Stress doesn't only affect our thoughts. It often shows up in the body as a clenched jaw, tight shoulders, a tense stomach, restless legs, or muscles that stay braced long after the stressful moment has passed.
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) is a simple, evidence-based technique that helps you become more aware of where you're holding tension and gently teaches your body how to let it go.
The practice involves intentionally tightening one muscle group at a time for a few seconds, then slowly releasing it. By experiencing the contrast between tension and relaxation, your nervous system becomes better at recognizing when your body is carrying unnecessary stress.
Many people find that Progressive Muscle Relaxation helps them feel calmer, sleep more easily, reduce physical tension, and reconnect with their bodies.
When we are stressed, the body often carries the tension... our muscles tighten, our jaw clenches, our shoulders rise. Sometimes we become so accustomed to holding tension that we do not realize we are doing it.
Progressive Muscle Relaxation makes that tension more noticeable by intentionally creating a small amount of it before releasing.
Over time, this can help you become more aware of early signs of stress and practice letting go of unnecessary muscular tension.
PMR has also been used as a relaxation strategy for anxiety, stress, sleep difficulties, and physical tension.
You might try Progressive Muscle Relaxation:
At the end of a stressful day
Before sleep
When your body feels tense or restless
After an emotionally difficult conversation
Before a stressful event
When you notice yourself clenching your jaw or shoulders
During periods of anxiety
As part of a regular calming routine
You do not have to wait until your stress feels overwhelming, practicing when you are relatively calm can help the technique feel more familiar when you really need it.