"Foster care is a temporary home for a child with a caring family. The goal is to safely reunite these children with their birth families. As a foster parent, your impact goes beyond a child - you may have a chance to help an entire family move toward wholeness.
Children in foster care come from all backgrounds. They range in age from birth to age 18. Many have siblings in foster care with them. Most have experienced abuse or neglect.
These children enter foster care through no fault of their own. However, children who have faced trauma sometimes have learned habits or behaviors to keep themselves safe. You can give them a nurturing home where they feel safe to learn new habits.
All of these children are in the protective custody of the state. The ultimate goal of foster care is to reunify children with their birth families.
However, in some situations, the courts decide reunification with the birth family will not be possible. A judge can then decide through a series of court hearings to terminate the parents' legal rights to their child. If both parents have rights terminated, then the child is legally available for adoption, and his or her caseworker may look for an adoptive home."
"The goal for many children in foster care is to safely reunite with their birth families. This is not always possible, and through a series of legal hearings, a judge may terminate the parents' legal rights to their child. If both parents have parental rights terminated, then the child becomes legally available for adoption.
Through adoption, many foster parents choose to become the permanent and legal adoptive parents of children who have been in their approved foster homes. A temporary situation (foster care) then becomes a step forward to a permanent and lifelong commitment (adoption).
By adopting from foster care, you not only make a difference for a child who may have experienced abuse or neglect, but you can impact a whole family. Foster care adoption typically has less upfront cost than private or international adoption. (However, adopting from foster care requires a great amount of time and commitment.) You'll also have support available to you when you adopt from foster care."
"Adoption provides a child with a life-long legal and emotional family relationship. When a child is adopted, that child moves permanently from one family to another family. In the process, all parental rights are legally transferred to the new parents. This means adoptive parents have the same rights and responsibilities as parents whose children were born to them. It also means adopted children have all the emotional, social, legal, and familial benefits of biological children.
Independent adoptions are when the birth or placing parent places directly with the adoptive parent. There are two types of independent adoptions under Kentucky Law, Relative and Non-relative. The law defines relative adoption as one in which the child is "sought to be adopted by a blood relative, including a relative of half-blood, first cousin, aunt, uncle, nephew, niece, and a person of a preceding generation as denoted by prefixes of grand, great, or great-great; stepparent; step-sibling; or fictive kin".
Kentucky families considering adopting a child from another country are encouraged to contact a private agency, licensed in Kentucky, that prepares home studies for international adoptions. Foreign adoption requirements change frequently. Information about which countries are placing children and the timeframes for these placements is available from the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services website."
For more information on Foster Care and Adoption like cost, who can adopt/ foster, and other frequently asked questions, visit adoptuskids.org
There are 153 million orphans in the world
About 50% of the world's population lives in poverty, and 2/3 of those living in poverty are children
There are over 400,000 children in the US Foster Care system
There are approximately 117,000 children ready to be adopted in the US today
About 20,000 youth age out of the foster system every year
Only 1 out of every 2 foster kids who age out of the system will have some form of gainful employment by the age of 24.
There is less than a 3% chance for children who have aged out of foster care to earn a college degree at any point in their life.
Nearly 60% of young men who age out of the foster care system and are legally emancipated have been convicted of a crime.
1 out of every 2 kids who age out of the system will develop a substance dependence.
About 1 in 4 kids who age out of the system will not graduate from high school or be able to pass their GED.
7 out of 10 girls who age out of the foster care system will become pregnant before the age of 21.
75% of women and 33% of men receive government benefits to meet basic needs after they age out of the system.
The percentage of children who age out of the foster care system and still suffer from the direct effects of PTSD: 25%.
Despite all of the challenges, 70% of foster kids regularly say that they would like to attend college one day.
Cyndi. (2017, May 26). 51 useful aging out of foster care statistics: Social Race Media. NFYI. Retrieved July 31, 2022, from https://nfyi.org/51-useful-aging-out-of-foster-care-statistics-social-race-media/
25 million children in the United States live in a home where their biological father is not present. That equates to 1 in every 3 children in the United States not having access to their father.
Children who live in a fatherless home are 279% more likely to deal drugs or carry firearms for offensive purposes compared to children who live with their fathers.
43% of fathers do not see their role as something that is important to their personal identity.
Admin. (2018, October 25). 36 shocking statistics on fatherless homes. Life is Beautiful. Retrieved August 3, 2022, from https://lifeisbeautiful.org/statistics-on-fatherless-homes/
63% of child suicides
71% of pregnant teens
90% of all homeless and runaway children
85% of all youth who exhibit behavior disorders
80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger
71% of all high school dropouts
75% of all adolescents in chemical abuse centers
85% of all youths in prison
60% of all child sex trafficking victims
5x more likely to be poor
33x more likely to be seriously abused
73x more likely to be killed
Darke, P., & McFarland, K. (2014). In pursuit of orphan excellence: My kids, your kids, our kids. Credo House Publishers.
When Helping Hurts book by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert
In Pursuit of Orphan Excellence book by Keith McFarland and Philip Darke
Theology in the Raw podcast - #957 Are Orphanages Doing More Harm Than Good?: Alycia Pinizzotto, #989 Rethinking Orphanages: Brandon Stiver
Video of a mother and her story https://vimeo.com/15851924
True stories from people who aged out of the foster system https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=125729965
6 podcasts about Foster Care, Adoption, and Orphan Care https://lifesong.org/2019/07/6-podcasts/
Podcasts by CAFO https://morethanenough.cafo.org/podcasts/