The power of ALLOWING

The essence of a woman in her soft power is being able to allow life

 (and all events). 

Allowing that something much greater is present than we can see and comprehend ourselves.

This is a completely different energy than having to let go of something.

When a woman can allow, she is in a natural state of BEING. 

There is no need to let go, surrender and allowing is something pure, it is precisely the power of doing nothing but simply allowing what manifests in the present.

When a woman is constantly in a male energy,...

 she is cut off from her authentic self. 

The male energy wants to perform, be in action, have and maintain control. 

This is often linked to a pain body being circumvented. 

Not wanting to feel and not wanting or being able to accept how the present presents itself.

Every now and then it is very good to experience soul pain. 

This is a deep pain that you cannot ignore. 

If you can allow this pain, the pain can heal and transform. 

This is a process of feminine energy 

and is independent of whether you are a man or a woman.

A woman in her potential soft power is a woman who does not run away from the challenges of the present. 

She is aware of the fact that healing is needed, not only for herself but also for the entire female collective. 

She does not shy away from taking responsibility for the mirrors that are held up to her. 

Of course she knows sadness and moments when it is less easy to handle. 

Yet she is always courageous and has a deep inner knowing that what is happening in her life is part of something much bigger and serves a higher purpose.

A woman who is always in action and walks through life with mainly masculine qualities and energy and becomes more and more aware knows that she has a challenge when she experiences soul pain. 

She is invited to heal, and to follow a path that is more in line with her being a woman. 

This is a path where her potential will be fully utilized, 

a path where she can also make a difference for others. 

For the people around her who are dear to her. 

But also for the female collective.

Allowing is living from your soft power. 

Allowing opens the gate to a life according to your destiny. 

Allowing is accepting yourself in all your vulnerability. 

Not resisting reality. 

And letting yourself flow from your pure BEING, 

without wanting to keep control, 

but deep inside having an inner knowing that whatever happens, it is good... 

even if it initially feels different. 

Knowing this and daring to live according to it 

means that you live the life of your soul plan. 

It is not an easy path, 

but it is the only path that will give you deep fulfillment. 

Your reasons for being can be lived here.

Written by: Gerda Duin; ( Translated from Dutch To English ) by CoachStijn 

Woman & Connection Retreats organizes retreats and trainings at home and abroad, with the intention of developing more feminine and spiritual leadership.

Vrouw&Verbinding Retraites organiseert retraites en trainingen in binnen- en buitenland, met als intentie meer vrouwelijk- en spiritueel leiderschap ontwikkeling.