when you are tempted to get angry
When you are afraid
Ephesians 6
When you feel hurt
Philippians 4:8 -- when you want to snap back or start to gossip...
(Galatians 5)
How to say "no" to the rebel
Joyce Meyer has an excellent essay about rebellion and the ego. Me me me me me me
The full essay by Joyce Meyer appears here
Page 102 The Merismos