Making and Choosing Friends

Go up to someone you would like to get to know and say "Hi" and offer a compliment or ask them a few questions. Smiles, but don't be over-the-top friendly or happy.

Smile a lot, be kind and courteous to others. Complement people without being annoying or fake. Always keep your head held high and never cross your arms over your chest or scowl, because that makes you seem mean and unfriendly.

As simple as it may sound, joining an activity group or club can really increase your friendship circle. And who knows, you might have a talent for something you aren't even aware of, and you may develop a new skill.

In middle school, drama is around every corner. One little something said on IM, text message, or Facebook can ruin your reputation and destroy friendships. Try and be neutral if two groups of people who you are friends with start fighting. Stay away from people who start drama for the fun of it: you could end up getting hurt.

Eat healthy, take regular showers/baths, and wash your face. A little hygiene can make all the difference.

It may sound cheesy, but the best friends are the ones who know the real you. Don't start wearing different clothes to make friends, just be yourself and see if they have friend potential. It really is what's on the inside that counts.

If you say mean things behind a person's back, they will find out. Don't be a gossiper; don't spread gossip.

Be open to new experiences and new people. Keep your options open by being open-minded! Middle school is a great place to make new friends.