For example, the ancient martial art of Tai Chi gets passed from teacher to student. In time, the student becomes the teacher and passes on his or her knowledge to new students.

And that is as it should be.

I’ve learned a great deal from teachers, mentors, and peers. I owe each a great debt. And there is only one way to repay their generosity -- return the favor, if not directly to those who helped, at least to others who may benefit from my assistance.

This debt that I owe (indeed we all owe it) is the primary reason I write, teach, and lead. I want to help others avoid the anguish that often comes from attending the school of hard knocks. And although there is no substitute for earning your experiences this way, your career journey can be more fruitful (and less costly) with a little guidance.

Through coaching an artist discovers how to accomplish tasks with an approach that makes sense for them. They learn by doing with expert, motivating input. Ultimately, they get to explore their voice and pursue the material and themes that are meaningful to them. Often I’m pleasantly surprised; occasionally shocked, but rarely disappointed.

Therefore, never be afraid to ask the right questions of those people who are already along the path. You can and should benefit from the road already taken. But once you are further along your own journey, be sure to reach back and offer a helping hand to those who follow you. If you can make just another person’s journey easier, that’s good. And so that is something we all must all strive to do.