November's Theme is: Kindness!
November's SEL theme is kindness, defined for students as the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate.
Students are read The Power of One by Trudy Ludwig, a story about how one act of kindness can set off a chain reaction of positive change.
What Research Says
Perhaps the most useful and powerful of all social-emotional skills, kindness can be viewed as a foundational skill upon which other important social-emotional skills are built. For this reason, teaching and reinforcing kindness as a skill that should be practiced and celebrated is especially apt at the beginning of a new school year. In a 2023 study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology, researchers Warren, Braun, and Schonert-Reichl explored the integrality of kindness to flourishing school communities, particularly at the elementary level. The study adopts the premise that kindness reflects far more than 'being nice' and instead encompasses several specific virtues, such as compassion, generosity, and gratitude.
The researchers explored the importance of well-developed kindness schemas (i.e. accessible mental representations) for children to influence prosocial behavior: "A child who has a well-developed schema of kindness has a general sense of what kindness means; has seen kindness modeled in various ways by parents, teachers, and peers and therefore it comes to mind often; and can generate different kindness responses that fit various situations. Their elaborate network of mental representations about kindness helps them ‘see’ the kindness-relevance of daily situations, and supports a range of kind behaviors, whether by offering emotional comfort (compassion), playing with the new student (inclusion), or thanking a classmate for their help (gratitude). As such, mental representations are critical ingredients that serve as the intermediates between environmental inputs and virtuous responses. Indeed, mental representations are linked to real-world behavior within the moral domain . . . . Moreover, focusing on mental representations is important from an educational perspective because they develop through learning processes (Warren et al., 2023)."
Concluding their findings, the authors continued to posit that helping children build strong kindness schemas by explicitly teaching, practicing, and reinforcing acts of kindness is critical to supporting children's moral and social development and the fostering of positive school communities: "Evidence indicated that children with more robust kindness repertoires were . . . more accepted by their peers and had closer and less conflictual relationships with their teachers" (Warren et al., 2023). This study further supports existing research demonstrating the social benefits to children who are viewed as kind by their peers, as well as the emotional benefits inherent to performing acts of kindness regardless of response.
Warren, M., Braun, S. & Schonert-Reichl, K. (2023). A virtues approach to children’s kindness schemas. The Journal of Positive Psychology, 19(2), 301–314.
School-Wide Activity
For the school-wide activity to support kindness, students are invited to help build the Mitchell Kindness Worm by adding paper segments that represents acts of kindness they've done or witnessed. Students are encouraged to help our Kindness Worm wrap around the school through acts of kindness!
Throughout the month of November, students will focus on kindness by:
Using kind words ("Come play with us," "Please," "Great job!" "Are you okay?")
Helping others
Including others
Using kind and safe touches
Books on Kindness
A Sick Day for Amos McGee: K Philip C. Stead & Erin E. Stead
Chrysanthemum: Kevin Henkes
Mufaro’s Beautiful Daughters: John Steptoe
Each Kindness: Jacqueline Woodson
Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: Carol McCloud
Enemy Pie: Derek Munson
Horton Hears a Who: Dr. Seuss
Last Stop on Market Street: Matt de la Peña
I Walk With Vanessa: Kerascoët
My Heart: Corinna Luyken
Those Shoes: Maribeth Boelts
Counting Kindness: Hollis Kurman
Kindness Makes Us Strong: Sophie Beer
I Am a Kindness Hero: Jennifer Adams
What Does It Mean To Be Kind?: Rana DiOrio
The Power of One: Trudy Ludwig
Tani’s New Home: Tanitoluwa Adewumi
A Small Kindness: Stacy McAnulty
Kindness is a Kite String: Michelle Schaub
Home Support
To support the theme of kindness at home, please feel free to explore the following discussion questions!
Discussion Questions:
What does kindness look like in someone else?
How does it feel to be kind?
How does it feel to have kindness done for you, especially if it surprises you?
Why do you think kindness matters? What is the power of kindness?
Are there times it's hard for you to show kindness? What makes it hard? What can you do to remember to be kind in those times?
Comments or questions?
Email audrey_stein@needham.k12.ma.us