Originally, we had intended to name our blog and podcast “the Tension of Opposites” after a Jungian term and the title of my Master’s thesis about the dual role and dual training of probation officers. After some research, we found there was a podcast in its infancy with the same name and opted to respect the hard work of the folks producing the podcast. In deciding upon a new name, we requested some feedback from our friends on social media. In a fascinating thread the idea of “the Dialectic” was recommended, as was the concept of “collaboration”. Both fit the mission of Constellation Training and Consulting (CCT).

Several years ago, I was trained to facilitate a Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) group process. DBT is a psychotherapy designed by Psychologist Marsha Linehan as an intervention for people suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder. It is currently a modality used to treat a spectrum of suffering. Whereas most practitioners of DBT are drawn to the mindfulness practices which are a core component of DBT, I found myself fascinated with the concept of the dialectic, and as much so the concept of radical acceptance. These concepts remind me of the Jungian tradition in which I studied, most notably The Tension of Opposites and the Jungian construct of shadow (that which is unconscious, repressed, or and/or generates shame). The dictionary defines dialectic as “the art of investigating or discussing the truth of opinions.” In DBT, the dialectic refers to sets of opposites, and recognizes opposites can exist at the same time. When we learn radical acceptance, or withdrawing good/bad judgments, we can move toward accepting that not only do opposites exist at the same time, but neither is inherently right or wrong. When we learn to withdraw judgement, we can accept the parts of us as individuals and society in which we are righteous about (light) or ashamed about (shadow), and can enter in to meaningful dialogue with one another.

So, what does this have to do with Constellation Consulting and Training?

Most of us, regardless of profession or political affiliation, can recognize the growing divisions in our society. This is specifically true when we talk about law enforcement or policing, public policy, education, and community health. CCT, and specifically the Dialectic Collaborative, is intended to foster honest and safe spaces, where we work to withdraw the judgement and enter meaningful dialogue with one another. We intend this to be an honest space for law enforcement professionals and public officials to enter into dialogue with community activists, educators, and behavioral health clinicians to help make our communities safer, more equitable, and less divided. We would love it if you were to join with us!

Mark Mautner, CCT