Friendship Problems

How Do I Make Friends?

Say "Hello, my name is..."
Smile
Ask questions about what they like or to learn more about them. You can also try these conversation starters
Listen
Be kind and caring
Ask if they want to play a game or do an activity with you
Share and take turns
Ask if they want to be friends with you

Check out these videos for more ideas:

For Kindergarten to 1st Graders

For Kindergarten to 3rd Graders

For 2nd Graders and Up

For 3rd Graders and Up

How do I Solve a Problem with My Friends?

It's normal to have social conflicts or problems from time to time, even with our friends! Try taking these problem solving steps and then using some of the strategies below to help when things aren't going so well.

Problem Solving Steps:

Strategies

Good Communication

An important part of solving problems with friends is good communication. Use "I" statements: "I feel _______ (insert feeling word) when _____ (share what caused this feeling)." These statements open up the door to honest communication, understanding, and authentic apologies. Here are some examples of how "I" statements can be used in social situations:

I feel mad when my little sister goes into my room without asking me first.
I felt sad when you formed a group at recess and didn't include me.
I got upset when you caught the ball because I wanted to catch it. I'm sorry I yelled and ran off the field.

What is Bullying?

Definition

1.) Bullying happens several times. It is behavior that is repeated, not just a one-time incident.

2.) Bullying is one-sided. It involves one person hurting another person. The person doing the bullying behavior has some sort of power over the other. For example, they are bigger, more popular, smarter, etc.

3.) Bullying is mean – it is harmful. The target of the bullying is hurt in some way – whether it is physical, emotional, etc.

4.) Bullying is purposeful. For something to be bullying, it must be intentional, not an accident.

How to Report Bullying Concern at BRCPS:

If you are concerned about your child being a victim of bullying or displaying bullying behavior, please contact the school immediately.

You can also complete a: BRCPS Bullying Incident Report Form

To learn more about BRCPS bullying prevention and intervention policies and procedures, please see the Student and Family Handbook. BRCPS Family Handbook

Want to Help Stop Bullying?

Be an Upstander!

At BRCPS we learn how to stand up for others and stop unkind situations before they get too big. Upstanders know what to do when they see something unkind and help others by being a buddy, interrupting the situation, speaking up for their friends, and talking to adults.

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