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Faculty, Upper School Science, 2012-2014
Died on September 22, 2017Notice posted by the Edward L. Collins Funeral Home, Inc.:
William (Anderson) was born on October 18, 1946 and passed away on Friday, September 22, 2017. William was a resident of Kennett Square, Pennsylvania at the time of passing. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to The First Tee, 425 South Legacy Trail, St. Augustine, FL 32092.
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Notice posted by the Stroud Water Resource Group where Bill served as an Adjunct Research Associate and Environmental Educator:
It was with great sadness that we said goodbye to our friend and colleague, William (Bill) Anderson, who died on September 22, 2017.
Bill was a lifelong science educator, having taught for many years at Wilmington Friends School, Avon Grove High School, and Unionville High School. He was a part-time Environmental Educator at the Stroud Center and also worked extensively with Denis Newbold, Ph.D., as an Adjunct Research Associate in the ecosystems processing group (now the Fluvial Geomorphology group), studying carbon transport in aquatic ecosystems.
Faculty '73-'88 (US Librarian), Parent of Alum ('79 & '82)
Died on July 5, 2023CORNWALL - Jean (known by all as "Jill") Calhoun Bacon Bryant (Faculty, 1973-1988, Upper School Librarian), age 93, of Valley Road, passed away July 5, 2023, at Sharon Hospital. She was the widow of Jack Walsworth Bryant, who died in January of 2020.
Jill was born May 29, 1930 in Morristown, NJ, the daughter of the late Alfred Howe Terry Bacon and Jean Ellinwood Calhoun Bacon.
?In 1947, she graduated from Hopkins Grammar School in New Haven, and then earned a BA from Mount Holyoke College in 1951 and an MS in Library Science from Columbia University in 1954.She met her husband Jack while working at the Enoch Pratt Library in Baltimore in 1957, and they married in Cornwall on October 11, 1958. Jill spent the 1960's devoting her time to raising her sons Chuck '79 (b.1961) and Dave '82 (b.1964), before eventually returning to work as a school librarian in the mid-1970's. In 1988, she returned to Connecticut to live in her childhood home ("Haywards", the home of Cornwall's haywarden in the 1870's) and worked at the Berkshire School library in Sheffield until her retirement in 1995.
She spent the next 28 years living the quiet country life she'd always treasured, taking walks up and down the valley, puttering about in her garden and arranging flowers, and reading and napping on her beloved back porch overlooking the brook and Coltsfoot Mountain beyond. In their retirement, Jack and Jill spent a good deal of time traveling to the great houses of the Hudson Valley and to Europe.
In the summers, she served as the cornerstone of the annual pilgrimage to the family Camp in the Adirondacks, passing on ancestral tales to the next generation, and in 2020 at the age of 90, she beat her father's record by a year and became the oldest in the family ever to visit the remote camp. Like her father, she spent a good deal of time poring over voluminous family letters, diaries, and ancestral charts from the 19th century, befriending scholars in Japan, and taking enough notes to fill a book that she never wrote. She volunteered at the Historical Society, at the Cornwall Library, and at the Women's Society of the Congregational Church.
In her last 35 years at Haywards, she must have baked thousands of cookies, as a gesture of good will and appreciation for many different residents of Cornwall, but she was especially fond of feeding cookies to her grandchildren, who gathered around her for vacation weeks in the summer and for all the winter holidays.
She is survived by her sister, Marjorie Ellinwood Bacon Gracey (age 87) of Cornwall, her sons and their wives Rhys and Kempley, and her 5 grandchildren: Bethany, Helena, Benjamin, Lincoln, and Daisy.
A memorial service will be held at the United Church of Christ in Cornwall at the Cornwall Village Meeting House at a date still to be determined.
Memorial contributions may be made to the United Church of Christ and/or the Cornwall Volunteer Fire Department.
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Faculty (1956-1965, English; Mathematics; Social Studies)
Coach (1956-1965, Boys Basketball; Football)
Died on August 10th, 2020
Monday August 10th, 2020. The day my father took his last breath. The day his heart took its last beat. The day his soul moved on to be with our almighty Lord. His life was long and full of adventures. He influenced more lives than any one of us can begin to know. Through educating, coaching, mentoring, and faith he gave so many so much. Thanks pop for all that you gave and for shaping me to be the man I am today. -Patrick Curtis
Jim Curtis was born and raised in a small coal mining town in western Pennsylvania where he was influenced by mountains, long winters, football, small-town values, and by people like Lawrence Whittaker, painter, who taught him to see, Keturah Fornear, piano teacher, who taught him to feel, and Margaret McLaughlin, English teacher, who told him, “write...write...write.”
From high school through his years at the The Johns Hopkins University to this day, Jim has “seen”, “felt”, and “written” as charged. His writings include poetry, essays, short stories and longer prose works. He has lived much of his life in the same nineteenth century farmhouse in “the Hereford zone” of Baltimore County, Maryland where his belief that nature should have the first and last word in all things is carefully observed.
-Bio by Jim Curtis for poetry publication “A Neutral Soul”, 2008
Jim loved, played and coached sports most of his life. In fact, he founded/coached the boys Hereford Hornets Football team starting in 1993 and was a founding member/coach of the boys Hereford’s Lacrosse Team starting in the late 1980’s. He played football throughout High School in Windber, Pa, and had a scholarship to Johns Hopkins where he played football and became team captain in his senior year. He spent most of his career teaching and coaching in Friends Schools, then as Director of Genesee Valley’s Outdoor Learning Center and finally working with adjudicated youth at Spring Grove Hospital. He also had a passion for writing (mostly poetry) and painting with many works still displayed in our home.
He leaves behind a legacy having lived 89 years to the fullest, having loved his children and proudly letting others know about the amazing adults, husbands, wives and parents they became and families they raised, humbly sharing words of wisdom with them to help them grow. He had so many life experiences and loved to share them in a ‘writer’s style’ in great picturesque detail, so you could never forget them.
Surviving are his wife Helen Mitchell Curtis, 4 sons: Mark, Patrick, Matthew, Quinlon, his daughter Lisa Kratz, stepson Brian Mitchell, stepdaughter Kim Smith, 14 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren.
Viewing and service info:
Location: CrossLife Bible Church 2127 Old Liberty Rd. W., Westminster, MD. Viewing and Visitation Friday 14 August 2020 from 6-8pm. Funeral/Memorial Service 15 August 2020 from 11am to 12pm with Pastor Quint Merson officiating.
Interment will be in Gunpowder Friends Meeting House at a later date.
Memorials are suggested to the Prostate Cancer Foundations (www.pcf.org) and the Nature Conservancy (www.nature.org) in lieu of flowers.
Online condolences may be made at www.elinefh.com
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Interim Head of School 2005-2006
Died on December 21, 2023Phoenix - Leo P. Dressel (Interim Head of School 2005-06) died on December 21, 2023, in Phoenix, AZ after complications from a surgical procedure. He was 77 years old.
A lifelong educator, Leo entered the Society of Jesus in 1965 and throughout his career impacted the lives of thousands of students and faculty at several independent schools across the country. In addition to several interim positions as Head of School, Leo went on to lead Saint Louis University High School in St. Louis, MO., St. Martin's Episcopal School in Metairie, La., and All Saints Episcopal Day School in Phoenix, AZ.
Leo was born in St. Louis, MO on September 26, 1946, to Leo P. and Ellen J. (Fitzgerald) Dressel. He is survived by his loving wife, Janet (Esstman/Livingston) and her children, Laura Livingston Moller (Mark Moller), Mark Livingston (Susannah Schweiss) and Peter Livingston (Jane Corbett), along with 10 grandchildren and 1 great grandson. He was affectionately known as "Padre" by his loving family. He is also survived by his siblings, Ellen Ippolito (Nick), Geri Baumgart (Steve) and Patrick Dressel (Kim) and many nieces and nephews.
Leo retired in 2019 to care for his beloved wife, Jan and they moved together to the Beatitudes Campus in Phoenix, AZ where they continued to spread their love and sense of community that defined Leo's life. Leo will always be known for his sharp intellect, his deep faith and spirituality, his ability to remember names and his loving kindness to anyone who had the pleasure to meet him. He is deeply missed by many.
Services to be held in Phoenix, AZ on January 6, 2024, at All Saints Episcopal Church & Day School 6300 North Central Ave, Phoenix, AZ at 2:00 p.m. Final memorial service to be held on January 20, 2024, at Holy Redeemer Catholic Church 17 Joy Ave, Webster Groves, MO at 2:00 p.m.
In accordance with the way in which Leo lived his life, he donated his body to the Knowledge Donor Program at Creighton Health Sciences Department in Phoenix.
Leo & Jan were widely committed to a large and diverse number of charities throughout their lives. In lieu of flowers, please consider the following organizations in Leo's memory:
Nourish Phoenix - Nourishphx.org
The Challenge Foundation - thechallengefoundation.org
All Saints Episcopal Day School - allsaints.org
St. Louis University High School - SLUH.org
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Faculty Member ('60-'64 - Kindergarten Assistant)
Died on February 15, 2024Joan Hampton Pontiff Egan (F&S, 1960-64), 93, of Wilmington, DE, passed away on Thursday, February 15, 2024, at the Stonegates Health Center.
Born in Fall River, MA, Joan was the daughter of the late Eugene Jackson Pontiff and Doris Hampton Pontiff. She was raised in New Bedford, MA and South Dartmouth, MA and moved to Wilmington in 1956.
Joan was a graduate of the Kendall Hall School, Peterborough, NH. She also graduated from Mount Ida Junior College, and Emerson College, both in Boston, MA. She loved working with children, starting with her first job as a summer camp counselor. After finishing her education, she worked as a teacher at the Sol-E-Mar Hospital for Children in South Dartmouth. Upon moving to Wilmington, she became an assistant Kindergarten teacher at Wilmington Friends School. As a newcomer to town, Joan was embraced by Headmaster Wilmot Jones and the entire WFS community. She never forgot their kindness and the sense of belonging that she felt at WFS. Although she stopped teaching when her daughter was born, Joan relished her continued connection to WFS as a parent and grandparent.
Joan had a keen intellect and enjoyed keeping up with politics and current events. She was a talented singer and pianist and loved many genres of music, including jazz. Joan had an eye for interior design and a great interest in art and antiques. A proud New Englander, Joan savored a good lobster roll with butter (not mayonnaise!), blueberry pie, and her daily scoop of coffee ice cream. She cherished her childhood summers on the banks of the Slocum River and Buzzard’s Bay in South Dartmouth when family would visit, including her beloved cousin, Randy. This is where her love for the water and sailing began.
During her younger years, Joan was quite active in clubs and volunteer activities. She was a member of Christ Church Christiana Hundred, where she served on the altar guild, as plants chair for the Green Show, and as UTO chair. She was a former guide at Winterthur and a member of an antiques group. Joan also enjoyed her time as a member of the English-Speaking Union and the DuPont Country Club.
Joan is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Alison '81 and Dan Thompson, of Wilmington; her beloved grandchildren, Lindsay '14 and Alicia '17 Thompson, both of Boston, MA; and her cousin, Randy Motland and his wife, Sandy, of Rye, NY. She’s also survived by Randy’s children and other extended family.
Joan’s family wishes to express their gratitude and wholehearted thanks to everyone who helped Joan stay independent in her cottage and transition to the Health Center at Stonegates. Her devoted friend and caregiver, Charlene, and numerous wonderful caregivers and staff members from Home Instead and Cornerstone Health Partners provided Joan with great comfort and compassion. This also includes the exceptionally caring and skilled doctors, nurses, aides, and staff from Stonegates.
In lieu of flowers, please perform a random act of kindness or consider contributing in Joan’s memory to Wilmington Friends School, 101 School Road, Wilmington, DE 19803, or Lloyd Center for the Environment, 430 Potomska Road, South Dartmouth, MA 02748.
Services will be private.
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Faculty Member ('56-'57 - 4th Grade)
Died on July 13, 2023Matilda ("Tilly") [Faulkner] Maassen (Faculty-4th Grade, 1956-57) was born in Nashville, Tennessee, to the late Matilda Treanor and Hugh Kenneth Faulkner, died peacefully July 13th, 2023, in Wilmington, Delaware. As a daughter of a rising plant manager within the DuPont Company, Tilly's early years were spent in Old Hickory, Tennessee, but she then moved successively to Buffalo, New York; Richmond, Virginia; Fairfield, Connecticut; Lake City, Missouri; and Ilion, New York, where she was a high school cheerleader and a National Honor Student. After graduating from Vassar College in 1955 with a degree in early childhood education, she accepted a position at the Wilmington Friends School where she taught 3rd grade.
She met and married the late Frederick Karl Maassen with whom she had three sons: Kirk, Christian and Erik. Tilly was a member of the Junior League in Wilmington and sang in her church choir. When the Maassens moved to Geneva, Switzerland, she exercised many opportunities to see and experience Europe, Africa, and the Middle East with her family.
After six years abroad, she and the family returned to Wilmington where she sang in the choir at Christ Church. She was also among the first members of her church to become a Stephen Minister trained to provide care for other members experiencing difficult times in life. She further served on the Vestry welcoming new members.
Sparked by her father's hobby, Tilly pursued her passion for early American antiques at Winterthur Museum, where she volunteered as a guide and later worked as a docent for almost forty years. She immersed herself studying various styles of furniture, creating specialized tours on what she had learned. What Tilly enjoyed most was getting to know her guests and adapting the tour to their specific interests. After retiring from Winterthur, her inquisitive nature and love of family history led Tilly to compile many ancestral documents qualifying her for membership to the National Society of Colonial Dames.
At Country House in Wilmington, Tilly actively served others as an area representative for her fellow residents and as a Hospice Care volunteer.
Tilly's most prized pursuits were intentional caring relationships with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. She would be sure to send notes, related newspaper articles, birthday cards, make phone and zoom calls, in turn wanting to know the latest news from their lives. As the true sport she was, her visits would usually entail experiencing the latest sporting activity that any of the grands were involved in such as camping, canoeing, skiing, motorcycling, jet skiing, sailing, windsurfing, paddle boarding, and auto sports to name a few. What she was most widely known for were her warm greetings, kind encouraging words and diligent follow-ups with a thoughtful card or note.
Tilly is survived by her sons Kirk (Anne) of Marietta, GA, Christian (Rae Fletcher) of Newark, DE, Erik of Westland, MI; her grandchildren Karl (Amy), Kenneth, Josh (Mollie) Murauskas, Seth (Noelle) Murauskas, Adam (Rebecca) Murauskas, Elijah, Philip (Theresa), Julia (Joe) Dessert and Nickolas; her eight great-grandchildren; two nieces and their four children. She is predeceased by her sister, Anna Faulkner Clark and brother-in-law David W. Clark, Jr.
A Celebration of Life Service will be Saturday, August 12th 2pm at Christ Church Christiana Hundred, 505 E Buck Rd, Wilmington, DE 19807.
The family and Tilly would request that in lieu of flowers, donations be made in her memory to Winterthur Museum,5105 Kennett Pike, Winterthur, DE 19735, or Christ Church Christiana Hundred,505 Buck Road, Wilmington, DE 19807.
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Obituary published on Legacy.com by McCrery & Harra Funeral Home and Crematory - Concord Pike on Jul. 29, 2023.
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Faculty Member ('67-'70 - English, Physical Education)
Died on November 20, 2022Philip Eastman Fitzpatrick, Age 77, of Duluth, Minnesota, died on November 20, 2022, surrounded by love. The firstborn child of Persis and Joseph Fitzpatrick, he was devoted to his three younger brothers, leading them through escapades in North Oaks, Minnesota. With an enthusiasm for the natural world, he also led youth canoe camps (and forged lifelong friendship) as a young man in the Boundary Waters Canoe Area. He received a BA in English ('67) from Harvard College, before beginning his teaching career at Wilmington Friends School in Delaware where he met and married Pamela Parker. They moved to Chapel Hill, North Carolina when he joined the faculty at Carolina Friends School and it was there that their daughter, Courtney, was born, to whom he was a loving father. He also taught at Chewning Junior High School (Durham, NC), Marshall School (Duluth, MN), and Mesabi Range College (Virginia, MN), and held masters degrees from the Bread Loaf School of English and the University of Minnesota Duluth. On each stop he displayed a preternatural knack for forming enduring friendships. Driven by an unquenchable thirst for renewal, he arrived at each next enterprise with the heart of a poet. His early passions for baseball, literature, black labs, theater, and folk music never died, but it wasn't until 1997 that he rekindled an early, backyard relationship with golf clubs and, through more friendship, fell in love with the game. During this time, he doubled down on his calling as a writer and in 2008 published his first book, A Beautiful Friendship: The Joy of Chasing Bogey Golf. His second book, Hawks on High: Everyday Miracles in a Hawk Ridge Season, was published in 2019. He never stopped believing in the redemptive power of family and stepped into his most important role as "Bomma Phil" in 2015 when his grandson was born. He affected many lives and is survived by his daughter, Courtney Fitzpatrick (Sam Stephenson); former wife Pamela Fitzpatrick; grandson Parker Fitzpatrick Stephenson; brothers Jim, John (Molly), and Charlie Fitzpatrick; niece/nephews John, Sarah, and Dylan, a beloved extended family, and an exceptional network of friends and neighbors. The family wishes to express profound gratitude to everyone involved in the last year of Phil's life, especially the community at Bayshore Residence and Rehab for their unique combination of care, compassion, and wisdom. A memorial service will be announced in the spring. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Hawk Ridge Bird Observatory or Zeitgeist in Duluth. Arrangements by Dougherty Funeral Home 218-727-3555.
Duluth News Tribune
Published December 21, 2022 at 1:17 PM
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Faculty Member ('62-'64 - French)
Died on August 1, 2023Patricia Kelley Cunningham (F&S, 1962-1964) of Wilmington, DE, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, August 1, 2023. She was beloved wife, devoted Catholic, gifted scholar, passionate teacher and faithful friend.
Patricia was born in Brockton, Massachusetts, to Arthur R Kelley and Ileen Dunphy. She was a 1953 graduate of Brockton High School and went on to attend Brown University in Providence, RI, graduating in 1957. She spent her junior year abroad in Fribourg, Switzerland with the program from the Dominican University in Illinois. She would go on to spend further time studying abroad throughout her life, including at the College of Saint Catherine's Institut de Langue Française, in Rennes, France.
After her undergraduate studies in English at Brown, Patricia received two Master degrees in French; one from Marquette University and one from Middlebury College. A lifelong learner, Patricia was devoted to her studies. She spent most of her vacations studying in France, Spain, and Italy and took further graduate classes at Bryn Mawr College and the University of Delaware.
It was whilst they were both at Marquette University that "Patsy Kelley" or "PK" met her husband, George Cunningham. That first meeting, on a toboggan date in 1961, began a 61 year run of laughs, love and devotion for PK and George.
For 40 of those 61 years, Patricia taught French, Spanish, Italian and English to her beloved students. Locally, she taught World Languages at Wilmington Friends School, The Tatnall School, St. Edmond's Academy, and Archmere Academy. At Archmere, she established an innovative World Languages Department, second to none. Her teaching methods were far ahead of their time in their integration of language, history and culture. Her student/faculty class trips to Europe set the standard for years to come.
From 1981 through 1988 she was chair of Archmere's Foreign Language Department. After her tenure was complete, she shared her teaching expertise as Supervising and Mentor teacher, establishing a program which guided new and developing teachers. She supported a generation of teachers to find their unique voice in the classroom. Her sustained legacy of high standards and preparation continue to impact the learning of students and teachers today.
After retiring, she continued to share her teaching skills with anyone who asked for her help. During that time, her expertise was sought in the redesign of the Spanish curriculum at Saint Edmond's Academy. For several years she taught Spanish there to fourth, fifth, and sixth grade students, helping interview and mentor new teachers for the seventh and eighth grade middle school program. Through her international contacts, Patricia helped put in place a Spanish immersion summer program at the Escuela Idiomas de Nerja, in Spain. The program proved popular with students and parents alike.
Patricia was as assiduous in her devotional life as she was in her language study. Often her daily prayers and devotions were in foreign languages and she was a regular and gifted public reader of the Bible at both Archmere and at the chapel at the Country House. Her preparation for reading was always meticulous and she took time to breathe life into the words she read.
Nobody emerged from their interactions with Patricia's kindness without being changed for the better: whether student, colleague, family member or friend. When Pat was on your side, good things happened.
PK and George's Wilmington home was often the gathering spot for new and seasoned teachers, lifelong friends and new acquaintances. The "PK and Georgio" parties were legendary for their impeccable cuisine, late-night camaraderie, ever-present humor and good will. We thank God for her life and her faith - heaven's gain is our loss. She will be so missed.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend the visitation on Monday morning, August 7, 2023 from 10:00-11:00 a.m. at St. Joseph on the Brandywine Roman Catholic Church, Greenville, DE. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at 11:00 a.m. Burial will follow in St. Joseph on the Brandywine cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, Dr. Cunningham asks donations be made to: The ALS Association, 321 Norristown Road, Suite 260, Ambler, PA 19002.
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Published by Legacy on Aug. 3, 2023.
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Trustee ('61-'71), Parent of Alumni ('71, '73 & ex.'77)
Died on July 21, 2017Anne Myers Wilson Harrington, 91, died peacefully on Friday, July 21, 2017 at Crosslands in Kennett Square, PA. She was the widow of James Paul Harrington (Trustee, '82-'88) to whom she was married for 61 years. Born in Philadelphia on June 18, 1926 and raised in Lansdowne, PA, she was the daughter of Edgar Myers Wilson and Jean Gould DeHaven Wilson. A memorial service will be held at Crosslands Retirement Community, 1660 E. Street Road (Route 926), Kennett Square on Sunday, September 17, 2017 at 2:00 pm. Arrangements are being handled by Founds Funeral Home Inc., West Chester, PA.
Published by The Daily Local from Aug. 10 to Aug. 11, 2017.
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Parent of Alumni: Barbara Harrington Murphy '71, Ian '71 and Eric ex.'77 Harrington.
Trustee ('82-'88), Parent of Alumni ('71, '73 & ex.'77)
Died on July 21, 2017James Paul Harrington (Trustee, 1982-1988), of Kennett Square, died Saturday, Feb. 27, after a 6-year struggle with pulmonary fibrosis and pulmonary hypertension.
He was born Christmas Day 1925 in Lucknow, India, attended the Woodstock School in Mussoorie, India, graduated from Cazenovia, N.Y., High School in 1943, and received BSE and MSE degrees from Princeton University.
He served as a sergeant in the U.S. Army during World War II as part of the 238th General Hospital unit while in Europe.
He worked for DuPont, Wilmington. for 18 years as a research engineer in polychemicals, technical representative and group manager, receiving two patents. He also served as research and development director for the L.D. Caulk Co., Milford, Del.; director of exhibits at the Franklin Institute (Philadelphia), 1973-1981; and served as an editor at Technomic Publishing Co. (Lancaster) and Sage Publications Limited (London, England). He was the founding editor of the "Journal on Plastic Film and Sheeting," and served in that role until January.
In addition, he served as a scout aster, was president of Runnymeade (the first racially integrated housing corporation in Delaware in the late 1950s), a leader of the New Party to get Eugene McCarthy on the presidential ballot in 1968, and a founder of the New Hope and Ivyland Railroad.
He co-authored "Aviation and Pennsylvania" and "Packaging Foods with Plastics," wrote several papers, and edited several other publications.
He spent much of his vacation time at Lake Paupac Club in the Poconos. He loved playing tennis at Paupac and locally.
Largely as a result of his experiences during the war, he became a member of the Religious Society of Friends in 1953 with the Wilmington Monthly Meeting, then transferred to Birmingham Monthly Meeting in 1989. He served in leadership roles and on various committees with these Meetings and Philadelphia Yearly Meeting.
He is survived by his wife, Anne Wilson Harrington (Trustee, 1987 - 1989); daughter, Barbara [Harrington] Murphy '71 of Glendale, Ariz.; sons, Ian '73 of Wayland, Mass., and Eric ex.'77 of Maynard, Mass.; three grandchildren; two great-grandchildren; and brother, William of Altamonte Springs, Fla.
The memorial service for Jim will be held Saturday, March 20, at 2 p.m. at the Crosslands Retirement Community in Kennett Square.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Friends Committee on National Legislation Education Fund, 245 Second St. NE, Washington, DC 20002; or Neighborhood Hospice, 400 E. Marshall St., West Chester, PA 19380.
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1748 Society, Staff Member ('83-'91 - Dir. of Development), Parent of Alum ('78), Parent-In-law ('78)
Died on March 13, 2023Cynthia Henderson Kuespert (F&S, 1983-1991) passed away at the age of 88 on March 13, 2023. Born in Lincoln Nebraska, daughter of Clyde P. and Winifred Henderson, Cynthia was a Phi Beta Kappa graduate of the University of Nebraska in 1956, majoring in journalism and English. Nearly 30 years later she earned a Master’s degree in Urban Affairs and Public Policy from the University of Delaware. Ever the student, she enjoyed classes at the Academy of Lifelong Learning and wrote a novel, “Isaac’s Call,” tracking relationships among an interracial family on the Maryland Eastern Shore across generations.
Cynthia’s marriage in 1956 to Warren B. Burt drew her to the East Coast, first to the University of Virginia where she worked in the University Personnel office, and transcribed lectures of guest writer, William Faulkner. After moving to Delaware and the birth of her sons David and John, she became immersed in community activities. She served as President of the Junior League of Wilmington in 1973, the Children’s Bureau of Delaware, and the Delaware Association of Kappa Kappa Gamma. The first major grant she obtained supported founding a home for delinquency-prone teenagers in cooperation with the Division of Juvenile Corrections. She has also served on the councils of the Delaware State Arts Council and the Delaware Humanities Forum.
Returning to full time employment in 1976, Cynthia was hired by the Delaware Arts Council to organize a clearinghouse calendar for the arts. Shortly thereafter she became Coordinator of the Arts and Bicentennial Coordinator for the City of Wilmington, both programs of the mayor’s office. In those capacities she founded the Wilmington Arts Commission and started the first Fourth of July celebration sponsored by the City of Wilmington. During this era of high unemployment in the city, Cynthia ran special projects using federal funds for the City’s Division of Manpower Development, managed the City Sights-City Sounds programs that employed many artists, and produced the book “Wilmington Awake”, a photo essay of Wilmington during the Bicentennial year. She also was responsible for an employment program that placed many women in higher paying non-traditional positions.
In 1979, Cynthia became Executive Director of Christina Cultural Arts Center, the only non-African American to hold that position. In 1981 she was recruited by Wilmington Friends School where she was Director of Development and Alumni Activities until 1994. During this time, she earned her CFRE (Certified Fundraising Executive) from the National Society of Fundraising Executives (now AFP), became one of the founders of the Brandywine Chapter of NSFRE, was elected vice-president for External Affairs of the national professional organization of NSFRE, and one year was named Outstanding Fundraiser of the Year by the local chapter. She engaged in national lobbying efforts to encourage increased tax advantages for contributions to non-profit organizations.
In 1983, Cynthia married Don R. Kuespert and became stepmother to Jonathan and Jeanne Kuespert. In 1994, she followed her heart to become director of the capital campaign to raise $5 million for the renovation of Westminster Presbyterian Church, retiring from her beloved Wilmington Friends School. She continued to be deeply involved in her church, serving as a Deacon, Elder, and in many other capacities.
At the close of the Westminster campaign, she joined MacIntyre Associates, eventually becoming vice president. She assisted many non-profits in major fundraising, to include Grace Methodist Church, Gilpin Hall, West Side Health Center, the Elementary Workshop, Saints Andrew and Matthew Episcopal Church, Connections, Overbrook Presbyterian Church, Newark Presbyterian Church, Pencader Community Center, the Kent School, St. Luke’s Episcopal Church, Sojourner’s Place and others, finally retiring at the age of 71.
In 2003, Don and Cynthia moved to Coniston, a Kendal retirement community, near Kennett Square. They relished many days at their cottage on the Elk River near Chesapeake City, Maryland, especially times of family sharing.
Our family’s hearts are warmed by the descriptions of Cynnie’s character that have flooded in: a light of beauty, grace and loving kindness; perceptive, kindly and humorous; someone who always made you feel like one of her closest, most interesting friends; and the best Nama a kid could ever hope to have. And above all, energetically devoted to leaving the world better for her being.
Cynthia was predeceased by her loving husband, Don. Surviving are her children David H. Burt (Audrey Whiteside '78), John W. Burt '78 (Sheridan K. K. Lorentzen), Jonathan G. Kuespert (Paula Kurata), and Jeanne K. Roberts (James Durban Roberts); six grandchildren: Evan W. and Matthew H. Burt, Logan P. and Zachary G. Kuespert, and Erica G. and Alicia C. Roberts; devoted life partner of five years, Walter K. Stapleton '52; her Nebraska family, and many far-flung nieces and nephews.
Funeral Services:
Please join us at Westminster Presbyterian Church, 1502 W. 13th St., Wilmington, Delaware for a memorial service April 15, 2023 at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Westminster Presbyterian Church, (wpc.org); Wilmington Friends School (wilmingtonfriends.org); or your favorite not-for-profit organization. Fundraiser to the end, Cynthia would say “Give until it feels good!”
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Staff Member '73-'89 ('73-'85 -Business Office Secretary, '85-'89-Assistant to Business Manager)
Died on December 31, 2021Eleanor Lipinski Levering (1973-1989, Business office Secretary/Assistant to Business Manager), age 85, of New Castle, DE and Cape May Court House, New Jersey, has gone to be with the Lord, on Friday, December 31, 2021.
Eleanor was born and raised on Maryland Avenue in Wilmington, DE. She attended Wilmington High School and graduated in 1953. Eleanor met the love of her life, Horace F. "Jake" Levering, in 1951 at a dance. They married on September 11, 1953. After being a stay-at-home mom, Eleanor worked at Wilmington Friends School from 1975-1986 as a bookkeeper. Eleanor loved her family and enjoyed spending time with them. She and Jake spent many years camping and traveling across the United States and Canada. They took numerous cruises and spent many winters in Florida. One of Eleanor's favorite places was the Grand Canyon. She called it "Heaven on Earth". Eleanor loved line dancing, square dancing, ceramics, playing cards, bingo, swimming, the beach, crabbing, and cooking.
In addition to her loving husband of 68 years, she is survived by her children, Linda A. Briggs and Kenneth H. Levering (Denise) and daughter-in-law, Diana Levering. Eleanor is also survived by her 6 grandchildren, Stacey Malm, Christopher Briggs, Amanda Levering, Justin Levering, Michelle Briggs, and Emma Levering and 9 great-grandchildren. Eleanor was preceded in death by her parents, Ella Anna and John Lipinski; son, John Levering; siblings, Johnny Lipinski and Catherine Hahn; and son-in-law, Joe Briggs.
A visitation for family and friends will be held from 10 am until 11 am on Friday, January 7, 2022, at Asbury United Methodist Church, 300 E Basin Rd, Wilmington Manor, DE, where a Celebration of Life will begin at 11 am. Face coverings will be required for all those in attendance regardless of vaccination status. Interment will be held privately.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Eleanor's memory to Seasons Hospice & Palliative Care, 220 Continental Drive, Suite 407, Newark, DE, 19713 or to Asbury United Methodist Church, at the address above.
Obituary published on Legacy.com by Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory - New Castle from Jan. 1 to Jan. 2, 2022.
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Staff Member '82-'95 (Math), Parent of Alum ('87 & '88)
Died on October 4, 2023Jean Weller McClelland (F&S-US Math, 1982-1995) passed away on October 4, 2023, at the age of 82. Jean was born in Upland, PA to the late John Baxter Weller and the late Barbara (Moody) Weller. Jean was the oldest of three children. She grew up in Wallingford, Pennsylvania and graduated from Nether Providence High School. Jean graduated from Dickinson College with a degree in Psychology and Mathematics. At Dickinson, she met her future husband, the late John Rowen McClelland (Jack), and they married in 1965. Jean lived in the Foulk Woods development in Wilmington, Delaware for 40 years before moving to the Cartmel community in Kennett Square, Pennsylvania in 2010.
Jean is survived by her siblings, Philip Weller and Elizabeth Plumb; her children, John D. McClelland '87 (Karen) and Elizabeth [McClelland] Lutostansky '88 (Mark); her four grandchildren, Keegan, Jack, Sam, and Keith; an uncle, Richard Weller; several cousins and nieces and nephews.
Jean was a math and computer teacher. After college, she taught math and special education in the West Chester school system at North Junior High School. After staying home when her children were young, Jean resumed her teaching career at a residential school for students with drug and alcohol problems. She worked for Project Direct teaching teachers to use computer terminals and later the first Apple computers. Later, she taught math at Wilmington Friends School before retiring in 1995.
Jean’s hobbies included gardening, sewing, knitting, and quilting. After retiring, Jean enjoyed traveling and spending time in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware and Venice, Florida.
The family suggests honoring the memory of Jean by sending a contribution to Wilmington Friends School [STEM program], Alumni/Development Office, 101 School Rd., Wilmington, DE 19803 or online at www.wilmingtonfriends.org/donate. (Please include that the contribution is being sent in memory of Jean McClelland).
Visitation with the family will be from 10:00AM until 11:00AM with a memorial service at 11:00AM on Saturday, November 11, 2023 at the LONGWOOD FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION of MATTHEW GENEREUX, 913 East Baltimore Pike, Kennett Square. Burial will be private.
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Coach Cross Country/Winter & Spring Track, Parent of Alumni ('94)
Died on December 13, 2023Lewis Paul Nemeth, born February 22nd, 1942 in Norfolk, VA to Stephan J Nemeth Jr and Regina Quirk Nemeth passed away at home peacefully on December 13th, 2023. He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Mary Elizabeth “Taffy” Nemeth and children David Paul and wife Marian Hederson with son Gunnar Henderson-Nemeth (26), Kevin John with son Garrett Fookes (33)and his daughter Amelia, Lydia Nemeth Odell and husband Arthur Odell with son Brady David Odell (17), and John Brady '94 and wife Tammy Baker Nemeth with daughters Lillian Piper (10) and Zoey Elizabeth (10). Also survived by his sister, Regina Nemeth Teofrio and brother Terence W Nemeth. Stephan J Nemeth III predeceased.
Paul grew up in Port Jefferson Station, NY and was very active in his athletic life with many accolades including co-captain of the Suffolk County winning football team at Port Jefferson High School. He went on to attend St. Vincent’s College in Latrobe, PA. Then he married his high school sweetheart, Taffy on January 27th, 1962. Paul and Taffy began to grow their family in Port Jefferson, but soon found their way to Newtown, PA where Paul worked in the window business and enjoyed volunteering with his older sons in the Boy Scouts. Eventually, the family landed in Wilmington, DE where Paul worked in the window business, real estate, retail and finally, his dream job of coaching at Wilmington Friends.
Nothing brightened up Paul’s day like time with his grandchildren: watching Lily and Zoey play, having a good talk with Gunnar or listening to Brady play his guitar. All things he was able to enjoy one last time just days before passing. Paul found a love of running later in life. So much so that he pushed himself to run marathons where he completed his last Boston Marathon at age 72 (one of at least 10 marathons including Philadelphia, Delaware, DC and New York City). Paul also enjoyed live music, particularly attending Phish shows with his children. He traveled to northern Maine, North Carolina and the Everglades to have these great experiences. Paul also loved his vacation time. Trips to Ocean City, NJ, Naples, FL, Brevard, NC, France and a wonderful cruise with Taffy in Alaska.
Paul really found his passion when he began coaching Cross Country at Wilmington Friends School. While there, he grew the program from a few kids to nearly 40 his last season where they won the State Championship in 2019. The bonds he built with those runners were truly special. So special that he let his coaching creep into winter track & field as well as spring track and field.
Paul was a special person with a loving spirit to all that let him in their life. As long as you were happy, Paul was happy. Waiting to give a hug and a huge smile with that mustache.
A celebration of life will be held at Wilmington Friends Lower School Meeting Room at 11am, Sunday, January 14th, 2024. 101 School Rd, Wilmington, DE 19803.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Wilmington Friends School in his name where we are planning a memorial fund in his memory. To donate click on this link - https://www.wilmingtonfriends.org/support/donate
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English; Social Science; Assistant in Girls' PE (1951-1953)
Died on February 21, 2014Shirley VanZant (McCauley) Metsger (F&S, 1951-53) passed away at home on 2/21/14 at age 87 after a courageous battle with cancer.
She was born Feb. 16, 1927 in Chester, PA, to Francis S. and Emma (Wright) VanZant and grew up in Media, PA.
She loved her family and cherished family gatherings. As a youth, she enjoyed all sports, served as field hockey captain in high school and college and was an avid golfer as an adult.
Graduating Media HS in 1945, she went on to receive a degree in Phys. Ed. at West Chester State Teachers College, later teaching Phys. Ed. & Health at Wilmington Friends School.
She was married to Harry E. McCauley for 28 years and raised 5 children. She worked at Century 21 and The Franklin Mint. After her retirement, she married Harvey R. Metsger and lived at a golfing community in Myrtle Beach.
She was predeceased by husband, Harry E. McCauley; husband, Harvey R. Metsger, and brother, Rodman VanZant.
She is survived by her children: Karen G. (Lawrence) McMullen, Lisa M. (Thomas) Seelinger, Neil B. (Maria) McCauley, Glenn E. McCauley and Greg K. McCauley, as well as 9 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren.
An 11:00 a.m. service, 10:00 a.m. visitation on Saturday March 1, 2014 at J. Nelson Rigby Funeral Home: 1 W. Baltimore Ave., Media, PA 19063, 610-566-4526. Interment Private. Contributions to American Cancer Society are appreciated. Condolences: www.j-nelsonrigbyfh.com.
Published by Reading Eagle on Feb. 23, 2014.
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Past Trustee, Parent of Alumni ('66 & '76)
Died on January 22, 2019Dr. Leon Emandus Petty, 95, passed away Tuesday evening, January 22, 2019 at his residence surrounded by his loving family.
A native of New Castle, DE, he was the son of the late William Edward Petty and Hester Bungy Petty. He graduated from Howard High School in Wilmington, DE, and received his undergraduate degree from Howard University in Washington DC. Other professional degrees were received from Yeshiva University, New York, NY, University of Delaware, Newark, DE, Temple University, Philadelphia, PA, and he studied abroad. Professionally, he was a Clinical Psychologist where he practiced at Mental Hygeine Clinic and St. Francis Hospital both in Wilmington, DE and Delaware State Hospital, New Castle, DE. He was a Director of Alcoholic Services for the State of Delaware creating an alcohol institute and had a federal grant to treat drug addiction. He also served as adjunct professor at the University of Delaware, Newark, DE.
He was initiated in the Beta Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. He was a life member of the Pi Lambda Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., and was active for over 75 years. His commitment to serve transcended the fraternity. He served on the American Psychological Association, Board of Wilmington Friends School, Rotary Club - Paul Harris Fellow, Linus Pauling Institute, Sandhills Society, Scientific Research Honor Society, Sigma Xi... American Psychological Association, Sigma Xi, Private City Club and Private School Club.
He resided in Chadds Ford, PA for 42 years. Upon retirement, he relocated to Pinehurst, NC for 17 years before settling in Greensboro, NC over two years ago. He was affiliated with the Religious Society of Friends and became a member at New Garden Friends Meeting.
Survivors include his wife, Hester Stephens Petty; daughters, Lenora K. Petty '66 and Lisa M. Petty '76; brothers, Conwell Petty, Eugene Petty and Frank Petty; sister, Patricia Petty; other relatives and friends.
Interment was held Thursday, January 24, 2019 at New Garden Friends Cemetery, 801 New Garden Road, Greensboro at 12 Noon. A memorial service will be held Saturday, February 2, 2019 at New Garden Friends Meeting, 801 New Garden Road, Greensboro, at 11:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made at American Friends Service Committee.
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Staff (1975-83, Library Aide); Parent of Alumni ('82, '84); Sibling of Alum ('49)
Died on February 9, 2023Margaret Prince (F&S 1975-83, Library Aide), died peacefully, at age 94 of late-stage heart failure on February 9, 2023 in Cincinnati, OH, where she was on a long-term visit with her daughter after living most of her years in Delaware. Margaret Williams Hukill was born on July 22, 1928, in East Orange, New Jersey, the first child of Charlotte Peverley Hukill and Francis Williams Hukill. A year into her life, the family moved back to their hometown of Middletown, DE, where Margaret grew up with her brothers Robert '49 and John on a small family farm, in a house built by her maternal grandfather. Before World War II, the children enjoyed activities such as riding to school in the winters in a horse-drawn sleigh. Only the boys had to get up early to milk the cows. Margaret graduated in 1945 from Middletown High School, where she was the valedictorian in a nearly all-female class, most of the males being away in military service.
Margaret graduated from Hood College in 1949 with a major in mathematics. She went to work in the 1950s in Wilmington for Blue Cross and Blue Shield and then the DuPont Company, in the early days of the mainframe computer, on which she worked. At DuPont she met her future husband, David Dickson Prince. Dave was deployed on a DuPont project to Geneva, Switzerland, from November 1962 to November 1963. On home leave at Christmas 1962, he proposed to Margaret, who married him on January 5 and returned with him to Geneva for the rest of his year. Margaret made life-long friends in Geneva and sailed home on the Queen Mary just enough pregnant with their first child, Susan '82, to remember the journey well, but not for feeling well. Son James '84 was born two years later.
Life changed abruptly in 1970 and 1972, when Dave experienced a psychotic break and then took his own life. With a lot of help from her brothers Bob and John and their families, from her parents-in-law Mildred and James Prince, and from a wonderful group of neighbors who became dear friends in Hollingsworth Tract, Centerville, Margaret raised her children faithfully, managed a beautiful home, and created a yard and garden full of flowering plants for every season, as had her mother in Middletown. Some of us remember badminton and tetherball games in the back yard. She maintained a circle of friends through a bridge club of DuPont-Company women and wives. From the late 1970s and into the 80s, she worked in the library at Wilmington Friends School, where her children attended. Once Jamie departed for college, she took a one-year job in the Registrar?s office at Winterthur Museum, which turned into a weekly volunteer position that she held for more than twenty-five years, until she broke her femur in 2015 at age 87. With her Winterthur friends she enjoyed many lunches and conversations, and from them she continued to receive many birthday cards.
With her characteristic and remarkable grit, Margaret recovered from the death of her son Jamie in 2013, as well as the broken femur two years later. The rehabilitation team at Wilmington Hospital cheered her on to a splendid recovery, even the resumption of her many daily trips up and down the fourteen stairs of her house, with rousing shouts of ?Go, Marge!? In summer 2016 she was again independent. Subsequently, she experienced several more falls and rehabilitation experiences, including diagnosis of heart failure, but stubbornly resisted displacement from the home to which she remained so devoted. Last winter Susan managed to relocate her to Cincinnati, so that Margaret could enjoy daily visits with family, including her three grandchildren.
The family would like to thank Rose, William, and all the caregivers of Rohani Home Care for four years of loving care for Margaret at her home in Centerville. They would also like to thank the staff at the New England Club and in the corps of the Visiting Angels for a year of loving care in Cincinnati, and the staff at the Laurels of Milford, the Glen at Eastgate, and Queen City Hospice for graceful management of her final seven weeks.
Margaret is survived by her daughter Susan, her son-in-law Matthew Ward, her three grandchildren, Christopher, Elissa, and Julia Ward, all of Cincinnati, her brother John Hukill of Harbeson, DE, and his wife Jay, her sister-in-law Jane Hukill of Worton, MD, her sister-in-law Meredith Prince Morris of Chicago, and eight nieces and nephews and their many children and grandchildren. She was predeceased by her husband David and son James, and her brother Bob and nephew Bob Jr., to whom she was much devoted. A celebration of life will be held at Trinity Episcopal Church on March 3 at 11:00 am. Instead of flowers, donations may be sent to Trinity Episcopal Church or NAMI of Delaware.
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Faculty, Middle School Science, 1974-1992
Coach, Field Hockey and Tennis
MADISON - Thalia C. Putney (nee Little), of Madison, Wisconsin and Wilmington, Delaware died peacefully Feb. 26, 2021, at the age of 86 from cardiac issues.
Thalia grew up in southern New Jersey and graduated from Moorestown Friends School in 1953, and Earlham College in 1957. She played varsity sports in high school and college, and later played on the Delaware Field Hockey and New Atlantic Field Hockey Association teams. While a middle school science teacher at Wilmington Friends School from 1974-1992, she coached tennis and field hockey. Thalia was a great inspiration to countless girls in athletics, and was inducted into Earlham College's Athletic Hall of Fame in 2007.
Thalia cherished the outdoors and taught with the Delaware Nature Education Society from 1970-1995, inspiring many children to appreciate and respect our natural world. She was a Winterthur Museum Docent from 1969-1984. As someone with lifelong Quaker interests, she was involved with various meetings over the years, and was most recently active with the Moorestown Friends Meeting from 2005-2015. She was a lifelong photographer.
Thalia is survived by daughter, Laura (Putney) Wright '80 and her husband, Andy and daughter, Annie Putney '84; and two grandchildren, Tristan and Ted. She was predeceased by her son, Thomas B. Putney '84.
Due to current limitations on gatherings, we will not be having any services, but ask that everyone take a moment of silence in appreciation of Thalia: her cheerfulness, her kindness, and her love of nature and life.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to your local chapter of The Nature Conservancy, or a nonprofit environmental charity of your choice.
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Trustee (1961-1973)
Died on Feb. 25, 2005Richard H. Rhoads died peacefully on February 26, 2005 at Crosslands in Kennett Square, PA at the age of 95.
He was born October 6, 1909 in Moorestown, NJ to William E. and Ruth E. Rhoads. He married Mary E. Gaunt June 12, 1937. He was a graduate of Westtown School and the Univ. of Penn. Richard Rhoads was a partner, president and chairman of the board of J.E. Rhoads & Sons, America's oldest company, founded in 1702. He was employed there for over 50 years. His major interests were education, peace and social justice. He was a member of several school committees including Westtown School. Among other organizations, he actively supported the Friends Committee for National Legislation, American Friends Service Committee and the Wilmington World Affairs Council. For 6 months in 1949-50, he coordinated feeding Palestinian refugees in the Gaza Strip - a project of the American Friends Service Committee. He was a founder of Runnemeade, an integrated housing development near Wilmington, DE. He also founded Pacem in Terris, a peace and social justice group in Wilmington, DE. He was a Rotarian for over 35 years. He was a lifelong gardener. One of his proudest gardening moments was when he and a colleague grew gigantic pumpkins. Their largest pumpkin, which weighed over 230 pounds, was significantly larger than the largest pumpkin grown at nearby Longwood Gardens that year. In his later years, he compiled several geneologies of his family. It gave him a great joy to collect brief biographies from hundreds of descendents and cousins. He traced his ancestry back to 16th century England and Wales. He was devoted to his family. A favorite quote in his later years was "Getting married to Mary Rhoads was the best day's work I ever did." He was a lifelong Quaker, most recently a member of Kennett Friends Meeting.
He is survived by his wife of 67 years, Mary E.G. Rhoads; 3 children, David Rhoads of Kennett Square, PA, Ruth Engler of Wilmington, DE and Winifred Givot of Sisters, OR; 5 grandchildren; and 5 great grandchildren.
His life will be celebrated at a memorial service to be held at Crosslands in Kennett Square, PA on March 12 at 2 pm.
Contributions in his memory may be made to Pacem in Terris, 1304 N Rodney St, Wilmington, DE 19806; or to the American Friends Service Committee, 1501 Cherry St, Philadelphia, PA 19102 Attn: AFSC Development. KUZO & GOFUS
Kennett Square, PA
"A Life Celebration Home"
Published by The News Journal on Mar. 6, 2005.
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1748 Society; Friend of WFS
Died on May 28, 2022Brian Mark Sagrestano, 52, most recently of Lancaster, PA lost his 8 year fight with Metastatic Uveal Melanoma on May 28, 2022.
Brian was born and raised in Bridgewater, New Jersey. He was the fifth and final child of the late Montoro and Loretta (Prinzi) Sagrestano. He is survived by his wife, Christine; their children, Katherine, Sophia, Holly and Cole Hawk, and Luke; his siblings, Nancy Barry, Stephen and Lynn, Lynda and Robert Yelle, and Ken and Christa; and many nephews and nieces.
The on-going theme of Brian’s life was service to others which was reflected in everything that he did. As a young man, he observed his parents strong engagement with the Roman Catholic Church which led him to serve as an altar server, cantor, and choir member for much of his life. Similarly, his parents were heavily engaged in political causes, leading Brian to study government, intern with two different U.S. Congressmen, and ultimately attend law school at the University of Notre Dame.
In addition to following his parents lead, Brian also set about his own life of service beginning as a cub scout all the way to completing his Eagle Scout with gold palm in high school. It was especially meaningful to Brian as he was able to earn his Eagle Scout and receive it in the same Court of Honor with his older brother, Ken. As scouts, Brian and Ken were able to complete the Philmont High Adventure scout trip. Later, when Ken was the adult leader for his son Anthony’s venturing crew, Brian, Ken, and Anthony attended Sea Base High adventure camp and Northern Tier adventure camp to attain the very rare scouting high adventure triple crown.
Brian’s dad was the first in his family to attend college, putting a premium on the value of higher education. When Monte died the sole heirloom that Brian wanted was his dad’s college ring from Rutgers, which he wore proudly in lieu of his own. After he graduated from Cornell University and Notre Dame Law with honors, Brian clerked for the Superior court and the Surrogate’s court in New Jersey, where he developed a love for estate planning and estate administration. After pursuing several years of private practice in those areas, Brian decided he wanted to help as many people as he could to tie together their estate planning with making a difference in their communities through charitable giving. He accomplished this by going to work for non-profits, particularly those involved in higher education, for the next several years.
Utilizing the skills he developed working for the surrogate court, practicing law, and working for non-profits, he then launched his own business, Gift Planning Development, for the purpose of helping both charities and philanthropists create meaningful charitable legacies. Gift Planning Development has gone on to help facilitate over 1 billion dollars in charitable gifts to benefit non-profits all across the world. While running Gift Planning Development, Brian co-authored three books with Robert Wahlers. The first of these books, The Philanthropic Planning Companion, published by Wiley & Co. in 2012, won the Skystone Partners Award for research in philanthropy. When Brian was forced to go on permanent disability due to this metastatic cancer diagnosis, he was humbled and honored to be named to the gift planning hall of fame by the National Association of Charitable Gift Planners as well as being named Spirit of A Leader by Cresendo Interactive Inc. Each of these awards honored his dedication to a lifetime of service to the gift planning industry. While no longer able to work and continue to serve on the many boards he had volunteered for in the past, Brian did remain a volunteer board member for the Decamai Foundation which accepts gifts of complex assets on behalf of charities that cannot accept them on their own. Last year Decomai was the 7th largest receiver of charitable gifts in the world.
When not pursuing charitable giving or spending time with his family, Brian spent as much time as he could sharing his love of music through barbershop singing. Brian sang with several different barbershop quartets and choruses, competing at the highest levels. His most successful competitive quartet, All In, was selected twice to sing at the Barbershop Harmony Society International Convention and contest. All In was the 2017 Senecaland District Quartet Champion. He also sang in a chapter quartet, New York Central, for 10 years. He competed 10 times on the International stage as a chorus competitor with four different choruses, The Hunterdon Harmonizers, The Upstate Harmonizers, The Brothers In Harmony, and Harmonic Collective.
Although singing at a high level was important to Brian, he took his greatest joy from singing for service. He would frequently tell stories about singing at nursing homes where individual audience members would be rolled into the room in wheelchairs seemingly unresponsive, but as they heard familiar music such as Frank Sinatra or their favorite Christmas carol you could see a light of recognition return to their eyes and they would even begin to sing along quietly. Brian recalled on one memorable occasion singing at an inpatient Hospice unit. Having been told one of the patients was a veteran the quartet began to sing “God Bless America”. He was shocked as the patient pulled himself out of the wheelchair to a standing position to salute the flag and sing along.
While all of Brian’s professional, volunteer and recreational endeavors were important to him, his family was the most important. He spent his time teaching his four children the same values that his parents had gifted him. He was able to see two of his daughters graduate from college and walk a third down the aisle. He celebrated ten birthdays and four pine wood derby events with his son. Brian spent almost thirty years as a partner and best friend to his wife, making her laugh every day of their adventure together.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 2PM on Thursday, June 2, 2022, at St. John Neumann Catholic Church, 601 E. Delp Road, Lancaster, PA 17601, with the Rev. Daniel Powell as Celebrant. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, gifts can be made to:
Uveal Melanoma Research at Jefferson University Hospital. or by check (payable to “Jefferson”, in the memo of the check please reference “Metastatic Uveal Melanoma Research” and also note that the donation is in memory of Brian Sagrestano) mailed to Jefferson, Office of Institutional Advancement, Department 825434, P.O. Box 71331, Philadelphia, PA 19176-1331.
OR
The Liverpool Chapter of the Barbershop Harmony Society Fund at the Central New York Community Foundation or by check to CNYCF, 431 E. Fayette Street, Syracuse NY 13202.
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Faculty, Social Sciences, 1967-1980
Died on October 19, 2020James Franklin Smith passed away on October 19 at the age of 92 after a few weeks at the Superior Residence, attended by Hospice of Marion County. He was born on April 14, 1928 to the late Walter and Helen (McCleary) Smith in Hagerstown, Maryland. He enlisted in the Marines in March of 1946 during World War II and served state side as Corporal until his honorable discharge in December of 1947.
He received undergraduate degrees from Shepherd College, WVA, a master's degree from the University of Delaware and additional graduate work at Johns Hopkins University, the University of Maryland and the University of Minnesota. He taught at the Wilmington Friends School and in public schools in both Delaware and Maryland for many years. He supervised student teachers in the Social Studies at the University of Delaware. For several years, he was Camp Director for the Youth Conservation Corps in Delaware State Parks during the summer months. Upon retirement from teaching he enjoyed a career as Contract Administrator for the State of Delaware Department of Transportation. In 2004, his family left Newark, Delaware and retired to Ocala, Florida where he enjoyed some fishing, the warm weather, and the company of wonderful friends and church family.
He is survived by his wife Evelyn Diebert Smith for 58 years, and a son Mark (Deborah), eight grandchildren, and 10 great grandchildren. He is preceded in death by a son Eric Smith and a daughter Nancy Barnhart.
He was a member of the First Baptist Church of Ocala. He was an avid reader and enjoyed teaching Sunday School classes at First Baptist Church. He loved participating in the weekly Bible Study Fellowship, and later, the Community Bible Fellowship. His hobbies were playing music and attending the NFL Washington team games. He led his family on numerous camping trips visiting many of the national parks across the country.
A private burial service will be held at Bushnell Veterans Cemetery, at a later date.
Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice of Marion County, or the First Baptist Church of Ocala.
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Published in The News Journal from Oct. 22 to Oct. 25, 2020.
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Faculty, Social Sciences, 1965-1968
Died on August 26, 2020Ronald Eugene Sutton, 85, passed away on August 26, 2020 in San Diego CA. Born in Harrisburg June 20, 1935, the son of Lester & Julia Sutton, he graduated CHHS in 1953. Ron graduated from Swarthmore College in 1957 and Drew University in 1961. He was a Methodist minister, a teacher at Wilmington Friends, moved to DC to work in the education department of the AFI, and joined the faculty at American University in the School of Communication. Retiring in 1997 as Professor Emeritus, he and his wife moved to Pinehurst, NC where for the next 20 years he served on boards of many local organizations including Habitat for Humanity, Arts Council of Moore County and Weymouth Center. He was instrumental in reviving The Sunrise Theater as a movie house. Ron leaves behind his wife of 46 years, Sara, two children from a previous marriage Kimberley Davies (Mark), Steven Sutton, (Francesca), two grandchildren Christopher Davies (Michelle), Nicole Carey (Mike) and two great-grandchildren Colt and Reagan Davies.
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Published in Patriot-News from Sep. 2 to Sep. 3, 2020.
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Faculty (1959-1962, Director of Guidance, Social Studies Teacher)
Trustee (1979-1982)
1748 Society
Died on October 21, 2021
Kennett Square - Dr. Charlotte Pinckney Taylor, 94, of Kennett Square, PA, departed this earth peacefully on Thursday October 21, 2021. Charlotte was a resident of Kendal at Longwood for 34 years.
Born in New York City on June 28, 1927, the second daughter of George Francis Taylor and Lillian Helms Taylor, Dr. Taylor spent her youth in the suburbs of New York and Philadelphia. She graduated from Barnard College with honors in psychology. While working at Columbia University and for the Friends Service Committee she acquired master's degrees in History from Columbia and Student Personnel Administration from Teachers College.
The Supreme Court decision Brown v. Board of Education encouraged her to teach and/or counsel in schools in Maryland and Delaware for ten years. It also determined the focus of her doctoral dissertation, "Changes in Self-Concept in the First Year of Desegregated Schools".
She received the Ph.D. in Behavior Science from the University of Delaware in 1967. Following three years as Director of Instruction at the former Newark School District, Dr. Taylor taught for the University of Delaware on both the main campus and in the Parallel Program at Delaware Technical and Community College. After the publication of Transforming Schools in 1976, she completed a two year internship and was licensed as a practicing psychologist.
While living in Newark and Wilmington, Dr. Taylor was active in professional, Quaker and political organizations. She was president of the "Committee of 39", a non-partisan good government group that preceded the formation of Common Cause in Delaware. She was serving as President of the Delaware Board of Examiners of Psychologists in 1986 when she had to retire from professional life.
The effects of post-polio syndrome caused her to become an "early admission" to the Kendal at Longwood Continuing Care Retirement Community in Kennett Square, PA. where she became involved in resident activities and Kendal Friends Meeting. She was active in the Kennett area on behalf of low cost housing and teaching English as a Second Language.
Charlotte Taylor's life was graced by a love of music and art, rewarding challenges and many good friends. She is survived by a niece, Megan Fruchter of Coatesville, PA, two grand-nieces Kimberly Clarkson (Daniel) and Jessamyn Strebs and eight great-grand nieces and nephews, Kenneth, Andrew, Yasmyn, Joseph, Sophie, Venice, Elyzabel, and Henry, as well as two great-great-grand nieces, Laela and Ana. She was preceded in death by her sister, Elizabeth Taylor Goshorn, her nephew, Kenneth Goshorn, her grand-nephew, Thor Goshorn Fruchter, and her great-grand niece, Juliana Rae Clarkson.
A Memorial Service will be held by Kendal Meeting, Kendal at Longwood Rt. 1, Kennett Square, PA 19348, on Saturday, October 30, 2021 at 10:30 am. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Friends Service Committee, 1501 Cherry Street, Philadelphia, PA 19102, https://www.afsc.org/
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Coach Member (Volleyball, 1999-2016, 2019-2024)
Died on July 1, 2025Robert Vincent Trinsey Jr., affectionately known to most as "Bob" and later as "Pops," passed away on the morning of July 1, 2025, at Christiana Hospital, after a long and courageous battle with heart disease. He was 65 years old. Bob is predeceased by his parents, Robert Trinsey and Naomi Moore, and his brothers Dan and John. He is survived by his beloved wife Regina; daughter Barbara Fitzgerald (Jacob); sons Michael (Darby) and Joseph (Erin); grandchildren Sadie, Vincent '36, Maisie, Riley, and Emilia and his half-sister Andrea DeGatano.
Bob was born in Norristown on July 11, 1959, and grew up in Philadelphia, where he met the love of his life, Gina, when they were just 14 years old. The two shared a remarkable bond that lasted five decades. They married in 1979 and celebrated their 46th anniversary on February 24th of this year.
A dedicated provider, Bob left high school early to begin work as a roofer and supported his family through more than 35 years of hard work. In 2002, he earned his high school diploma-the same year as his daughter Barbara.
Bob was the best dad his kids could ever hope for. He coached nearly every sport, but volleyball became his passion in 1996 when he founded Brandywine Volleyball Club with his wife Gina. His "Bobcats" became one of the best teams on the East Coast and were known for their hustle and team spirit. Bob also served as head coach at Wilmington Friends School from 1999 to 2010, guiding the Quakers to numerous conference championships, state tournament appearances, and over 100 wins. More importantly, he taught a generation of players that, "hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard."
In 2016, Bob transitioned to collegiate coaching at Goldey-Beacom College, but after the birth of his grandson Vincent, he returned to high school volleyball-this time as assistant coach to his daughter Barb. From 2019 to 2025, they worked side by side, though he occasionally forgot who was supposed to be the assistant.
Pops loved being a father, but perhaps loved being a grandfather even more. His patented knee bounce could calm any crying baby, and his unique humor made him a favorite among the grandkids.
After retiring from roofing, Bob found joy in poker. "Doctor Poker" loved giving the younger guys at the table some "helpful" coaching after they misplayed a hand. He especially cherished the games at his son Michael's house.
His family is forever grateful to the heart and surgical teams at Christiana Hospital, whose care gave us the gift of so many extra years with him. A favorite of his nurses, he could turn even a painful procedure into a reason to laugh.
A visitation will be held Monday, July 7 from 5-7 pm at the Claymont Fire Hall, 3223 Philadelphia Pike, Claymont DE where a celebration of Bob's life will follow at 7 pm. A time of fellowship will follow until 9 pm. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers the family suggests donation be made to Wilmington Friends School https://www.givecampus.com/campaigns/52778/donations/new?amt=50.00
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Staff Member '80-'86 (Superintendent / Maintenance Staff), Parent of Alum ('83)
Died on December 27, 2022Walter "Wally" Williams (Staff-Superintendent/Maintenance, 1980-86) passed away on Monday, December 27, 2022, one day after his 91st birthday. Born in Wilmington, DE, Wally was 1 of 11 children to Evan and Gertrude Williams.
As the second youngest of 11 kids, Wally was hardwired to have a remarkable work ethic. Before completing high school and reaching his 18th birthday, Wally enlisted with the US Army. More than 6 years in the military, he would eventually serve as a paratrooper, training with the 82nd Airborne at Fort Bragg. Wally developed a reputation as a skilled football player and boxer over the course of his enlistment. He was an excellent athlete throughout his life, as well as an avid fisherman. He especially enjoyed playing tennis with his wife, Sally.
Wally went on to serve with the Wilmington Fire Department for 20 years, retiring in 1977 as Acting Battalion Chief. He was proud to be a WFD firefighter. During that time, he also owned and operated successful businesses. Wally's resume continued to fill with careers at Wilmington Friends School and St. Andrews School. During his time at St. Andrews, Wally had the pleasure of assisting the cast and crew during the filming of Dead Poets Society. It was certainly a highlight of his life. He even received a "thanks" in the movie credits.
Never one to sit still, even in retirement, he would take up occasional odd jobs such as a flower deliveryman, document messenger, and warehouse manager.
Wally loved to sing his own (usually satiric) words to classic songs to amuse us. He also loved to travel the country with his family. He and Sally were especially close to her sister Katharine and brother-in-law Larry, and the families spent many summers and holidays together.
Wally was predeceased by his wife of 62 years, Sarah "Sally" Williams, and his son Timothy. He is survived by his son, Tod, and his daughter, Tracy [Williams] '83. He was also the proud grandfather of Haley and Hunter.
We'll remember him for his sense of humor, turns of phrase, generosity, charm, outstanding work ethic, and fun-loving spirit. If you happen to meet Wally in the afterlife, please tell him "he is a wonderful person."
A brief interment service will be held on January 12 at 11 AM at Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery, 2465 Chesapeake City Road, Bear, Delaware.
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Relationship to WFS School/Alumni: Parents (P), Grandparents (GP), Siblings (Sib), and/or Spouses/Partners (Sp) of our Alumni / Current students / Faculty or Staff Members, as well as Former Students (Ex + Grad year) and Friends of the School (F)
Irene Jester Annos, P (Constance Annos Dorsney '90 and Theodore William Annos '95). Passed away on 10/14/22. Click here for online obituary.
G. Edward "Ed" Brooking, Jr., P (Anne Brooking, former F&S). Passed away on 9/29/21. Click here for online obituary.
Mary Garrett Brown, Friend of WFS (Overseer at the Wilmington Friends Meeting). Passed away on 1/23/21. Click here for online obituary.
John "Jack" R. McClelland, Sp. (Jean McClelland, F&S '82-'95); P (John McClelland '87 and Elizabeth McClelland Lutostansky '88). Passed away on 9/20/22. Click here for online obituary.
Inez Cardoni Mellow, P (inlaw: Cynthia Stan Mellow), GP (Mellow '01, '03, '08 & '10); GGP (Guiffrida '34). Passed away on October 16, 2020. Click here for online obituary.
Henry T. Schaal, P (Michelle Pantano), GP (Pantano '16, '19 & '25). Passed away on May 31, 2023. Click here for online obituary.
Jane (Roddy) Wahl, P (Megan Wahl Hegenbarth - F&S); GP ('19 & '21). Passed away on 10/8/21. Click here for online obituary.
