"Male or female" will always be distinct.
The divine gender takes the same meaningful stance in those two rolemodels. A real man, I wish to be (said Yoda). If I were a woman (Leela?), I would strive for other expressionism related to the figure I play/work as.
Let me use music to conveye the two gender mystiques:
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The first one "AC-DC" is the feminine mystique, and the other "The Living Daylights", is the male equivalent.
I violated a principle embedding YouTube videos on this page for written material only. But this was neccessary as I try to vary the levels of understanding freely without limitation. Limitations are part of the masculine.
The masculine is solid and rigid, it is predefined and bold. The feminine is endless and non-determined and can be taken as far as far goes. The pairing of these two strengths, result in supreme power.
No other force is as absolute and the game of love between girls and boys makes the world go round and creates the greatest dynamics in social play. Flirtation and other adoring acts between the two, is the basis for our society.
Love is when life's harmonious between these two.
The quest for gender identity has overtones and undertones. Reproduction is the survival of a species and is driven by biological love to keep it going. The male and female biologies are actually based upon meta-genetics of the soul. Here's why:
As said on the "Light vs Dark" subpage, many primordial beings felt many distinct feelings but mostly it confined into love or hatred. Evil is masculine and the endless battle between bold men is a whole story of its own. Therefore, without the plus and minus activation, these dynamics would cease to exist.
A world with only women would be peaceful meanwhile the contrary wouldn't be.
This is Yin/Yang and balance is number one always. The inbalance between these polarities, is the ancestor to disease. Mental illness can be attributed to inbalanced Yin/Yang. Those illnesses are non-divine, but mental health is commonly spoken about and is really related to dabblings of gender. Onto this building block, those who find them in trouble with their own identity, are uncomfortable in their bodies and seek ways to circumvent it maybe with gender change.
I know I would actually be Leela -- a genderless female humanoid with black hair and self-illuminating blue eyes. I'm proud of who I am, but I wish I was more. That next step I will climb when I have finally reached the forbidden paradise created via the chamber of God (The Trophy Room). I said genderless, but God is beyond gender.
So, why do I write this text about gender if it's replaceable from present tense? Because this is present in time, the time you are reading this will make your age increase if you take more time to read (recursively). The divine gender is later finalized with internal work upon the soul and has an instinct to never die and reach immortality.
Now the forbidden missing aspect:
Aging deteriorates the natural quality of the human. The long sought after all young beautiful nice looking girl, is lessened through aging. The divine thing is to keep young and healthy as long as possible and keep learning.
When you have reached farther milestones of manifesting your inherited gender qualities, you will either be a real man or a real woman. There's a reason my Gods and Goddesses are either male or female avatars of perfection. The twin-souled person like me is the most beautiful thing there is because of fusioning the two genders. In the primordial pagan world, my gender was called "the third sex".
About this game of love again, sexuality is the crown. This very human activity has turned many people desirable for one another. But there can be tremendous hangups and many other related ugly things to it.
Twin-soul people are the solution to the lack of intimacy that cannot even be found in the same good manner with the regular genders. Love should be true and well spent. Merging as two souls in one body is a never ending bond of intimacy. Partners can seperate often because of mortality and death.
I could be taking it even further... maybe I will. But now the most important thing is to find perfection in every little detail of close relationed life with the soul you have affection for.
Ah, this predatory hunting for love!
~~888~~, Leela forever!