Self-Leadership is having a developed sense of who you are, what you can do, where you are going coupled with the ability to influence your communication, emotions, and behavior on the way to getting there (Bryant, Kazan 2012).
People who are successful have one thing in common, it is self-leadership. Self-leaded people are always aware of their own self and their surroundings. They never miss an opportunity. Self-leadership can impact your daily life, health, and career. People always brag about motivation and inspiration. Motivation is needed for everyone indeed. But how? A powerful speech or a story of success may motivate you for a short period of time. Eventually, it will fade away after a day to two. You need self-motivation that will not extinguish easily. Self-leaded people are always self-motivated.
Maybe you want to be a leader, a manager, a good spouse or a good child. Nobody but you can make it happen. You need to influence yourself to achieve your objectives. If you can manage yourself, you can manage everything else in this world. Leading yourself means taking control over your feeling and reactions. John C. Maxwell says “Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it”. Getting control over your reactions can make a whole lot of change in your life. It is possible by developing self-leadership within you.
Things that a self-leader has-
Self-confidence works like a muscle. The more you use it the better it will get over the span of time.
According to Barrie Davenport -
"Low self-confidence isn't a life sentence. Self-confidence can be learned, practiced, and mastered--just like any other skill. Once you master it, everything in your life will change for the better."
Here are some tips to boost your self-confidence-
Pour some positive talks inside you before doing something that requires self-confidence. Just like the legendary boxer Muhammad Ali said before the championship match-
“I am the greatest”
Lastly to boost your self-confidence always remember that mistakes are inevitable. Nobody is perfect, so don’t try to perfect try to be yourself.