Garden State Sikh Association, 977 Washington Valley Rd, Basking Ridge, NJ 07920; Phone: (908) 658-9805
Gurdwara Protocol
Certain protocol should be observed while visiting a Gurdwara. Consumption of tobacco, liquor or narcotics is strictly forbidden for Sikhs and definitely not allowed on the Gurdwara premises. Before entering the hall, people take off their shoes, wash their hands, cover their head and think of the Guru. Non-Sikhs cover their head with a handkerchief or a scarf. Upon entering the hall where Guru Granth Sahib is kept, they may walk slowly towards the Guru Granth Sahib, bow humbly and touch their forehead to the ground in front of the Guru Granth Sahib out of respect and love for the Guru. They may place their offering - money or just words of thanks - respectfully before the Guru. Any sincere expression of gratitude is equally acceptable to the Guru. After bowing and offering, one may sit down in the congregation quietly without disturbing others. Usually men sit on one side and women on the other, in a cross-legged position. People who cannot sit on the floor may avail chairs placed on the other end of the hall. Talking or whispering is not allowed.
History
In 1973, a few New Jersey Sikh families had a desire to have a Gurudwara near their towns, and held a few meetings. In 1974 the GSSA (Garden State Sikh Association) was incorporated as a Sikh Association with its own charter, by-laws and tax exempt status as a religious non-profit organization. The small group started Path and Kirtan in members’ home. In 1979, the present 13 acre Bridgewater property with a small house was purchased. In 1984, construction started to build a Darbar hall. Construction was completed in 1986, and first kirtan in Darbar hall was performed for Vaisakhi celebrations in April 1986.
The congregation attendance grew in the next few decades and soon there was a need to expand. In July 2002, GSSA got approval from the township to start construction. In 2008, construction was complete for a new Darbar hall, kitchen, a new Langar hall, restrooms and several rooms. The old Darbar hall was converted to the Khalsa School and Library.