Sruti Bhaumik
"Aur maan lijiye, apne hi hmko rula diya toh?"
"Tb bhi ap hmko hi bataiyega"
~ Masaan.
Someone can hurt you only when they know their own position in your life. A stranger can never end up hurting you because when a stranger's behaviour irritates you, then you either tell it to them on their face or you change your seat, right?
But what do you do when your beloved person's behaviour hurts you? Do you astray them away from your life ? or do you directly tell them that their presence is irritating you?
You don't do any of these rather you try to convince them to speak with you and discuss the matter, you even try to understand them but you don't choose to leave their side. Even if their behavior is literally killing you from within, you still don't let them know how you're feeling. Because at this moment what's more important for you is, to know the reason for their distress and changed behavior.
"Perfect", is the only flawed word of this universe because we have all assumed this word to be an embodiment of something extraordinary but it isn't such because the word "perfect" has various definitions according to different people and their mindset. For someone being perfect may mean something which is very beautiful, while for some "perfection" is something which defines their character. Different people have different views but this doesn't mean that your approach towards being perfect is wrong. No it isn't.
Every definition of "perfect" is absolutely perfect, we just only need to accept things the way they are.
When someone gives efforts just to make you stay in their lives, you should always make sure that your behaviour shouldn't end up breaking their heart. It costs nothing to be kind to those people who treat you in their best possible ways. Such people are rare to find and you shouldn't forget that time is like sand. Once this moment slips away from your hand, then you can never get back that caring person, who once crossed oceans for you just to see your smile.
Value efforts, life doesn't always give you a second chance of reuniting with someone who once loved you more than themselves.
~ Rula dijiyega, dant bhi krliya kro magar chod ke jane ki bat kyu krte ho?
Kya ye bahut jaruri hota h unse door jana jinka har din apse shuru hota ho?
By - Sruti Bhaumik