Parents teaching for struggles — leading to inhuman values

​Autumn days and vacations, no big plans no big ideas to enjoy other than spending evening time in park surrounded by green trees. I love spending time at parks, the best place to observe children and their parents interaction with them. It just give you a rough idea that what’s trending now a days — the parenting style — their opinion about child struggles in existing society.

So yesterday’s observation is must share with you all.

What will you do if your child got hurt on sliders because of play behaviour of other children and he/she comes running right away to you saying that “mumma my leg got hurt, the other child pushed me from the slider” ?

Yes you are right, the first obvious answer generally comes in my mind is- “it’s okay beta, it happens while you play”

But Nooooooo, time has changed, people are more aware about their rights now a days, they know and believe in fighting for their rights..

The real words said by real mom in real situation considering real worlds were,” usse darne ki jarurat nahi hai, tumne bhi use bataya kyu nahi usi samay, bolte Aj meri mumma yahin hai. Jao wapas wahin khelo Aur Khud ke liye lado. Aj Kal ka jamana aisa hi hai beta ladai karke hi jeet hasil hoti hai, bina ladai kiye kuch milta nahi hai.”

Impressive….quiet impressive na….yes we are making them prepare for future world…where war and conflict are more common than love and peace…then why to seek for and put effort for rare things like love and peace….get into the things which are everywhere around..

Thank God parents are preparing their kids for hatred, fights, conflicts and war!

Pyar se cheezon ka solve karna ye to ab “un dino ki baat hai”.