Everyone faces challenging situations and stressful events. Having the skills to manage difficult times can help us thrive. Because we are not born with these skills, we need to be taught. One especially good skill to help children, adolescents, and adults cope with challenges we face in our daily lives is mindfulness. Mindfulness can be thought of as a super-skill that’s made up of two small skills:
Awareness: noticing the little things right now (thoughts, feelings, and sensations)
Acceptance: maintaining this awareness with gentleness and kindness, rather than trying to change or judge the experience.
The effects of mindfulness for children and adolescents has a growing scientific literature with evidence demonstrating it can:
Reduce stress
Reduce emotional problems
Reduce behavior problems and aggression
Reduce depression
Improve happiness
Increase self-regulation and attention abilities
Increase calming and relaxation skills
Improve cognitive performance
Increase resilience
Sources: Zenner, Herrnleben-Kurz, & Walach, 2014; Sapthiang, Van Gordon, & Shonin, 2019
Take breaks from watching, reading, or listening to news stories, including social media. Hearing about the pandemic repeatedly can be upsetting.
Take care of your body. Take deep breaths, stretch, or meditate. Try to eat healthy, & well-balanced meals, exercise regularly, get plenty of sleep, and avoid alcohol and drugs.
Make time to unwind. Try to do some other activities you enjoy.
Connect with others. Talk with people you trust about your concerns and how you are feeling.