All You Need To Know About Dry Humping

Is it safe to use?

Dry humping is generally safe. Dry humping refers to humping that isn't penetrated.

Although there is no risk of getting pregnant, it's possible to get a sexually transmitted disease (STI) if you aren't careful.

Fluid exchange and skin-to-skin contact can transmit STIs.

Before engaging in sexual activity, it is important to talk with your partner about your STI status.

Once you are both fully informed, you can discuss safe dry humping and other activities.

Continue reading to discover more about different techniques and positions.

It doesn’t have to look awkward

Do not stop humping until it's been tried!

Although it may not always look glamorous and the act is often not graceful, dry humping can be very sexually satisfying.

There may be some contorting involved and your partner may accidentally flip you off of the bed, but it is totally up to you.

Do not let your worries or preconceived notions about the act keep you from enjoying this amazing experience.

It all depends on your goals

It all depends on your goals.

It can be done fully dressed or underwear. It can be done standing, sitting, lying down or upside-down if you are so inclined.

Dry humping has many benefits. There is no right or wrong way to do it.

All it takes is to rub against your partner or yourself in a position that causes plenty of friction to your genitals.

It's possible to do it yourself

This is just one of many benefits of dry humping!

You can dry hump alone in many ways. You need to find something soft and free from sharp edges that you can rub against without having to risk a conversation with a nurse at the ER.

It can be anything, from a pillow to a stuffed animal to an upholstered piece.

or with a partner

Mutual enjoyment is the main thing in this relationship, so it's important to work together in a way that makes you both feel good.

You could do this by rubbing your genitals against their butt or thigh, or any other area that feels good.

Dry humping can be used as a method of foreplay. Enjoy the tease, and then slowly move on to any other kind of sex.

If you don't want to take off your clothes, it might be worth wearing them.

Keep things clean and safe, and pay attention to skin-to-skin contact.

What you wear matters

Some things are better than others when it comes to clothing.

To avoid injury, you should first stay clear of belt buckles and zippers.

These are other tips:

For a better sensation and smoother slide, choose thin, silky materials -- the thinner the better.
You should wear something loose to give your erection more room
To give your clitoris more action, tuck your underwear fabric between your labia.

The position is also valid.

The position will determine how much friction you experience.

Some positions are better than others depending on whether you're solo or flying with a partner.

There are some positions available for partners

Missionary. No matter what equipment you have -- we don't mean penis or vaginal -- one person can kneel between the legs of the other, doing the majority of the thrusting and rubbing, to create enough friction to propel both of you off.
Reverse cowgirl, or cowgirl. This position is open to all. This is basically the act of straddling another person, whether they are sitting or lying down. This position allows both sides to have some friction, regardless of who is in front.
Stand side by side. Connect your legs and rub away. For maximum pleasure, rub your genitals against each other's thigh in this position.

These are great for solo riding:

Use a pillow to rub your back. Place a pillow on your stomach or between your legs. Rub and squeeze until your crotch is satisfied. Pillow humping can also be done in other ways. You could place a pillow on top of your bed, straddle it, or stack three pillows and ride the pile.
Use an armrest to support your body. It's ideal for women with vaginal problems, but it can also be used by men with penises. Take a comfortable, upholstered couch or chair, and straddle the armrest. You can do whatever you like.
Slide the box spring and mattress. The mattress and box spring can be used to store a penis if it is sufficiently cushioned. Your body will adjust to the mattress's height. Place your penis between the mattresses and push.

Get involved

You don't have to be sexually satisfied with just the genitals. Explore your body and theirs.

Nothing is quite like feeling a hand run down your spine, or two hands grasping at your bottom and pulling you closer.

These are some tips to dry hump with someone you know or yourself.

Grab yournipples and your breasts . You can do this alone or with your partner and it will be a lot of fun.
Guide them with your hands Dry humping is not always easy. You can help them feel better by using your hands.
Take care of every inch. Allow your hands to glide over every inch of theirs or yours. Your senses become more alert when you are excited. A gentle touch can go a long ways.

Play with toys

Sex toys can be a great way to take dry humping up a notch, regardless of whether you're alone or with your partner.

Here are some ways to have fun playing with toys

Get a strap-on toy You can find strap-on vibrators in many sizes. You can buy vibrators that can be worn on the legs with either a special underwear or a harness. You can also find vibrating panties and vibrating buttplugs, as well as strap-on clitoral vibrationators.
Use a vibrator. Simply holding a vibrator allows you and your partner to rub against each other. You can slip one between their genitals or against other pleasure zones, such as the nipples.
Get a penis ring. Wearing a vibrating penis ring under your clothes is a great way to spice up sex and keep an erection.
Place a vibrator in your pillowcase. This is a simple way to improve your pillow humping skills.

Orgasm can be done

Dry humping, just like masturbation, can provide enough stimulation for orgasm.

If you are open to the possibility of releasing sexual tension, it is possible to easily follow up on this buildup.

After you have found a position and a movement that feels good to you, you can keep going and see where it takes you.

Be aware of bodily fluids - STIs are still possible

STIs can be contracted by anyone who comes in contact with bodily fluids of others.

Some STIs can be transmitted skin-to-skin.

It is best to keep your clothes on, using condoms, and dental dams on hand.

However, pregnancy isn't

Pregnancy cannot be done if you are truly dry humping or there is no penile-vaginal penetration. You'll be fine if you keep your clothes on

Keep condoms handy

Condoms are available if you're willing to go further or if you feel like you might be dry humping in thin clothing that could lead to a wardrobe malfunction.

It is better to have a condom and not use it than nothing.