Prom

Prom planning at Liverpool High School: Exiting or stressful?

By Ava Thomas

As prom season approaches, many students at Liverpool High School are already counting down the days. Although the event is still months away, conversations about prom have already begun filling social media feeds, group chats, and school hallways. From choosing dresses and suits to finding dates, transportation, and finalizing plans, the anticipation surrounding prom is starting earlier than ever. While this builds excitement for many students, it also brings a noticeable amount of stress.

For juniors and some seniors, prom is viewed as one of the most important events of their high school experience. It represents a milestone and a chance to celebrate the school year with friends. Conversations often revolve around themes, outfits, photos, and after-prom plans. While many students eagerly look forward to the night, others admit that the pressure to make everything perfect can feel overwhelming.

One major source of stress is the cost of attending prom. Dresses, tickets, hair appointments, makeup, shoes, and transportation can quickly become expensive. “The financial pressure makes planning prom more intense,” said junior Emily Huynh. “I’m so excited for prom, but we can all admit it’s expensive. I’m trying to plan and budget now so it pays off later.” Many students feel the need to start saving early to avoid last-minute stress, which can make prom planning feel more like a responsibility than a celebration. 

Finding a date is another concern for many students. While some are already in relationships or plan to attend with friends, others feel anxious about being judged or left out. “Everyone makes prom seem like you need a date for it to be the ideal ‘prom,’” said Lilyanna Mangovski. “I’m excited, but there is definitely pressure to do it the ‘right’ way.” Social expectations and comparisons on social media can increase this pressure, even though many students plan to attend without a traditional date.

Despite the stress, many students believe the excitement of prom outweighs the worries. Prom marks the end of the school year and serves as an opportunity to make lasting memories with friends. “It’s a once-in-a-lifetime event,” said Sayed Hamid, a Liverpool junior. For others, prom is simply a chance to spend time together outside of school. “It’s just another way to hang out with your friends outside of school, since we don’t usually all hang out as a group,” said junior Chase Loveless.

School social workers and counselors encourage students to remember that prom is just one night and should not be a source of extreme stress. They remind students that there is no such thing as a “perfect prom” and that the experience should be enjoyable rather than overwhelming. Their message emphasizes the importance of focusing on personal happiness rather than expectations.

As anticipation continues to grow in the coming months, students are learning to balance excitement with realistic expectations. Whether attending solo, with friends, or with a date, many students and staff agree that prom is about celebrating a milestone, making memories, and enjoying time together before the end of the school year.