SUCCESS MANTRA

DE-STRESS FOR SUCCESS IN LIFE:12-9-06

Modern life is peculiar for young and old, child and adult, man and woman.

The life becomes very fast. It is always complained as if 24 hours a day is not enough for a day.

The result is STRESS – PHYSICAL, MENTAL & INTELLECTUAL.

Then life becomes an ordeal. Sense of discomfort and failure start haunting you. You fail to develop relations and maintain it. Then you feel lonely.There will be discomfort, conflict and confrontation in all your relations and spheres of activities.You stand at cross roads in domestic and official fronts.

Deliberate stress management is needed to DE - STRESS and make you successful in life.

Do you want to destress yourself and enjoy successful life?

Here are a series of TIPS to make you destress and become successful.

I am offering this section because some of my former students, I think sree, denisy , smita ? , asked for a topic on stress management.

1.FIND GOODNESS IN HIM/HER :24-10-06

God created human with a pinch of HIS OWN GOODNESS. So every man and woman has that GOD given good qualities: kindness, talent, love, care and character within him/her. Unfortunately you fail to identify that good qualities in others .

You think that others around you do not have the qualities : kindness, talent, love, care and character that you desperately seek.

Then you become STRESSED.

You feel lonely and unhappy. You become short tempered and agitated.

You start loosing your talent .You think that all these misshapenness are due to people around .Is it really true?

Remember GOD is kind enough to give a pinch of all his good qualities to human.

So LOOK DEEP… DEEP INTO THE EYES of your friend to find out the GOODNESS.

You can see there shining crystals of goodness in people around you.

RECOGONISE it and enjoy the miracle of joy.

Recognition makes your friend happy. You will also be HAPPY.

Happiness is contagious.

HAPPINESS TRANSMITS FROM ONE PERSON TO OTHER.

2.BE A GOOD LISTENER:12-11-06

Human being has multifaceted personality. He/She has multiple functions to carry out.

He/She has multiple roles to perform.

Playing and performance are different in the sense that performance is an integration of physic, intellect and soul. In performance you can do that little extra to make action perfect.

You all intend to become perfect.

Remember, human is a social being.

So you have to perform in domestic and social fronts. There you interact with young and old; youth and adult; man and woman; kith and kin; friend and enemy; familiar and unfamiliar; boss and subordinate etc etc..

See , your circle is very big.

If you are not careful in interacting with such a big audience, sure , you may derail. Stress again!Don’t worry.

Here is a sweet tablet. Chew it deliciously.

SEEK OPINION!.

Your every word and action affect some of these people around you directly or indirectly.

If your word or action causes discomfort to any one of them, you will inturn become uncomfortable. So seek opinion from the people who is going to be affected by your word or deed.

When others talk and open up their mind , you be an ACTIVE LISTENER.

Active listener is one who encourages the speaker by his simple involments.

The speaker will be happy ---he/she will open up his mind to you.

Thus you ensure his/her support .

Remember – happiness transmits.

Now keep in mind his/her wishes when you perform.

Go STRAIGHT! Always turn RIGHT in all WAYS!!

Wish You Good Luck.

3.Discover yourself & be successful.:2012-06

Thank you Kiran for your response.I am happy that you attended the class.It prompts me....to continue with the class.

Dear Students,We live in a highly competitive world. Where ever you are , you need to be prepared to face challenges from a competitor from any other part of the world.

This may be a fall out of globalization.

So the modern youth needs to be competent.

He need to have attributes and skills to match his counterpart elsewhere in the globe.

The modern youth therefore needs to develop a global outlook.

India has a very vast higher education system. There are 17000 colleges in our country where 100 lakh students are getting educated.

But please understand that 100 lakhs of students are only 6-7 percent of the youth in the age group 17-21.

So every one of you belong to that lucky few to get the light of education to enlighten your path.

Education is for emancipation.

Education should inculcate nectar of qualities in your life.

As a true teacher I believe that this is yet another opportunity given by God to instill in you Good thoughts.

A man is always his thoughts.

God has created every one of us with ample potentials to become successful in life. We need to develop an insight to identify the potentials and make proper use of it.

Have you heard of humming bird. It is the smallest bird. It has weight one tenth of a pound.

It cannot fly high in the sky or dive like an eagle.

But remember it can swing its wings 75 times per second and drink nectar from flower in swinging position.

You know Ostrich, the biggest bird. It cannot fly.

But it can run with a speed 50 miles per hour with strides of 15 ft.

It can beat its enemy in that way.

Both the birds are successful with the God given qualities in their life.

Please have introspection and look out for your better attributes.

Discover yourself.

Discover the strength in you, unleash the power within you and Become successful.

May God Bless You. Good Luck.

ATTITUDE

It is ATTITUDE that determines your ALTITUDE.

Every one is fond of success.But to reap success one need to sow effort.

To put in effort , one need to have positive attitude.

Edmund Hillari conqured mount everest and became part of history.

He was then asked to point out the single most difficult hurdle he had to overcome in conquering mount everest.

" My MIND. " He replied.

He had to conquer his mind first before he could conquer mount everst.

Mind keeps tendancy to drag you behind and drift you away.

Overcome that to conquer success.

SUCCESS is never an accident.

You need to PLAN to make it happen.

GET READY TO PLAN NOW, DEVELOP POSITIVE ATTITUDE.

BE SUCCESSFUL.

GOOD LUCK.

ATTITUDE...2

Prof William James of Harward University says that' Human can ALTER his life by altering his ATTITUDE'.

A study at the University of Harward revealed that a student in the university secures a placement 85% due to his attitude and 15% due to his intelligence and knowledge of facts and figures.

Remember the Biblical story of DAVID & GOLIATH.

Goliath was a giant monster. He terrified every one around.

David the shepherd boy asked his brothers to resist actions of Goliath.

They fearfully reminded David that Goliath is too big a giant to hit and fight with.

" OK , He is too big to hit that I will not miss him".David replied.

The rest is history.

David killed the giant monster and emerged successful.

The same giant but different perception --ATTITUDE.

Successful persons donot do different things , but they do things differently.

The foundation of success is ATTITUDE.

Attitude is such a critical factor in success.

So you examine your attitude towards life and analyse how does it affect your GOALS.

RESET & REFRESH if required.

Reap SUCCESS.

GOOD LUCK.

THE MIND

"Almai Vahyath Mano Bandhu

Almai Vari Purathmana: " says Bhagavath Gita.

It means that ......

Mind is your best friend....

It could be your worst enemy too....

Success come to success concious people.You will become successful if you think of your potentialitues to become successful.

Your capabilities can be sharpened on becomming success concious.You will loose if you are frightened with thoughts of failure.

Success doesn't mean absence of any failure; it means winning the ultimate objectives.

It means winning the war not every battle.

The Philosopher Emerson says ....

" YOU ARE YOUR THOUGHTS. AS YOU THINK -----SO YOU ARE"

So think positively. Think of success and become successful!

GOOD LUCK.

LIFE IS A SONG -----SING IT

SING AS IF NO ONE IS LISTENING

DANCE AS IF NO ONE IS WATCHING

LIVE AS IF HEAVEN IS HERE ON EARTH

KEEP SMILING

LIFE IS A RARE GUEST,

KEEP SMILING TO IT.

LIFE IS A PRECIOUS GEM,

KEEP IT SHINING.

BE A FRUIT:

Every short coming is a chance given to us by GOD for becoming GOOD.

It is an unripe fruit that gets ripen . A ripe fruit gets only rotten.SO BE A FRUIT THAT RIPENS.

VERY BEST WISHES.