Identify signs of overload
Identify potential problematic situations
Strategies (effectiveness) child uses to manage stress
Modify environment and adult response
Try soothing music
Exerise
Technology
Create cue cards or visual list of what to do when angry/stressed (this should be pre-taught)
When child shows card, direct to "quiet spot"
Use social story to teach quiet spot
When in quiet spot, direct to visual to show how to calm (take a deep breath, count to 100, recite Star Wars characters, listen to music)
Use stress ball, notebook to write in/drawing, etc.
When calm, return to activity
Use everday routine with (e.g., Goal-Plan-Do-Review)
Support working memory with "visual copy" of routine
Teach child how to formulate a plan, review their performance
Teach to monitor their behavior
Teach to become a self-advocate
Highlight texts, study guides, notes
Completed model of what is expected
List of criteria for grading
Decrease writing-verbal responses, computer, multiple-choice tests
Priming (here's what we're going to talk about)
Teaching outlining skills, how to pick out important details
Graphic Organizers
Provide enrichment activities in areas of strength
List of reminders/rules for behaviors
Never assume, always teach skill
Use Social Stories
Comic Strip Conversations
List of activities, list of free-time options
Know which kids to avoid
Do not pick your nose in any class
Use a nice tone of voice when talking to teachers - they like it. Also, try to smile sometimes.
Rules change from teacher to teacher. Do not focus on the fact that it might bot be fair.
If you do something funny, it is usually funny once. If you do it repeatedly, it makes you look silly and people might make fun.
Do not:
Laugh when someone else is crying/angry
Correct someone else's grammar when he/she is angry.
Do what actors do on television, actors are not the same as real life