0:50: What is Quest?
5:55: Underlying skill goals of Quest
7:18: Challenges of Quest and how Parents can help
14:28: ~~~~ FAQs ~~~~
14:30: Is this every year?
15:43: Can they do the same Quest over multiple years?
16:20: Can they do a Group Quest with a friend?
17:03: Can they "double-dip"?
18:17: What should I do if I don't like their Quest idea?
20:13: Are we supposed to pay for Quest ourselves?
21:33: Should I help them sign up for classes or find mentors?
23:09: What should I do if my student is behind on Quest?
Be there for them when they get stuck. Lend a sympathetic ear and be a sounding board.
"What are your ideas for Quest?" "What are you stuck on?" "What are you worried about?"
Be logistics support as needed (transportation, etc), but also encourage them to try figuring it out themselves first.
"Happy to drive but you'll need to tell me when and where", "That's a great idea! Do you need money/time/space for that?", "If you have a sense of what type of help you need, I can ask around..."
Let them be creative and messy, don't worry about creating a shiny product
"I've really enjoyed seeing you figure this stuff out yourself!", "Hey, it's okay as long as you learned something from the process", "Don't worry, it doesn't have to be perfect for Quest Expo"
Give it an extracurricular slot -- remind them not fill every extra moment
It's probably about ~10 hours per month
Check in with their Quest needs before scheduling family vacations
Encourage them to ask for help when they get stuck
"Is there anyone you can talk to about this?", "Have you considered asking ..."
Help them practice reaching out politely and professionally to people they don't know
Join the Quest Database to be a resource for Questies
Aug-October: Getting started, research and prep, some false starts
Be a listener, not a critic! Say yes, especially when they ask for resources
Keep an eye out for indecision and initial speedbumps and be around to help them find the project that feels like the right stretch.
Nov-Mid-January: Getting on track, work over breaks, potential pivot
Give the gift of time! Especially over Thanksgiving/Winter break and long weekends.
Keep an eye out for potential pivot and be around to guide them
Feb-April: Locking in, deadline-driven grind, mild panic
Be their cheerleader! Ask them what they need (resources, connections, moral support)
Keep an eye out for perfectionism and imposter syndrome. Reassure them that it’s about the process and not the product.
For more granular month-by-month details: see Quest Timeline
Parents, thank you for stopping by here to learn more about the Quest program and how you can support your student's Quest at home. 🙏🏼
Quest is about curiosity and exploration, not product. Quest is a space for your kid to experiment without worrying about grades or failure, a place to try something new and get messy, a place to pursue interests outside of the academic. They don't need to have some shiny, finished, polished product to show off by Quest Expo in April. Instead, this process helps them learn how to start with a vague idea and make it concrete and actionable and organize a long-term project. Quest is where we want students to be able to gain practice with "learning how to learn" and dealing with the frustrations of not having clear paths laid out for them. Whatever they go on to do beyond their time at Nueva, the world they are entering is incredibly complex and full of thorny, ambiguous, and frustrating problems. Though their four years of "Questing", we hope they will begin to feel more comfortable navigating ambiguity and figuring what strategies work for them for staying motivated, even when the path ahead seems super murky, muddy, and frustrating. Let them learn by doing.
Part of this is also letting go, as parents, traditional ideas of "useful" or "productive" projects. A student can practice these larger life skills whether they are learning Esperanto and then trying translate a children's book into their newly acquired language 📖, or figuring out how to turn their crochet hobby into a vehicle for climate change activism 🧶, or attempting to design an escape room for hamsters 🐹. Let your kids be creative and messy.
Try to think of Quest as a student-driven extra-curricular. Let them take lead on this -- be there as a sounding board, encourage exploration, and help them carve out time and space for Quest. You are the cheerleader and the logistics support! And, hard as it may be to sit in the passenger seat of a student driver, give them space to struggle.
Have some cool experience, skill, or knowledge that you'd like to share? Be a resource for Questies when they're stuck!