Why do marriages break? 

 Why do marriages break?

Moon’s position and personality of bride and groom have to be checked before marrying someone with malefic placement of planets as malefic planetary influences, usually are to be blamed for marital mishaps. People who cannot adjust themselves to changing marital situations, go for divorce usually and this is why marriages break.  They are usually low on tolerance and patience, and hence need someone who is kind, caring and considerate.

Apart from matching social status, one must one must have yogas for health, longevity, sound finance, healthy kids, fidelity and committed nature, good mental health, absence of mangalya dosha, mutual harmony, and lastly a matching of at least 22 gunas and above out of 36 that should help the marriage be successful.

Can kundali matching predict marriage break?

Kundli Milan is a compatibility determining tool which takes into account all aspects of marriage especially doshas to see if the couple are well matched. 

Kaal Sarp Dosha is formed when all the major planets are hemmed in between Rahu and Ketu. It can cause a break in academics, or career, business, mental or physical weaknesses, problems in marriage, and so on.

Pitra Dosha is the ancestral debt which we have to pay on behalf of our forefathers as a punishment for their sin. Sun and moon conjunction or Rahu and Ketu conjunction especially in the 1st, 5th, 8th, or 9th houses can create this dosha.

Nadi Dosha can cause difficulties at child birth and host of other health problems.

Manglik Dosha is due to affliction of Mars in the birth chart. It can cause delayed marriage, marital discord, conflicts, and health hazards. But rectifying measures, can negate this effect to a large extent.

Dosha in marriages can bring about dissolution of marriage.

Separation yog in kundali

Following can predict divorce yog in kundali.

•  If the lord of the seventh house is under the influence of the 8th or 12th house or their lords, it may result in separation.

• If there are more than one planet placed in the 7th house, in conjunction with Rahu, will result in breakdown of the marriage.

• Malefic planets occupying the 7th house and aspecting its lord causes divorce. Even Jupiter in the seventh house, causes divorce.

• Moon afflicted by malefics can cause stresses and strains in the relationship. Mars connected to 1,4,7,8,12 houses with another malefic disrupts marital life and separates the couple either by divorce or death.

• The 7th Lord in 6th house aspected by mars will cause unexpected divorce, but if it is aspected by Saturn it will lead to long drawn legal battle which then ends up in divorce.

Problems in married life

Astrological reasons for problems in married life are as given below.

• Weak 7th house and its lord will weaken the bond between the couple. Unsupportive and inconsiderate spouses will disrupt the happiness in marriage.

• Afflicted second and fourth house and its lord will cause fights and conflicts and spoil married happiness.

• Malefic planets like Sun, Mars, Saturn, Rahu, or Ketu in the 7th house cause serious rifts between the couple.

• Venus and Moon in conjunction will not lead to a happy marriage.

• If Moon, Mars, Venus or Sun and Moon are in 7th house, the wife will have an extra marital affair due to husband’s instigation and hence will remain unhappy.

• Rahu in 4th house in a female’s chart, indicates an unhappy married life and if he is afflicted the woman will have the problem of the other woman.

•  If 7th house is posited with the malefic planet and 7th lord is his enemy, the woman will have constant quarrels with the husband.

• When Saturn is in the 7th house, which is not his own house or his house of exaltation, the husband of this woman will be averse to her.

One must seek astrological help by getting an astro report for problems in married life analysed from an able astrologer.

Chances of Second Marriage

Some astrological combinations for a second marriage are given below. 

• Malefic influences on 2nd and 7th house, can cause more than two marriages.

• Second marriage is indicated if the Lord of 7th house is in the 4th or lord of 9th house is in the 7th house.

• Conjunction of Mars and Venus in 7th house and lord of 7th house in the 8th house and Saturn posited in the 12th house shows the presence of a second marriage. 

• When the 7th lord is Exalted, a second marriage is indicated.

• If the 7th house is a Dual sign or 7th lord occupies Gemini or Sagittarius or Pisces, two marriages are indicated.

• If the 2nd House from Lagna is strong and free from Malefic influence, a happy Second marriage is indicated.

These studies come under the category of Marriage astrology that deals with marriage problems and solutions. It takes into account all astrological aspects that rule this aspect of marital life and offers remedies.

Conclusion:

Happy marriage is a matter of luck that is heaven ordained.  Planets, as per our karma of previous lifetime, decide how and with whom we will be matched in this birth.  For some, it comes as a life lesson to be learnt whereas for some it is seen as a reward from destiny for their good deeds. It is really a complicated question as to why marriages fail.

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