Beliefs

School counselors in the Riverside Middle School Counseling Department believe that:

• All students are unique and should be treated with respect and dignity regardless of their race, gender, ethnicity, socio-economic background, or academic ability.

• All students deserve a safe, inclusive, and engaging environment that empowers students to communicate and collaborate effectively, solve problems competently, think critically and creatively, and act responsibly. 

• School counselors serve as advocates for and work in collaboration with students, teachers, parents, and community members to ensure that students are able to effectively learn and experience success.

• School counselors should adhere to the legal and ethical guidelines outlined by The American School Counselor Association and treat others with respect and professionalism at all times.

• A comprehensive school counseling program, driven by the SC Comprehensive School Counseling and Career Guidance Model and American School Counselor Association,  should be designed to meet students’ educational and developmental needs as identified through assessments, delivered using evidence-based programs, and continually reassessed through data analysis of outcomes.

Mission Statement

The mission of the Riverside Middle School Counseling Department is to provide a proactive, comprehensive, collaborative, and developmentally appropriate program that utilizes meaningful experiences to ensure that all learners are prepared to become productive and engaged members of our global community.  

Vision Statement

Riverside Middle School learners are inspired to develop, pursue, and achieve their personal, academic, and career goals; supported through individualized services and programs created to foster and celebrate their unique strengths and skills; and prepared to successfully lead their lives as healthy, responsible, and productive members and leaders in our community.

How can School Counselors Help?

Overwhelmed by classwork? Scared because your parents are splitting up? Worried about a friend? Feel like you don't fit in?

Sometimes it's just not possible to sort through tough times alone. Problems can build up and you may lose sleep, find you can't concentrate on homework, or even become depressed. When you need to talk to someone, your school counselor (sometimes called a guidance counselor) can be a great place to start.

Counselors Help You Cope

School counselors know how to listen and help. They'll take your problem seriously and work with you to find a good solution. School counselors are trained to help with everything — and it doesn't have to be just school stuff. A counselor can help you deal with the sadness when someone has died as well as advise you on taking the right classes to get into your dream college.

It takes a lot of training to be a school counselor. Most not only have college degrees but also master's degrees, as well as special training and certification in counseling. One of the many good things about school counselors is that they are up-to-date on all the top things that affect students, including any trends that might affect your school.

School counselors can give you all sorts of tips and support on solving problems and making good decisions. Chances are that whatever problem you have, your counselor has seen it before — and has lots of good advice on how to help you work through it. Counselors can give you tips on standing up for yourself if you're being bullied, managing stress, talking to your parents, and dealing with anger and other difficult moods. Counselors also can advise you on problems you may have with a teacher, such as communication difficulties or questions over grades.

School counselors are plugged in to the rest of the school community and, in many cases, the outside community as well. So they can refer students to outside resources like substance abuse treatment centers, professional therapists, and even health clinics.

Student-Counselor Meetings

Counselors meet with students individually or in small groups. The most common setting for most students is a private meeting just between the student and the counselor. Most school counselors have offices where you can sit down and talk.

You don't need to know exactly what's bothering you when you talk with the school counselor. It's perfectly OK just to make an appointment because you're feeling bad or not doing as well in school as you'd like. It's the school counselor's job to help people figure out what's going on. In fact, it's often better to see your counselor as soon as you know something's up, even if you don't know what the trouble is. Chances are you'll be able to solve a problem faster when you have the skill and resources of the counselor behind you.  How often you meet with your counselor depends on the issue. Some concerns are dealt with in a one-time meeting. Others require regular meetings for a while. It all depends on the topic at hand and the plan that you and your counselor decide on.

Counselors also sometimes meet students in groups. Group meetings can really help people who are dealing with similar issues, such as a divorce. In these group settings, people can share their feelings and learn coping skills. Not only do you get great ideas in a group setting, but it can also help to know that other students are going through the same thing and that they understand.  Counselors often come into the classroom, too, to teach a class on a subject that affects everyone, such as good study skills.  Sometimes the counselor might meet with you and a teacher or you and a parent — especially if the teacher or your parent has asked for the meeting.

How Confidential Is It?

When you meet privately with a school counselor, your conversation will most likely be confidential. The counselor isn't going to go blabbing your business around school. Different schools have different policies, though. So talk directly with your counselor about what he or she considers confidential.

In very rare cases, a counselor is unable to keep information confidential. A counselor who thinks that someone is at risk of being harmed or has thoughts of harming themselves is required by law to share that information. Even in these rare cases, the counselor will share that information only with the people who need to know.  People sometimes worry that other students will think they're seeing the counselor because they have major problems or they're in trouble. But in most schools the counselor deals with lots of school issues — as well as personal ones. So you could be meeting to get career counseling or advice on which classes to take for college. Your friends and classmates don't need to know why you're seeing the counselor unless you choose to tell them.

School counselors are all about helping to make your school experience the best it can be. They help students handle almost any problem that might get in the way of learning, guide students to productive futures, and try to create a positive environment for everyone at school.

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