No Blame Method

No Blame is an anti-bullying approach that originated from the UK organization Lucky Duck and was later introduced in Flemish schools by Leefsleutels vzw and adapted for youth work by Tumult. It is also known as the Support Group Method. You will learn about this Method in this Training, but to give you some insights we share some key insights here.

Key principles of No Blame

1. Bullying is a common social reality
   
   

   • Bullying is never acceptable, but it is something many children and young people encounter.

   • Rather than labeling bullies as “bad,” the approach helps them understand the harm they cause and encourages positive change through trust and support.

2. Bullying is a group problem
   
   

   • Bullying usually involves not only the bully but also supporters, bystanders, and the wider group.

   • Since the group often enables bullying, the group can also help stop it.

   • No Blame actively involves peers in finding solutions.

3. The approach focuses on increasing empathy
   
   

   • Bullies often fail to recognize the emotional impact of their actions.

   • By helping young people understand the victim’s feelings, empathy grows and positive group influence can emerge.

4. Feelings matter more than facts
   
   

   • The focus is on how the victim feels rather than on proving exactly what happened.

   • This reduces defensiveness and makes it easier for group members to empathize.

5. The emphasis is on problem-solving, not punishment
   
   

   • Children and youngsters are encouraged to help find solutions themselves.

   • The atmosphere remains positive and non-threatening.

   • Even small improvements are valued, and participants can feel proud of creating change together.

If you would like to learn more about this type of approach. Apply here!