Social Smarts means paying attention to the people and situations around us. When students learn to notice how others may be feeling, listen to understand, respect different perspectives, and think about how their words and actions affect others, they build stronger relationships and help create a school where everyone feels understood, respected, and included.
Friendship at school can look like:
Including others and inviting classmates to join activities
Using kind words and respectful language
Listening when others are speaking
Celebrating differences and accepting others for who they are
Solving conflicts respectfully
Being a good teammate and classmate
Standing up for others and choosing kindness
Why does friendship matter?
Helps students feel connected and supported
Builds confidence and a sense of belonging
Strengthens communication and teamwork skills
Encourages empathy, kindness, and respect
Creates a positive and welcoming school environment
Supports students' social, emotional, and academic success
How Mrs. Tammen promotes friendship
Classroom Lessons: Teaching age-appropriate lessons that focus on friendship skills, kindness, empathy, communication, and problem-solving.
Building a Positive School Community: Encouraging students to include others, celebrate differences, and help create a school culture where everyone feels they belong.
Conflict Resolution: Helping students learn healthy ways to work through disagreements, repair relationships, and understand different perspectives.
Collaboration with Families & Teachers: Partnering with adults to reinforce respectful behavior, positive relationships, and social-emotional growth both at school and at home.
Student Support: Meeting with students individually or in small groups to help navigate friendships, solve problems, develop social skills, and feel supported throughout the school year.
Invite someone to play, sit with you, or join your group
Say hello to someone you don’t usually talk to
Ask a classmate a question and really listen to their answer
Use kind and respectful words, even when you disagree
Notice when someone is alone and find a way to include them
Celebrate what makes your friends and classmates different from you
Work through a disagreement by listening, staying calm, and finding a solution together
Give someone a genuine compliment or encouraging word
Be a good teammate by taking turns, sharing, and helping others
Stand up for someone who is being left out or treated unkindly
Meet someone new by introducing yourself and asking their name
Think at the end of the day: “How did I help someone feel like they belonged today?”