assume you find it amusing and haven't given up on sheep because of the clever wordplay. So, let's pretend you've been in a similar circumstance. A time when you both burst out laughing.

Then it's a good idea to mention it in your text messages.

(You can mock him for being the family's "black sheep" or "a wolf in sheep's clothes.")

It's an inside joke that only the two of you will get; this is what we refer to as a "inside joke."

The thing I like about this is that it creates a sense of us versus the rest of the world.

So when you bring it up again over text, he feels instantly more connected to you (only now in a different context).

3. Make it a little difficult.

The hunt is what men live for. We're specifically seeking for a hunting challenge.

It is not exciting to obtain anything when no effort is required. And, let's be honest, we don't want to be honest. You're probably not interested in males who are overly open-minded and have no standards. You probably like a man who is a little more difficult to seduce.

Men are in the same boat. When something is overly simple, it isn't as intriguing. As a result, if you make things too simple for him, he'll quit chasing you.

That is, he loses interest in you and becomes bored with you.

We won't let it get that far, though, because you can easily prevent it by not making it so simple for him.

How do you go about doing this?

In your messages, challenge and test him.

When he asks you out and you're already booked, don't cancel your plans for him.

Don't respond to all of his messages in five seconds

When you wake up, don't text him the first thing you do.

Before you go on a date with him, get to know him. Make him talk about himself at least a little bit, and he'll have to devote more time and effort in you.

These are some tried-and-true methods for making him want you over text.

4. Stay away from dull or highly charged issues.

Chatting is supposed to be a pleasurable experience. You should stay away from too serious themes and strong emotional discussions at all times.

Politics, religion, and your ex-boyfriend are all topics to avoid at all costs.

It's not a good idea to talk to a guy about these kinds of things once you get to know him. But you'll want to avoid it much more when it comes to text. Because it just leads to misinterpretations. You can't read someone's face and decipher what they're saying through writing. You may believe he's being snarky again when he isn't. And the other way around.It is much better to discuss these issues in person to avoid such misconceptions. And only when it's really necessary to discuss it.

5. “Never have I ever"....

Before you say to yourself, "Hey, this seems eerily like a drinking game I used to play," think again. It's the same game, but with text instead of graphics (and without alcohol). When you're messaging with a guy, it's a fun game to play. “I've never swum naked before,” for example, is a terrific flirting text you may send him.

You can ask him another question if he says he has....

If he says he's never done something like that before, it's his turn.

This method of messaging is more engaging, and you'll learn some of the most bizarre facts about each other. So, if you want to flirt with him on Whatsapp (or whatever platform you're using), this is a great method to do it.

6. Give him a compliment

A happy man just received a praise that made him feel good about himselfIt's simple to win a man's heart when you touch his ego.

This is something that any man can benefit from.

Complimenting him is an easy approach to stroke his ego. Is it really that simple?

That's all there is to it. It's one of the most efficient methods for luring a man to you (over text). The reason compliments work so effectively is that guys rarely receive them. However, if you give him one, he will immediately feel better about himself.

Guess who he'll associate that nice sensation with?

You ! , Correct

Compliments are a simple technique to get a man's attention, both in person and by text.

So give him a compliment now and then. If he has a new photo on Whatsapp, Facebook, or Instagram, for example.

It's a modest gesture that has a great impact.

7. Text flirt in the same way you would in real life.

You most likely already have some flirting experience under your belt that has proven to be fruitful in the past. When you're texting with a guy, everything that works in real life also works in texting. The manner in which you communicate may vary, but the fundamentals remain the same. Did you notice how similar this essay about texting is to my other writings about flirting and getting a guy fall in love? Didn't you notice? Really? So there you have it.

As a result, in addition to the information I offered you in this post, you can also use what you already know about males. So text him using the same strategies that have worked for you in the past.

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