HONESTY
In September, we learn about
HONESTY!
Honesty means we tell the truth, even when that's the scary thing to do. As we all know, communicating in an honest manner is important for many reasons. Honesty is required within trusting relationships. Honesty is a reflection of our character. Honesty is needed so we can share important information that impacts others. Honesty demonstrates to others that we are trustworthy and reliable.
Here are tips to teach your child about honesty:
Model honesty. We, as trusted adults, provide the template children use to learn positive behaviors needed to navigate every day life. Studies find that children who observe their caregivers tell lies on a regular basis are more likely to embrace dishonesty as they grow older. Instead of practicing dishonesty, consider communicating age-appropriate honesty in a way that recognizes that telling the truth can be challenging, not only for kids, but for adults too!
Acknowledge the bravery that is needed in truth-telling. Inform kids of why honesty is important and remember to do this before they provide their personal account of an event. Once your child is honest, validate it and thank them for it.
Provide concrete examples that highlight all of the great things that can be accomplished from telling the truth. Help your child see the alternatives to lying and how exploring them could be beneficial (for example, if they have a problem, instead of hiding it, they can brainstorm ways to solve the problem with you).
