Reconstructing the Concept of Valentine's day: The New Normal Celebration guide"

Georgia Compio

It is that time of the year again where a lot of people mark their calendars on the 14th of February in which endless expressions of love and affection are passed around: heartfelt messages, chocolates, bright flowers that captivate each sight, and memories that are yet to be treasured. In contrast with the tradition, the day is not only for couples but rather it is a chance to appreciate and be grateful to those loved ones who bring out the best within us, especially during these times of uncertainty, in the middle of a global health crisis.

Here are some ways to make the most out of Valentine's Day in the new normal:

1. Schedule a zoom/video call to catch up with your friends.

We all know that friends are the shoulders you can always depend on. They are those who will accept you and allow you to just be yourself around them. They are also the same people who will stay with you through thick and thin. Take this opportunity to thank them for adding a truckload of laughter and excitement to your life, even during this whole pandemic with just simple calls and messages they can make each day worthwhile. 

2. Bake sweet treats with your family.

One of the main events during this special day is giving and receiving any token of appreciation with your loved ones. There are several ways to make up for the wasted time to express your gratitude for your family, like baking sweet treats. Instead of buying baked goods, you can take this time as an opportunity to enjoy and bond with them. It may be a simple gesture, but nothing can beat the quality of time given to the ones who made a difference in your life, your family.

 3. Allot time for self-reflection.

You are worthy of the same love you give. It is not always about having someone by your side, but take this time to reflect and find steadiness in a world full of hopes and doubts. Treat yourself, tick those boxes off your to-do list, and remember that you are still free to rest no matter the unknowns behind those hard works that you have accomplished. May it be from your online classes or personal problems, grab this as an opportunity to challenge yourself while also being gentle with yourself.

This season of love is not always about presents, but rather the presence of those who matter to us. We often take the people around us for granted, and one of the things that the pandemic has taught us is to cherish the belongingness of our loved ones and bring together those who mean the most to us. Although not physically, you can still make the most out of Valentine’s Day even in the simplest way possible.