Dialogue is a unique type of conversation in which students listen to each other’s stories and experiences in a supportive community setting. The idea is to create shared understanding, rather than competing for the best points. As educator and philosopher David Bohm (1996) said, dialogue is a “win-win” form of communication.
In 2020, William Peace University introduced dialogue in its Honors Program, with every Honors student learning to facilitate scripted dialogues using our L.E.A.R.N. process and participating on a team to promote, host, and lead at least one dialogue. Over the years, we’ve learned a lot about how to lead effective dialogues on our campus. We want to share our For Students, By Students Dialogue process here because we believe facilitated dialogues are a crucial tool for building a campus culture where students can:
Share life experiences and observations;
Listen to diverse perspectives;
Move beyond polarities;
Discover innovative solutions; and
Engage in group meaning-making that fosters a sense of belonging.
On this website, you’ll find everything you need to host a For Students, By Students Dialogue - information about dialogue, a template to help you script your dialogue, question prompts to spark great conversations, sample dialogues, and facilitation tips.
“Dialogue is important because it’s a form of peacebuilding through communication. It allows others’ perspectives to be heard in an environment that is non-judgmental and not oppressive. Dialogue differs from debate because we’re not arguing over which side is right or wrong.”
"I gained valuable insights into enhancing my communication skills, especially when handling challenging subjects. Learning the art of addressing difficult topics effectively is essential, and this dialogue was instrumental in honing those skills."
"I felt that it was a very open and supportive space where people could contribute without fear of judgment. I also enjoyed hearing different perspectives and learning new insights that I likely wouldn’t have encountered otherwise."
While people often conflate the terms dialogue, discussion, and debate, dialogue facilitators need to understand how these methods of communication differ.
Dialogue is a cooperative conversation focused on maintaining a psychologically safe environment where participants listen carefully to each community member and share openly. Dialogue prioritizes empathy and curiosity as participants seek to understand and learn from one another's perspectives. In dialogue, participants don't try to persuade one another; they trust in the collective wisdom of the group and seek to deepen understanding. It's a positive-sum game, where everyone wins together.
Debate is a competitive form of communication with the goal of persuasion. The focus is on defending one's own position and critiquing others' positions. It's a zero-sum game, where the stronger argument wins.
Discussion, often referred to as "serial monologuing," focuses on exchanging information, opinions, and ideas. Typically, emotions and personal experiences are left out of discussions. While not overtly competitive, discussions do not focus on actively listening to others; discussions, therefore, do not necessarily foster an openness to being transformed by the conversation.
For more information about the distinctions between dialogue, discussion, and debate, see Nagda, Gurin, Rodriguez, and Maxwell's (2008) resource that outlines the key distinctions in greater detail. You will find additional resources on our dialogue references and readings list.