January's Theme is: Responsibility!
January's SEL theme is responsibility, defined for students as making good choices, doing what is expected, and accepting the positive or negative consequences of one's actions. Students are given examples of responsible language and actions:
"It's not my fault! He did it first" → "I'm responsible for my own actions"
"I didn't do it!" → "I knew the rule and did it anyway. I'm sorry."
"I can finish my work later." → "I'm in charge of my learning and should finish now."
Students are read Even Superheroes Make Mistakes by Shelly Becker, a story about the many ways superheroes sometimes slip up and err, but ultimately take responsibility, get on with their day, and keep on saving the world in the most super way!
What Research Says
Responsible decision-making, one of the five core CASEL competencies that serve as the framework for social-emotional learning, is the ability to make caring and constructive choices about personal behavior and social interactions across diverse situations. Research shows that developing this competency is integral to navigating ethical decisions, maintaining a strong internalized moral identity, engagement in initiatives that work to advance justice for all people and support a sense of social responsibility, and cultivating strong critical thinking skills and reasoning ability (CASEL, n.d.).
Responsible decision-making is made up of a range of skills that students develop over time, and that can be targeted and reinforced through direct teaching, including:
Demonstrating curiosity and openness to new people and situations
Learning the importance of honesty and fairness in personal relationships
Understanding how and why personal and social problems arise and how to identify solutions
Recognizing why safety rules exist and the importance of demonstrating safe choices
Reflecting on one's capacity to help and why it is important to be a helper at home, at school, and in other settings; exploring the concept of citizenship and how it contributes to collective well-being
Practicing stop, think, and act strategies and using critical thinking skills to make positive behavioral choices
Understanding how actions lead to consequences, and how consequences can be anticipated
Given the number and complexity of skills that underlie responsible decision-making, or the practice of encouraging students to "take responsibility" for their actions, research has shown that "primary school is the optimal age for the formation of internal dialogue as a cultural means of searching for, selecting, and making vital decisions . . . ideally, through dialogue with an adult taking into account different positions and views, or fantastic scenarios to solve difficult life situations" (Dotsenko et al., 2020). In other words, students learn how to make responsible decisions by discussing and practicing problem-solving steps (making a choice, brainstorming possible solutions, exploring consequences) and strategies with adults, such as teachers and family members.
Responsibility is a broad concept that invites students to consider how they can take accountability for themselves in different areas of their lives: personally as it relates to school work and achieving goals, socially as it relates to social relationships and getting along with others, and globally as it relates to citizenship, community-wellbeing, and environmentalism. Research shows that engaging students in conversation and teaching opportunities that promote responsible decision-making is the most effective intervention for behavior change among students (Lewis, 2001). In particular, intervention programs that target the development of children's prosocial leadership skills and teachers' expectations of socially responsible behavior from students are associated with declines in peer victimization, aggression, bullying, and emotional problems (Leadbeater, 2016).
CASEL. (n.d.). What is the CASEL framework CASEL.org.https://casel.org/fundamentals-of-sel/what-is-the-casel-framework/#responsible; Dotsenko, E., Startseva, V., Pchelina, O., Karaberova, E., Ivantsova, N. (2020).; Responsible decision making as primary school children move into adolescence. International Journal of Emotional Education, 12(2). 90-102.; Lewis, R. (2001). Classroom discipline and student respinsibility: the student's view. Teaching and Teacher Education, 17(3). 307-319.; Leadbeater, B., Thompson, K., Sukhawanthanakul, P. (2016). Enhancing social responsibility and prosocial leadership to prevent aggression, peer victimization, and emotional problems in elementary school children. American Journal of Community Psychology, 58(3-4). 365-376.
School-Wide Activity
For the school-wide activity to support responsibility, Mitchell students will participate in a Classroom Cleanup Challenge! Students will demonstrate responsibility this month by keeping their classrooms extra clean and tidy. Each week of the month, our wonderful custodian, Mr. Brock, will announce the cleanest classroom at Mitchell and the winning class will earn a special surprise!
Throughout the month of January, students will focus on responsibility by:
Following rules and listening to teachers
Knowing our jobs at school and doing them the best we can
Keeping track of our belongings
Admitting if we make a mistakes, apologizing, and taking steps to fix it
Keeping our classrooms clean
Books on Empathy
But It’s Not My Fault! Julia Cook
The Bad Seed: Jory John
The Paperboy: Dav Pilkey
Officer Buckle and Gloria: Peggy Rathmann
Strega Nona: Tomie dePaola
The Lorax: Dr. Seuss
No, David!: David Shannon
The Mitten : Jan Brett
The Good Egg: Jory John
Bunny Money: Rosemary Wells
The Pigeon Wants a Puppy: Mo Willems
The Little Red Fort: Brenda Maier
David Gets in Trouble : David Shannon
It Wasn't My Fault: Helen Lester
Lily's Purple Plastic Purse: Kevin Henkes
Arthur's Pet Business: Marc Brown
Betty Bunny Didn't Do It: Michael B. Kaplan
My Two Border Towns: David Bowles
Arthur's Computer Disaster: Marc Brown
Doing The Right Thing: Alyssa Krekelberg
Obeying Laws: Kristen Chang
My Two Border Towns: David Bowles
I Can Help: Reem Faruqi
Home Support
To support the theme of responsibility at home, please feel free to explore the following discussion questions!
What does it mean to "take responsibility" for something?
What are some things you are responsible for?
Why is it important to take responsibility for our actions, even when we make mistakes?
How does taking responsibility help us grow and learn from our mistakes?
What are some potential consequences of not taking responsibility for our actions?
Can you think of a time when you took responsibility for a mistake? How did it make you feel?
How does behaving responsibly affect our relationships with others, like our friends and parents?
Have you ever caused problems for somebody else by being irresponsible? What happened? Would you do things differently if you had another chance?
Has anyone ever caused problems for you by being irresponsible? What happened? What do you wish that person understood about what happened?
Comments or questions?
Email audrey_stein@needham.k12.ma.us