The Life I’m Choosing

A Guided Reflection Journal for the Life You’re Building

A guided journal for the season when you are ready to look honestly at where you are, decide what you want to carry forward, and make more intentional choices about what comes next.

Through thoughtful prompts centered on honesty, intention, courage, and clarity, The Life I’m Choosing creates space to reflect on the life you have lived while giving shape to the one you are building.

Designed in a spacious 8.5 × 11 format, the journal gives you plenty of room to write, reflect, and return to your thoughts over time.

Quietly, On Purpose 

Building With Intention by Doing Less

For the person who is tired of measuring progress by busyness.

Quietly, On Purpose is a reflective companion for choosing intention over noise, steadiness over unnecessary pressure, and meaningful movement over constant activity.

Read it when you are ready to simplify how you think, work, create, and move through life.

Silhouettes in the Garden

Uncovering Who You Were Meant to Be

A memoir-in-verse about parentification and reclaiming the self after growing up too soon.

Through 22 poems and reflections rooted in lived experience, Lula Starling traces the journey from becoming the responsible child—the watcher, protector, and sibling caretaker—to recognizing where that role ends and a self-directed life can begin.

For adults who were praised for being mature, learned to carry what the grown-ups did not, and are ready to ask: Who am I when I stop defining myself by what I carry for everyone else?