Best Book On Dating Men
Virgo men are wary of love and all its attendant trappings, but they are acutely aware of romantic gestures. Love is in every act and thought for these earthy realistic and capable beings, not something you convey via SMS or exhibit with roses and proposals.
This is how you may entice a Virgo man to adore you:
1. Attention to Detail
A Virgo man is more concerned with minor details than with grand gestures or declarations. In the give and take of your connection, he will notice if he is loved. He may already be in love with you, but he won't express it by saying "I love you" and staring into your eyes. Instead, he'll show it via the way he acts around you, the things he observes, and the effort he puts out to keep you safe, healthy, and warm.
2. Get rid of the acting.
Virgo men are wary of emotions, and they don't act on every emotion that arises in their lives. He will withdraw and become less approachable if you force him to show his hand and become upset, or if you withhold your devotion to illustrate a point. If your words and actions contradict each other, he will distrust your sincerity. You've got nothing to lose if you're honest.
3. Join forces with him
Virgo men, like most others, want to feel valued, and they want to know that whoever they entrust with their love would stand by them and support their goals. This is a person who values his capacity to recognize a need and work hard to fulfill it, and he needs to know that you understand and want to be a part of it.
4. Be fearless and open.
A Virgo man values trust, and he believes you will not disguise your actual feelings. If you're not sure how he feels about you or what he wants from your relationship, ask him. Ask him gently what it is about you that he enjoys the most so you can give him more of it. He will be open and pleasantly pleased if he is offered a direct question that allows him to express himself. With this sensitive thoughtful man, any messy emotional outbursts or attempts at manipulation will backfire. Speak your mind and attempt to interpret his remoteness as respect for you as a self-contained individual. A Virgo man will fall in love with you as a result of this.
5. Be genuine in your interactions.
He can be meticulous, and he will detect all the areas where you are lacking, but he will not maintain track of your performance. If you understand his peculiar obsessions and don't turn everything into a battle for dominance and control, he'll love you. For a Virgo man, foreplay is crucial, and much of it is intellectual. This is one of the characteristics that can entice a Virgo man to love you. His thing is talking, and he appreciates talking that is efficient and full of truth and actionable information.
6. Make Room for Silences and Spaces
Getting Virgo men to communicate their version of intimacy is a mental challenge, but once he gets there, he doesn't doubt the relationship. He views love as enabling the other to be free and distinct, and he will want you to respect his privacy and give him space. As long as you give him space to have his mystery and deal with everything in his thoughts, he will tell you everything you need to know.
7. Have emotional maturity
For good reason, Virgos are stereotyped as Vulcans. On intentionally, they keep their emotions under control almost all of the time. They despise it when their emotions overpower them and cause havoc in their otherwise well-ordered lives. How are you going to deal with this? By demonstrating that you are emotionally mature.
Someone who isn't interested in playing emotional games with the Virgo man or forcing him out of his comfort zone. So, if you want a Virgo man to adore you, make sure he perceives you as a reasonably even-tempered individual.
Also, avoid drama at all costs!
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