Helping clients move beyond symptom management toward deeper transformation, stronger relationships and practical solutions through an integration of evidence-based behavioral, experiential, and relational therapies.
802-441-6343 (Vermont) 269-873-1216 (Michigan)
Experience/Trauma-Informed and Healing-Centered Engagement
Experience and trauma-informed care shifts the focus from “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?” or "What's hard about this situation?" Healing-centered engagement explores the question "What's right with you?"
Experience/trauma-informed and healing-centered approaches actively recognize the impact chronic stress, failures of attunement, interpersonal conflict, societal pressures, and traumatic events can have on our identity, health, beliefs, thoughts, emotions and behavior. Experiences that feel emotionally and/or physically unsafe or invalidating, especially early ones, shape the way our autonomic nervous system responds to perceived threats in the world. Unpleasant memories are stored within distinct neural networks in the brain and manifest as automatic physiological sensations, thoughts and behavioral reactions when those networks are activated. This is why humans can react very quickly to simple environmental cues such as a change in voice tone, facial expression, smell, etc. Therapeutic practices that engage our bodies, minds and social engagement system help us differentiate and integrate these neural networks to achieve healing within the psyche. Skills and behavior-based approaches can help us ground ourselves in the present, regulate our bodies, clarify our values and needs, communicate hopes and concerns, establish boundaries, and cultivate environments and relationships that help us maintain gains and feel more of how we want to feel.
Experiential therapies can be helpful for people who have a tendency to:
Intellectualize emotional experiences rather than feeling them
Avoid situations and experiences that could activate a vulnerable feeling state or difficult memory
Engage in perfectionism or controlling/compulsive behavior in an attempt to feel a sense of control or create predictability and stability
Become consumed in productivity, work, or achievements
Exhibit co-dependence or "rescuing" of people or animals, as a surrogate for feeling able to rescue a vulnerable part of themselves
Throw "temper tantrums"/exhibit emotional dysregulation
Engage in excessive drug or alcohol use, binging and purging eating patterns or anorexia, risky sexual behaviors or impulsivity
Experience repetitive, distressing intrusive thoughts or images.
I utilize offer decades of experience and investment in specialized training and clinical consultation to offer my clients the benefits of proven practices, which I aim to combine with collaborative treatment planning and a warm, supportive approach. Through the use of evidence-based, outcomes-driven approaches including Eye Movement and Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR), Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP), Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS) and Family Systems Therapy, I work to help my clients leave sessions with not just and awareness of why they feel or behave in certain ways, but with a new, felt sense of safety, worth, and competence, along with the tools, skills and confidence to notice and feel emotions, step into experiences that may feel challenging, solve immediate problems, prevent conflict, address future concerns and feel more of the way they want to feel.
I am EMDR Certified through EMDRIA, Level I trained in IFS through the IFS Institute Cambridge Health Alliance, CBT trained through the Beck Institute for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Engage in regular trainings through IOCD and am CPS trained (and formerly certified) through Think Kids at Massachusetts General Brigham Hospital.
Affiliations:
IOCD (International Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Foundation)
ISSTD (International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation) Active and Participating Member
EMDRIA (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing International Association) - Certified
IFS Institute (Internal Family Systems Institute at Cambridge Health Alliance) - Level I trained.
CPS (Collaborative problem-solving through Think Kids at Massachusetts General Brigham Hospital Psychiatric Department
EMDR is a structured therapy that encourages the patient to focus briefly on the trauma memory while simultaneously experiencing bilateral stimulation (typically eye movements), which is associated with a reduction in the vividness and emotion associated with the trauma memories. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an extensively researched, effective psychotherapy method proven to help people recover from trauma and PTSD symptoms. Ongoing research supports positive clinical outcomes, showing EMDR therapy as a helpful treatment for disorders such as anxiety, depression, OCD, chronic pain, addictions, and other distressing life experiences (Maxfield, 2019). EMDR therapy has even been superior to Prozac in trauma treatment (Van der Kolk et al., 2007).
Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) grew out of the observation that they way people perceive a situation is deeply connected to their reaction to that situation. CBT helps people evaluate their prior experiences, emotions and thoughts, and evaluate the extent to which their thoughts are realistic and helpful. Clients learn to challenge and change distorted thinking and unhelpful core-beliefs, habits or behaviors.
Exposure and Response Prevention, or ERP, is a targeted treatment that helps people break the core cycle of OCD. In OCD, a person's brain treats safe thoughts or situations as actual threats, driving the person to engage in compulsions (thoughts or behaviors) that offer temporary relief but ultimately lock the fear in place. ERP disrupts this loop by having you gradually face your triggers (exposure) while actively resisting your usual rituals (response prevention). This method triggers inhibitory learning, physically rewiring your neural pathways. By sitting with the discomfort instead of escaping it, your brain learns that you can tolerate the distress and that the feared catastrophe did not happen, which naturally quiets the false alarms.
Family systems therapy recognizes that a family is more than the sum of its parts. When something affects one member of the group, it can have a resounding impact on every other member of the group. For that same reason, the strength and stability of a family unit can provide balance and support when one family member is experiencing problems. Family systems therapy helps clients understanding why individuals within a family unit may be behaving in certain ways.
Collaborative Problem Solving® (CPS) is a structured approach proven to improve family relationships, and help individuals build regulation, problem-solving, perspective-taking and communication skills.
You’ll learn how to partner with the people important in your life to identify triggers for challenging behaviors, reduce those behaviors and work together to develop a plan for how to handle problems before they happen. CPS can help you better understand and help your child, partner and other family members.
We all have different "parts" of ourselves that carry various emotions, beliefs, memories, or ways of coping. This is why we may catch ourselves saying "a part of me wants this, but another part wants that". Parts-focused therapy helps us understand and work with these inner experiences with curiosity and compassion, thereby strenthening a sense of Self-leadership and reducing internal conflict, racing or intrusive thoughts, pain, etc. Drawing from Internal Family Systems (IFS) and other parts-oriented approaches (Structural Dissociation Theory), this type of therapy helps us meet our parts - no matter how wounded or extreme - with care, support, appreciation and acceptance as a path toward genuine healing.
Conditions Treated
Anxiety, OCD, Phobias, TICs
Depression
Family Services
Couples Counseling
If you, your child or other family member...
feel depressed anxious, or overwhelmed,
struggle with intrusive thoughts,
are experiencing relationship/peer difficulties,
struggle with the urge to self-harm,
avoid school, work or other activities,
have difficulty regulating emotions,
are struggling with chronic pain or loss of ability,
are abusing substances,
can be oppositional or defiant,
or are coping with other stressful life circumstances,
Call or email us to learn how we can help.
Professional Fees
Our hourly rate is $175 per session for individual, couple or family therapy. Our initial assessment fee is $195. Our contracts with insurance companies require that we accept their reimbursement rates as payment in full. In addition to regular appointments, we reserve the right to charge for other professional services such as report writing, telephone conversations, attendance at meetings, consultations with other professionals which you have authorized, preparation of records, treatment summaries, or the time required to perform any other service which you may request of us. These services may or may not be covered by insurance. Your provider will be happy to discuss any of these details with you.
Insurances Accepted
If you do not see your insurance carrier listed below, you can inquire with your carrier about the possibility of out-of-network reimbursement for services.
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