On the one hand, fear can be limiting and debilitating, and on the other hand, for some people, fear can be a source of energy and power. Fear can significantly impact how we conduct our daily lives and greatly affect the level of resilience one can exude. In the excerpts below, each member of the group has shared an example of how they would encourage the people who have experienced a disaster to face fear to enable them to increase their level of resilience.
In a community where shared spaces are central to social gatherings, resources would be incredibly low after a natural disaster. Social media would play an important role in bringing people together for improving morale as well as to help locate resources and identify which needs would need to be met by members of the group. Social media is also largely accessible and has a low financial cost.
These two articles combined paint a picture about how social media could be useful in a disaster situation for the LGBTQ community:
Kuhr, E. (2020, April, 5). Coronavirus pandemic a perfect storm for LGBTQ homeless youth. NBC News. https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/coronavirus-pandemic-perfect-storm-lgbtq-homeless-youth-n1176206
Lopez, C. (2020, April, 28). How LGBTQ teens are building community online while quarantined. Insider. https://www.insider.com/lgbtq-teens-are-building-community-online-while-quarantined-2020-4
When someone has been through a traumatic experience, such as a major earthquake, I would encourage them to face their fears by connecting with nature. This can include taking a walk on the beach and feeling the sand through their feet, or hiking in the mountains listening to nature’s noises such as the wind blowing and the birds chirping. I would also recommend listening to the sound of ocean waves and waterfalls to not only face the fear with a natural disaster such as an earthquake, but also to recognize the beautiful aspects of nature. Overtime, I think this would help with transitioning the person’s perspective from one of fear to one of relaxation. According to Southwick and Charney (2018), it is possible for the brain to relearn and re-associate with something. For example, what once used to lead to a fearful and terrifying feeling can over time be associated with a positive and relaxing feeling, if the person is willing to actively face their fear. Another important method to face one’s fear is to do so with other individuals whom the person has an established and trusting relationship with, such as loved ones. For example, the victim can experience nature on the beach or in the mountains with their loved ones. And yet another method is to use the help of a professional, such as a psychiatrist, to walk the person through their fear and analyze this feeling and the experience up close. In the case of an earthquake, this could mean actively analyzing the victim’s thoughts and feelings with respect to the trauma they have experienced in the earthquake.
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Red Cross has some excellent support on their website. There is information to get support 24/7 from a counselor and additionally there is a ton of information on the website. I like that there is information that clearly normalizes how people might be feeling. Especially normalizes feelings that people might be ashamed to be feeling such as emotional responses of depression and irritability. There is also information about bereavement and financial recovery. So I would encourage someone who is going through the aftermath of a natural disaster to reach out to the Red Cross website for supportive help.
Disaster relief & recovery services. (2021). Retrieved April 17, 2021, from https://www.redcross.org/get-help/disaster-relief-and-recovery-services.html
I fully believe in the power of exposure therapy as long as it's performed in a controlled manner and administered by a trained professional. A friend of mine lost his legs in Afghanistan in the early days of the war. He suffered nightmares, intense PTSD, and struggled through his life for a significant amount of time. He tried psychotherapy, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), and other holistic treatments. Until he was invited into a study on controlled exposure therapy, toning worked. He wouldn't tell anybody what happened. But through controlled exposure therapy he slowly began to face his fear and process the event that not only took his legs but killed all of his friends riding in the tank. He spoke of experiences and talked about his trauma for the first time. As mentioned in a paper on the benefits of exposure therapy, Zoellner, et al, says "Some clinicians are afraid to ever ask the question or hear the answer to, “What actually happened?” For individuals with PTSD, exposure therapy provides a means to directly and therapeutically approach this question," (Zoellner et al., 2011). There are many other options and having somebody relive their trauma or exposing them to situations that trigger memories of their trauma is a tricky thing. But I've seen it work. And would recommend it to those who have survived a disaster.
Zoellner, L. A., Feeny, N. C., Bittinger, J. N., Bedard-Gilligan, M. A., Slagle, D. M., Post, L. M., & Chen, J. A. (2011). Teaching trauma-focused exposure therapy for PTSD: Critical clinical lessons for novice exposure therapists. Psychological Trauma: Theory, Research, Practice, and Policy, 3(3), 300–308. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0024642
"So, if we think of our fears as more than just fears but as stories, we should think of ourselves as the author of those stories. But just as importantly, we need to think of ourselves as the readers of our fears, and how we choose to read our fears can have a profound effect on our lives (Walker, 2012). I like this tip of viewing "fear" as stories. Stories which we are the author. The examples that Walker mentioned in her short video showed how we can manage fear by writing our story and by understanding our story.
Helping Haitians face their fear of having another earthquake would be helping them to be better prepared for future natural disasters. This would be helping them gain information about earthquakes and other natural disasters, why they occur, practicing what to do when one occurs. Training would help them learn what they need to have as far as supplies and respond like it is second nature. This would be in the form of things like earthquake drills and putting systems into place that alert the villages of an impending disaster. Another strategy would be using spiritual support. Spirituality is already important to the people in Haiti.
This is more of an opinion answer than one I can find a source to back me up. I tend to be a fearful person who once accomplishes the thing I am afraid of, looks back and says that wasn't so bad. I have never been in a natural or man-made disaster for which I am thankful. I have been adjacent to disaster though as my brother was in Houston when it flooded, family was in Mississippi after Katrina, and have had near misses with tornados and hurricanes. Overcoming fear isn't always for me about facing that fear head on but more about finding a different path to accomplish that fear. Coming at the thing I fear from an angle tends to lead to more success than just facing it head on. I was afraid of going to college because of fear of failure, but while in the Navy I did a school to specialize in my field and I was top of my class. Every time I was afraid of starting college, I reminded myself of that small win and it made taking every next step just slightly easier. For those in a disaster, I would suggest finding those easy wins that aren't necessarily the big fear but adjacent to it and work up to facing the biggest fear. For most in disaster, it's the losses that hit the hardest, so when faced with the fear of overcoming those losses, start with the smallest loss and face it.
I think that the things will encourage people to face fear in a sensitive manner to increase the level of their resilience is to desensitize the trauma they experienced before gradually. Personally, I have never been through a big nature disaster, however, I watched earthquake and heavy flood through TV many times. The nature disasters are often very powerful! They may destroyed the buildings, and take your loved ones away. There are so many uncertainties after the disasters! One way to reduce fear is to view fear as an opportunity, focus on the goal or mission and find out the information about what is feared. Attending groups will also help you face fear in an appropriate manner.
Reference:
How to Increase Your Resilience as a Leader (April, 7th, 2020). Center for Creative Leadership. https://www.ccl.org/articles/leading-effectively-articles/4-tips-will-increase-resiliency-leader/
The examples provided above show us that we should not view fear as an obstacle. We shall face our fears by viewing this emotion as an opportunity, and as something that should be investigated and taken on with the proper support. This should be done so that fear does not stop or delay our normal behaviors and activities but provides more opportunity for growth.