Helping children face their fears is essential but can be especially challenging for those with anxiety. Here are some approaches to empower your child to be braver, even when it’s hard:
Celebrate Small Wins
Every small step counts. Recognizing tiny moments of bravery can boost their confidence. Whether it's trying something new or speaking up, show appreciation for each effort.
Model Calmness
Children observe adult reactions closely. Show calmness in your own responses to stressful situations, helping them learn from your behavior.
Progress Step-by-Step
Anxiety can make large goals overwhelming. Break them down into manageable steps. If your child is anxious about social situations, for example, encourage them to engage gradually, such as waving or smiling before diving into conversations.
Acknowledge Their Feelings
Recognize and validate their fears. Phrases like, “I know this is hard, but you’re doing great,” can provide comfort and remind them that you’re supportive.
Teach Coping Techniques
Equip your child with simple techniques like deep breathing, grounding exercises, or visualization. When they feel empowered with these tools, they’re better prepared to face anxiety-inducing moments.
By guiding your child through small steps, validating their feelings, and modeling positive behaviors, you can help them build resilience and encourage bravery, one step at a time.
Ms Zanthe Ng,
Senior School Counsellor
(Whole School)
Mr Daniel Tan,
Counsellor
(Whole School)
Ms Lori Ercan,
Counsellor
(Whole School)