Problem Solving

I Message Script

You can use this script when trying to get through arguments

Recognize the Size of the Problem - Match your reaction size!

Make sure that your reactions match the size of the problem! For example: if you are having an alpha problem (you got your electronics taken away), make sure that you have an alpha reaction (stay calm, be flexible - find something else to do) - not an echo reaction (call 911).

Bug and a Wish

Problem solving narrative

You can use this to help your student verbalize their feeling and solve their problem in a positive way

"It bugs me when......... I wish you would........."

Make sure when you use the "bug" you are being specific and not placing blame. When using the "wish" you also need to be specific in the behavior or action you wish to no longer have.

Ex: It bugs me when you touch me I wish you would keep your hands to yourself

It bugs me when you tell me what to do I wish you would let me make my own choices

Here is an example of the process!

This is problem solving model that was developed by Social Emotional Workshop off of Teachers Pay Teachers. The Sterling kiddos have seen this but if you would like to look at the whole lesson or the whole resource click here.

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