Homes for Everything
Week Two August 18th, 2025
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Week Two August 18th, 2025
This week, we're focusing on the simple but powerful idea of giving everything a home. When every single item has a designated place to live—from your car keys to your digital files—you eliminate the endless mental energy spent searching for things. You're not just tidying up; you're building a sustainable system that keeps your space tidy with minimal effort.
To do this, we'll dive into two key strategies: Homes for Everything and The Containment Principle.
The "Homes for Everything" strategy is simple, but it’s the key to making your newfound order last. This is the simple but life-changing idea that every single item in your life, from your car keys to your computer files, needs a designated, permanent place to live.
Think of it this way: your items need a "home address." When every item has a specific place to be returned to, you eliminate the endless search for things you need. This is how you stop wasting time and mental energy on the small stuff. The best part? This strategy makes the One-Touch Rule from last week so much easier, because if an item has a home, you can put it away in a single, effortless action.
Here are a few strong examples to help you put Homes for Everything into practice:
In Your Entryway: Instead of dropping your keys and wallet on the nearest surface, create a designated home for them. This could be a small bowl, a key hook on the wall, or a specific drawer in a console table.
In Your Kitchen: Your spatulas and whisks could live together in a stylish utensil holder right next to the stove, and your coffee pods should have a permanent spot in a specific basket.
On Your Desk: It's easy for a desk to become a clutter magnet. Give all your items a home—pens in a cup, notebooks on a shelf, and important papers in a single file folder.
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Without a designated place for an item, your brain is forced to make a constant stream of tiny, low-stakes decisions. "Where should I put my keys? What about this mail? Where do these shoes go?" Each of these small, repeated decisions drains your mental energy. Over time, this leads to decision fatigue, a state where you feel mentally drained and are more likely to make poor choices or avoid tasks altogether—like putting something away. This makes clutter seem overwhelming and cleanup a monumental task.
By giving every item a "home," you are effectively automating those decisions. The strategy works on a psychological level by reducing mental friction. You don't have to think about where something goes; you just know. This shifts the process from a series of active decisions to a simple, habitual action. This is called habit stacking, where the presence of an item (like your keys) automatically triggers the action of putting it in its designated spot. It’s also how you build on last week’s One-Touch Rule, making it effortless to put items away as soon as you touch them.
The psychological benefits of giving everything a home are immediate and powerful. When you know where everything is, your brain can relax. This results in:
Reduced Stress: You'll no longer feel the frantic search for lost items, which is a major source of daily stress.
Increased Sense of Control: A tidy, predictable environment gives you a feeling of mastery and calm. Your space feels like it's working for you, not against you.
Boosted Productivity: With less mental energy spent on clutter, you have more cognitive resources for creative work, relaxation, and other important tasks. You'll be more efficient and feel more focused.
This week's second strategy is a simple but powerful technique to help you create "homes." The Containment Principle is the idea that items that are similar should be stored together in a container. This could be a bin, a basket, a drawer divider, or even a small tray. The goal is to create clear boundaries for your items.
Think of it as creating neighborhoods for your things. All the batteries live in one small divided bin, all the gift cards in another. This prevents them from wandering off and helps you easily see how much you have of a given item. This strategy gives your items a clear "address" so you know exactly where to put them back and where to find them later.
The Containment Principle is all about giving items a defined space, making them easy to find and return. Here are some simple, concrete examples for how you can use this strategy in your own home:
In Your Kitchen:
A drawer divider to keep your cutlery, cooking utensils, and gadgets neatly separated.
A caddy under the sink for all your cleaning supplies, so they don't topple over.
On Your Desk:
Small, stackable containers for office supplies like paper clips, rubber bands, and push pins.
A magazine holder to keep important documents or notebooks upright and easy to grab.
In Your Bathroom:
Drawer organizers to keep makeup, hair ties, and cotton swabs from rolling around.
Clear bins under the sink to store extra shampoo bottles or toilet paper.
Remember, the goal is to make it effortless to put things away, so you can enjoy your tidy, organized space for longer!
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When items are scattered and loose, your brain has to work harder to process all the visual information. This creates what's known as visual noise. Even if you don't consciously notice it, this constant stream of visual data taxes your cognitive resources, leading to feelings of stress, overwhelm, and fatigue. You can’t easily tell what you have, and the lack of boundaries makes it feel like an endless mess that you can't get on top of.
The Containment Principle works by giving your brain a sense of order and structure. By putting similar items together in a single container—be it a bin, a drawer divider, or a basket—you're creating a clear boundary. This simplifies the visual landscape and reduces the mental energy required to process it. Your brain can now see one "container of batteries" instead of a chaotic pile of individual batteries, which is far less taxing and much easier to manage. This creates a powerful feeling of control and clarity.
The psychological benefits of the Containment Principle are immediate and lasting. By creating these clear boundaries, you'll experience:
Reduced Stress: Your space looks and feels tidier, which calms your nervous system and helps you feel more at ease.
Effortless Maintenance: It’s much easier to return items to a designated container than to a vague, open space. This makes it a simple habit to maintain.
Increased Awareness: You'll know exactly how much of a given item you have, preventing accidental duplicate purchases and making it easy to track your inventory.
To participate in this week's challenges, you'll need to join the Thrive with Your Organized BFF Google Chat Group. By sharing pictures and brief write-ups of your progress, you'll earn points and inspire others in our community. While you can send your submissions privately to me, Caitlin, building this group together creates a supportive and motivating space for all of us to thrive.
Here are the four challenges for the week, designed to help you practice the Homes for Everything and the Containment Principle.
Choose one location in your home, like the entryway or a countertop, and designate it as the "drop zone" for your most-used items. This week, make a commitment to put your keys, wallet, sunglasses, and phone in this exact spot every single time you walk through the door.
(200 points)
Digital clutter is real! This challenge is about giving a home to your downloaded files. Go to your "Downloads" folder and create two new folders: one titled "Keep" and one titled "Archive". Drag any files you need to keep into the "Keep" folder, and move everything else into "Archive." This is a quick way to establish a home for new files while clearing out the old.
(250 points)
For this challenge, find a small box, caddy, or even a shoebox to put all of these items into. Now, all your medical supplies have a home, and you can easily grab the whole container when you need something.
(150 points)
Open a junk drawer and dedicate 15 minutes to using small containers (like old takeout containers, mugs, or drawer dividers) to give everything a home. Group all your batteries in one spot, your rubber bands in another, and your loose keys in a third.
(250 points)
Questions? Concerns? Please Contact Caitlin Murphy at Caitlin@yourorganziedbff.com