Not all video calls are an instant blast or fun. Filling awkward silences, miscommunication, or conflicting attitudes can destroy the momentum of a conversation in an instant. Mastering how to avoid them can make all the difference in your experience. (lucky crusher)
The first is to come onto each call with an open and respectful mind. Don't make assumptions or ask personal questions at this stage. Let the call progress in a natural way. If you see the topic creating unease for the other person, turn around nicely. Clear communication is important—but so is active listening.
Reading between the lines is also essential. If the individual gives curt responses, averts their eyes, or seems agitated, he/she may not be completely comfortable. Don't press the issue in such instances. Instead, end the call politely or offer a talk with another person. Common sense and empathy must be your guiding principles in such instances.
Having a few safe conversation topics in one's pocket can be handy, too. Movies, music, holidays, or sports are good ice-breakers. Avoid inflammatory subjects like politics, religion, or personal facts when just starting a conversation. As in life, allow the conversation to develop over time.
If the individual is behaving in a way they should not or the conversation is making you uncomfortable, don't be shy to use the features of the platform. Hanging up a call, reporting, or blocking is self-preservation and not rudeness. You can choose who you want to speak with and how long you want to. Always respect and feel at ease.
The timing of your video calls can greatly influence the quality of your experience. While platforms are available 24/7, not every time of day offers the same number or diversity of users. Choosing the right time increases your chances of making authentic, enjoyable connections.
In general, afternoons and late evenings tend to be the busiest. People will usually login after work or school, with increased users to meet and encounter someone who will have similar interests as you. During these blocks of time, there are more relaxed conversations without the limitation of time.
If you prefer quieter, more introspective communication, morning periods or Saturday/Sunday mornings may work. While there may be fewer active members in these times, the active members who happen to be online tend to yearn for more intense discussions. It may proceed at a slower pace, but it could be truer.
When communicating with global users, time zones come into play. That which would be late at night for you will be noon to someone else. If you plan to interact abroad, spend some time learning about when folks in your destination area are busiest. This will place your own availability on the same wavelength as theirs.
There is no single "ideal" time to schedule a video call. The best schedule will depend on your goals, energy level, and target meet-up person. Try out times at different points in the day and see when your most enjoyable discussions are. Personal experience will always surpass blanket advice.