Stoic but not a doormat

Do Not Be a Doormat

Stocism can make you a doormat if you don't think smart wise and clever learn from your mistakes set clear boundaries

Think Big

The goal is    i finally got it right

get training live a life of constant self improvemnet get educated go to posative programs lik NA and AA

Respect is first nature

I really like getting things done now

Crew just do it minimal cash flow money get gud go fight win 

Words are useless gobble gobble gobble to much of it to much

Be moral good lawful and virtuous than foster a powerful mindset free of limitation

be free from negativity negative people scenarios situations trouble with the law 

People who talk about the narrative of the room are ney sayers or use terms like we or "let" them

or talk for you or talk falsely about you or your behavior or bear false witness...

Work on your own behavior 

set clear boundaries that don't affect what others are doing or them living there best life

don't worry about what others are doing

worry about yourself first

seek first to understand than to be understood

have abundant mindset having more opacite of lack

have a posative best heaven on earth everything that can go right will go right perfect ideal mindset for others and all interactions rather than

a lack mindset or negative agenda bringing others down or hating there comfort success or ego or hotness

teamwork makes the dreamwork but there is no we there is I

 don't say we

but there is "i'm on a spill-the tea-me team" and "synergy" and there is an I and there is a we there's also a me when i wrote it

 hands in hype up break break!

Synergy just do it common goals winning together achieving short term and long term goals in a timely manner on schedule and great innovative ideas in think tank lets be productive hoo ra!

You are loved, accept only the best. you deserve the best. and are worthy of greatness, wealth , prosperity and abundance having more power. Wealth good luck 

god luck fortune wealth power

Freedom and flexibility 

Peace and safety is non-negotiable

And control and power over your own life is a must

learn to be more independent

teach yourself potty training

Serenity Prayer is as follows:

"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

courage to change the things I can,

and wisdom to know the difference."

Modern Relevance

Stoicism become un-defeatable 

Have comfort frugal luxury and have a bowl

And support your feat/shoe fetish lifestyle

 has seen a resurgence in contemporary society, often associated with practices like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), which shares similar principles of rational thinking and emotional regulation. Many people today apply Stoic teachings to enhance their resilience, decision-making, and overall well-being.

In summary, Stoicism offers a robust framework for understanding how to live a meaningful and virtuous life, emphasizing the importance of reason, acceptance, and personal responsibility. Its teachings remain applicable in various aspects of modern life, making it a valuable philosophy for personal development.

Do Not Be a Doormat

All right. Let us not confuse being kind to your significant other, family members,

friends, or colleagues with being weak- Most gentle people have suffered a lot and

overcome a ton, Their pain has introduced them to their power. They have steel on

the inside.

Sometimes at the end of a mentoring session with a client, during which the

discussion has centered on a relationship issue, my client will say to me:

 "Steve, if I'm caring and compassionate pure kind stoic sweet

 peaceful virtuous 

good natured and sincere, people will take advantage of me- 

I don't want to be a doormat."

My reply usually goes like this: "People will only take advantage of you if you

allow them to take advantage of you. You have the ability to set boundaries and to

stand up for yourself. So do it. Please."

We truly do teach people how to treat us- And—in relationships—we very much

get what we settle for. And receive what we accept.

The fine balance for you to master is this: Be respectful yet assertive- Polite yet

brave. Civil but candid. Loving but self-respecting. Deal?

Stoicism is an ancient Hellenistic philosophy founded by Zeno of Citium around 300 BCE, emphasizing virtue, reason, and acceptance of the natural order of the universe.

Historical Background

Stoicism originated in Athens, where Zeno of Citium established the school in a public space known as the Stoa Poikile (painted porch). This philosophy flourished in both the Greek and Roman worlds, influencing many notable figures, including the Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius, philosopher Seneca, and Epictetus. Stoicism experienced a decline after the rise of Christianity but saw revivals during the Renaissance and continues to be relevant today, particularly in the context of modern psychology and self-help practices. 

Key Principles

1. Virtue as the Highest Good: Stoics believe that living a virtuous life is essential for achieving happiness (eudaimonia). Virtue is defined as living in accordance with reason and nature. 

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3. Control and Acceptance: A central tenet of Stoicism is distinguishing between what is within our control and what is not. Stoics advocate for focusing on our responses and actions while accepting external events as they occur. 

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5. Emotional Resilience: Stoicism teaches the importance of maintaining a calm and rational mindset, even in the face of adversity. This involves refraining from excessive emotional reactions and complaints. 

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7. Interconnectedness of All Things: Stoics view the universe as a rational and interconnected whole, governed by a divine reason (logos). Understanding this helps individuals align their lives with the natural order.