Speaking of PRIDE
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"For years I tried to put myself in a box, and it frustrated me, so I had to let it go and let the universe take its course"
~ Billy Porter
Grammy, Emmy, & Tony Award Winning Actor, Perfomer
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Your wound is probably not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility
~ Denice Frohman
Poet, Performer, Pew Fellow
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I'm obviously fighting for my community simply because I'm trans, and I have to do that, and I do it because that's my existence. I wake up in the morning, and that is my activism. ~Michaela Jaé Rodriguez
Emmy Winning Actress & Singer
Watch & Learn
InQueery:
Ted Talks:
Why kids need to learn about gender and sexuality | Lindsay Amer
Homosexuality: It's about survival - not sex | James O'Keefe
Rethinking the Closet: Coming Out LGBTQ* vs Inviting In | Uchenna Umeh, “Dr. Lulu”
How to talk (and listen) to transgender people | Jackson Bird
Living beyond the binary: decolonising Queer communities | Jioji Ravulo
More to Learn:
Learn the Terms
Here is our very own quick glossary of LGBTQIA+ terms and the corresponding flags in the shape of hearts. In order to be an advocate, ally or accomplice for the LGBTQIA+ community, people need to know and understand the terms that make up this population of individuals. This is only a snapshot of the terms that represent this diverse community and I highly encourage readers to do the research to learn more.
Queer
A term used by some LGBTQ+ people to describe themselves and/or their community. Reclaimed from its earlier negative use--and valued by some for its defiance--the term is also considered by some to be inclusive of the entire community and by others who find it to be an appropriate term to describe their more fluid identities. Traditionally a negative or pejorative term for people who are LGBTQ+, some people within the community dislike the term. Due to its varying meanings, use this word only when self-identifying or quoting an individual who self-identifies as queer (i.e., “My cousin identifies as queer” or “My cousin is a queer person”).
Gay
A term used to describe people who are emotionally, romantically, and/or physically attracted to people of the same gender (e.g., gay man, gay people). The term should not be used as an umbrella term for LGBTQ+ people, e.g. “the gay community,” because it excludes other sexual orientations and genders.
Lesbian
Refers to a woman who is emotionally, romantically, and/or physically attracted to other women. People who are lesbians need not have had any sexual experience: Attraction and self-identification determines orientation, not the gender or sexual orientation of one’s partner.
Bisexual
Commonly referred to as bi or bi+. According to bi+ educator and advocate Robyn Ochs, the term refers to a person who acknowledges in themselves the potential to be attracted--romantically, emotionally and/or sexually--to people of more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time, in the same way, or to the same degree. The "bi" in bisexual can refer to attraction to genders similar to and different from one's own.
Transgender
Often shortened to trans, from the Latin prefix for “on a different side as.” A term describing a person’s gender identity that does not necessarily match their assigned sex at birth. Transgender people may or may not decide to alter their bodies hormonally and/or surgically to match their gender identity. This word is also used as an umbrella term to describe groups of people who transcend conventional expectations of gender identity or expression--such groups include, but are not limited to, people who identify as transsexual, genderqueer, gender variant, gender diverse, and androgynous.
Nonbinary
Refers to people who do not subscribe to the gender binary. They might exist between or beyond the man-woman binary. Some use the term exclusively, while others may use it interchangeably with terms like genderqueer, genderfluid, gender nonconforming, gender diverse, or gender expansive. It can also be combined with other descriptors e.g. nonbinary woman or transmasc nonbinary. Language is imperfect, so it’s important to trust and respect the words that nonbinary people use to describe their genders and experiences.
Intersex
Intersex is the current term used to refer to people who are biologically between the medically expected definitions of male and female. This can be through variations in hormones, chromosomes, internal or external genitalia, or any combination of any or all primary and/or secondary sex characteristics. While many intersex people are noticed as intersex at birth, many are not. As intersex is about biological sex, it is distinct from gender identity and sexual orientation. An intersex person can be of any gender identity and can also be of any sexual orientation and any romantic orientation.
Genderqueer
Refers to individuals who blur preconceived boundaries of gender in relation to the gender binary; they can also reject commonly held ideas of static gender identities. Sometimes used as an umbrella term in much the same way that the term queer is used, but only refers to gender, and thus should only be used when self-identifying or quoting an individual who uses the term genderqueer for themselves.
Genderfluid
Describes a person who does not consistently adhere to one fixed gender and who may move among genders.
Pansexual
Refers to a person whose emotional, romantic and/or physical attraction is to people inclusive of all genders. People who are pansexual need not have had any sexual experience: It is the attraction and self-identification that determine the orientation. Pansexuality and bisexuality are different; pansexuality includes all genders equally, whereas bisexuality can favor some genders over others.
*Definitions used for this site can be found on PFLAG . It is the first and largest organization dedicated to supporting, educating, and advocating for LGBTQ+ people and their families.
Culture Corner Spotlight:
Google Art & Culture is a great resource for all things visual and virtual cultural arts. It is an interactive and immersive experience from the comfort of your personal computer. This month we are spotlighting Google Arts & Culture's collection entitled:
"7 Transgender Women Who Made History"
From Stonewall to the Grand Prix, see how they made their mark on the world.
DEIB PRIDE: Book of the Month
About the Book of the Month
An inspiring and radical celebration of 70 women, girls, and nonbinary people who have changed—and are still changing—the world, from the Civil Rights Movement and Stonewall riots through Black Lives Matter and beyond.
With a radical and inclusive approach to history, Modern HERstory profiles and celebrates seventy women and nonbinary champions of progressive social change in a bold, colorful, illustrated format for all ages. Despite making huge contributions to the liberation movements of the last century and today, all of these trailblazers come from backgrounds and communities that are traditionally overlooked and under-celebrated: not just women, but people of color, queer people, trans people, disabled people, young people, and people of faith. Authored by rising star activist Blair Imani, Modern HERstory tells the important stories of the leaders and movements that are changing the world right here and right now—and will inspire you to do the same.
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About the Author
Blair Imani is a critically acclaimed historian, author, educator, and influencer. The New York Times praised her unique ability to create “progressive lessons with vibrant visuals and a perky, quirky delivery.” Her viral microlearning series Smarter In Seconds demonstrates her signature style of making abstract concepts more concrete in a well-researched, well-presented, and concise manner. She is the author of Read This to Get Smarter about Race, Class, Gender, Disability, and More; Making Our Way Home: The Great Migration and the Black American Dream; and Modern HERstory: Stories of Women and Nonbinary People Rewriting History. Her work centers women and girls, global Black communities, and the LGBTQ community. As an educator and influencer, semi-retired organizer, and public speaker, Blair Imani is dedicated to making the world a better place and amplifying the voices and work of those fighting the good fight.
The More You Know...Books about PRIDE
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A Memoir is a 2019 graphic memoir written and illustrated by Maia Kobabe. It recounts Kobabe's journey from adolescence to adulthood and the author's exploration of gender identity and sexuality, ultimately identifying as being outside of the gender binary.
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This Book Is Gay is a nonfiction book written by Juno Dawson and illustrated by Spike Gerrell, first published in the United Kingdom in 2014 with subsequent publication in the US in June 2015.[1] The book is a "manual to all areas of life as an LGBT person"[2] and "is meant to serve as a guidebook for young people discovering their sexual identity and how to navigate those uncomfortable waters.
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All Boys Aren't Blue is a young adult non-fiction "memoir-manifesto" by journalist and activist George M. Johnson. The book consists of a series of essays following Johnson's journey growing up as a queer Black man in Plainfield, New Jersey, and Virginia.
More Books on PRIDE
Barnes & Noble is one of the best places to find books and they have committed to being a place that openly supports the LGBTQIA+ community. Below are some of the recommendations they have for the best books for PRIDE.
Best Books to Read for Pride Month 2023
Celebrate Pride Month year-round with our pride book lists. From literary works around LGBTQIA+ topics to books by celebrated LGBTQIA+ authors and activists, there are variety of books to celebrate pride with! Be inspired by the books that helped shape modern LGBTQIA+ rights movements or fiction books that empower the LGBTQIA+ community.
10 LGBTQIA+ Authors & Pride Books We Love
Red, White & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston
Honey Girl by Morgan Rogers
My Policeman by Bethan Roberts
Our Dreams at Dusk by Yuhki Kamatani
Shuggie Bain by Douglas Stuart
Memorial by Bryan Washington
The Liar's Dictionary by Eley Williams
Less by Andrew Sean Greer
Written in the Stars by Alexandria Bellefleur
Bestiary by K-Ming Chang
10 Trans Authors & the Books You Should Read
Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender
If I Was Your Girl by Meredith Russo
Redefining Realness by Janet Mock
Stay Gold by Tobly McSmith
Tomorrow Will Be Different by Sarah McBride
Good Boy: My Life in Seven Dogs by Jennifer Finney Boylan
Becoming Nicole by Amy Ellis Nutt
Sorted by Jackson Bird
Tranny by Laura Jane Grace
Becoming Eve by Abby Stein
DEIB Picks for Books You Should Read
Transgender 101: A Simple Guide to a Complex Issue by Nicholas Teich
What's the T?: The Guide to All Things Trans and/or Nonbinary by Juno Dawson
Juliet Takes a Breath by Gabby Rivera
America Vol. 1: The Life and Times of America Chavez by Gabby Rivera, Joe Quinones, Various Artist
We Are Not Broken by George M Johnson
How to They/Them: A Visual Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns and the World of Gender Fluidity by Stuart Getty, Brooke Thyng (Illustrator)
The LGBTQ + History Book by DK
Unprotected: A Memoir by Billy Porter
Odd One Out by Nic Stone
Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda by Becky Albertalli
Tools for Allyship
The Human Rights Campaign Shares Tools for Becoming an Ally
ALLYSHIP with Gay Center.org
Best Practices for Serving LGBTQ Students
A Teaching Tolerance Guide from the Southern Poverty Law Center.
Respect for All
Policy Recommendations to Support LGBTQ Students by GLSEN
HOW TO BE A BETTER ALLY!
READY, SET, RESPECT!
GLSEN’s Elementary School Toolkit
Ted Talks:
Effective Allyship: A Transgender Take on Intersectionality | Ashlee Marie Preston
Want a more just world? Be an unlikely ally | Dwinita Mosby Tyler
More videos on Allyship:
Resources
GLSEN’s education team has created educator guides for each of our Days of Action, along with other resources for increasing LGBTQ visibility and affirmation into any curriculum. While GLSEN celebrates these Days of Action nationally at specific times throughout the year, the lessons, resources, and activities found here can be implemented at any time. Check out the resources below for specific guides and tool related to GLSEN programs, days of action and more! Ready to supplement your curriculum? Explore our LGBTQ-Inclusive and Bullying, Bias & Diversity lesson plans.
This is GLSEN's flagship report on the school experiences of LGBTQ+ youth in schools, including the extent of the challenges that they face at school and the school-based resources that support LGBTQ students’ well-being. The survey has consistently indicated that specific school-based supports are related to a safer and more inclusive school climate, including: supportive educators, LGBTQ+-inclusive curriculum, inclusive and supportive policies, and supportive student clubs, such as Gay-Straight Alliances or Gender and Sexuality Alliances (GSAs).
The Safe Zone Project (SZP) is a free online resource providing curricula, activities, and other resources for educators facilitating Safe Zone trainings (sexuality, gender, and LGBTQ+ education sessions), and learners who are hoping to explore these concepts on their own.
The Safe Schools Program for LGBTQ Students is a joint program of the Massachusetts Commission on LGBTQ Youth and the Massachusetts Department of Elementary and Secondary Education (DESE).
The only queer youth organization in Springfield MA, Out Now provides a safe space for queer youth & allies to learn about themselves, develop lasting friendships and leadership skills, explore the history of the LGBTQ+ movement, and so much more.
Generation Q is a confidential educational and social/support group for LGBTQIA+ and questioning youth/young adults and allies. These programs are available for anyone who wants to join and connect with LGBTQIA+ folks for support and community.
A youth resource center creating a safe and welcoming environment for LGBTQ+ youth and their allies by building community and offering
resources.
OUT MetroWest builds communities where LGBTQ+ youth thrive.
GLSEN Massachusetts is currently working with other GLSEN chapters around the country on a grassroots, chapter-led effort to create racial justice goals and accountability processes that we will hold ourselves and each other to.
The LGBTQ+ objects and archival collections at the National Museum of African American History and Culture focus on the familiar, untold, and unknown stories that have shaped the nation’s past. With the goal of promoting greater understanding of LGBTQ+ identities and contributions, the National Museum of African American History and Culture is exploring new ways of helping visitors reinterpret artifacts and the lives of people who have changed the course of history.
Translate Gender is a collective-based consensus-run organization that works to generate community accountability for individuals to self-determine their own genders and gender expressions. Since 2006, They have led efforts to fight gender oppression and educate communities on concerns specific to Trans, Gender-Expansive, and/or Gender Nonconforming individuals.
Culture Corner Spotlight
Watch this short video about how Teach for America is spotlighting young LGBTQ students who want their schools to be safer for them and other LGBTQ youth.
The Listening Corner
Movies That Matter
Bridegroom-Documentary-Tubi/Amazon Prime
Bessie-Movie-Max
Carol (Movie)-Netflix
Do I Sound Gay? (Documentary)- Tubi/Kanopy
Gentleman Jack (Series) -Max
Gia (Movie) -Max
In and Out (Movie)- Amazon Prime
Jerrod Carmichael: Rothaniel-Comedy Special-Max
Love Simon (Movie) -Hulu
Love, Victor (Series) -Hulu
Moonlight (Movie) -Hulu
Pariah (Movie) -Amazon Pride
Paris is Burning-Movie-Max
Philadelphia (Movie) -Amazon Prime/Apple TV
Rocketman (Movie)-TBS
The Birdcage (Movie) -Amazon Prime/Apple TV
The Color Purple (Movie) -Amazon Prime
The Danish Girl (Movie) -Amazon Prime
The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson- Documentary- Netflix
The Miseducation of Cameron Post (Movie)- Peacock
The Out List (Documentary) -Max
The Trans List-Documentary-Max
To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar (Movie)-Amazon Prime
Wig (Documentary)-Max
*Please note that this list has some films, shows and series that feature adult content, language and situations. They may not be appropriate for younger viewers, so viewer discretion is advised.
Days to Remember
LGBTQ Community Calendar
There are a number of days and months observed, celebrated, and honored by the LGBTQ community. While the list below is specific to LGBTQ-focused days, weeks, and months, LGBTQ people also observe and celebrate non-LGBTQ specific moments such as Black History Month, Latinx Heritage Month, International Holocaust Remembrance Day, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Women’s History Month, and Indigenous Peoples’ Day. Media coverage of these and other non-LGBTQ focused moments should include LGBTQ people and the intersections of LGBTQ people and the respective topic.
February
February 7: National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
Week after Valentine’s Day: Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week
February 28: HIV Is Not A Crime Awareness Day
March
March: Bisexual Health Awareness Month
Week varies in March: National LGBT Health Awareness Week
March 10: National Women & Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
March 20: National Native HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
March 31: International Transgender Day of Visibility
April
April 6: International Asexuality Day
April 10: National Youth HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
Third Friday of April: Day of Silence
April 18: National Transgender HIV Testing Day
April 18: Nonbinary Parents Day
April 26: Lesbian Visibility Day
May
First Sunday In May: International Family Equality Day
May 17: International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia
May 19: National Asian & Pacific Islander HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
May 22: Harvey Milk Day
May 24: Pansexual and Panromantic Awareness and Visibility Day
June
June: LGBTQ Pride Month
June 1: LGBTQ Families Day
June 12: Pulse Remembrance
June 15: Anniversary of U.S. Supreme Court Bostock decision expanding protections to LGBTQ employees
June 26: Anniversary of U.S. Supreme Court legalizing marriage equality
June 27: National HIV Testing Day
June 28: Stonewall Day
June 30: Queer Youth of Faith Day
July
Week of July 14: Nonbinary Awareness Week, culminates in International Nonbinary People’s Day on July 14
July 16: International Drag Day
August
August 14: Gay Uncles Day
August 20: Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
September
September 18: National HIV/AIDS & Aging Awareness Day
Week of September 23: Bisexual+ Awareness Week, culminates in Celebrate Bisexuality Day on September 23
September 27: National Gay Men’s HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
October
October: LGBTQ History Month
October 8: International Lesbian Day
October 11: National Coming Out Day
October 15: National Latinx HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
October 19: National LGBT Center Awareness Day
Third Wednesday in October: International Pronouns Day
Last week in October: Asexual Awareness Week
October 26: Intersex Awareness Day
November
First Sunday of November: Transgender Parent Day
November 13 – 19: Transgender Awareness Week
November 20: Transgender Day of Remembrance
December
December 1: World AIDS Day
December 8: Pansexual/Panromantic Pride Day
December 14: HIV Cure Research Day