“The process by which a theory, lesson, or skill is enacted, embodied, realized, applied, or put into practice.”
"Reflection and action directed at the structures to be transformed."
“An organizational model where voluntary, collaborative exchanges of resources and services for common benefit take place amongst community members to overcome social, economic, and political barriers to meeting common needs.”
Mutual aid is a horizontal, community-wide effort, unlike philanthropy or charity. It's a tangible way that individual people can make a difference by supporting their own communities, creating a strong foundation for the world we need to fight for. Things like donating/distributing food, offering and sharing rides, childcare for your neighbors and friends, disaster relief, finance pooling, and many other things like this are all examples of mutual aid. Providing this alternative infrastructure that we can mutually rely on is necessary to dismantling the flawed infrastructure we already have in place.
Here are a couple examples:
In a chicken-or-the-egg type of way, we perpetuate the systems that we are trapped by. Despite the communal nature humankind has evolved for, we've built a society that favors individuality and self-sufficiency, and if someone can't achieve those standards, they're marginalized and treated as less than human.
This can be seen in the architecture of our public areas, in everything from actively hostile architecture (spikes, slanted surfaces, lack of public seating, etc.) to more subtle designs in our urban planning that disincentivize all those public meetings and interactions that transform the idea of a neighborhood from that of proximity to community.
To retrain ourselves, regain our human instincts for empathy, and help facilitate the type of mutual aid networks mentioned above, it's important to create, maintain, and support our local third places.
“In sociology, the third place refers to the social surroundings that are separate from the two usual social environments of home (‘first place’) and the workplace (‘second place’).”
Examples of these include libraries, cafes, bars, churches, malls, any place that serves to facilitate social interaction. (Three of these five examples come with the expectation of spending money, which is not ideal, but given that we live in late-stage capitalism we need to take what we can get.) As more and more aspects of our lives become digital, there has been the creation of online third places, but they lack the in-person interaction needed for our mental health and the physical proximity needed for meaningful mutual aid networks to develop. If you can think of a third place in your community, support its growth and role in the community, and encourage others to do the same.