Workplace communication
Communication styles
Nonverbal Communication
Presentation skills
First impressions
Appropriate workplace conversation
Technology and social media
Asking for accommodations
In groups of 2 you will have 3 minutes to find 3 things in common (three times)
Effective communication at work will help you to:
Know what you need to do and how you need to do it
Understand your co-workers and supervisors and their roles better
Create a positive workplace
Get your work done effectively
Understand your communication style
What does communication mean?
According to the Webster's Dictionary
A process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior
“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place” -- George Bernard Shaw
Why is effective communication important to employers?
Effective workplace communication increases efficiency throughout the company, staff and with customers. It decreases frustration that can be triggered by miscommunication. It promotes clear and concise understanding and can increase productivity. A part of clear communication involves putting yourself in another person’s place and seeing their perspective and communicating in a manner they can understand.
Employers have said the communication breakdown is one of their biggest issues in the workplace.
Communication in the workplace has changed over the past few years and has provided individuals in the workforce more ways to communicate with co-workers, managers, and customers. Often if there are more ways to communicate then are more ways miscommunication can occur.
What are the ways we communicate at work and how has this changed since 2020?
There are many ways to communicate. Thousands of “messages” are sent every day. However, messages aren’t always heard or understood exactly the same way that the sender planned. These misunderstandings cause confusion or frustration, and often lead to problems.
Some of the barriers to good communication include:
1. Physical barriers – Things that get in the way of being able to see or hear well.
These may include_______________________________
2. Perceptual barriers – Seeing the world through your own filters including your______________________
3. Emotional barriers - Communication is affected when the sender or receiver is feeling strong emotions such as___________________________________
4. Language barriers – Communication can be blocked by_______________________________
Just for fun
The words we use can have different meanings. For example: If we are going to move our meeting up by two hours …what does that mean? Do we move it from 2 pm to 12 pm or from 2 pm to 4 pm?
Interview Question
Describe a situation at work when there was a communication breakdown. How did you handle it? What was the result?
We all communicate in different ways. Some methods are more effective than others. If we understand how we communicate, we can understand how to change it and be more effective.
What is your communication style?
Let’s take a “quiz” learning how you communicate and learning how others communicate can improve workplace communication
I do not believe in confrontation. I would rather try to get someone else to deal with a difficult situation than addressing it myself.
When I am in a large group I tend to let others make decisions.
When someone is expressing an opinion about a course of action that is opposite to mine I can usually negotiate a compromise.
When I feel that my needs are not being met I tend to be demanding. If I don’t put it out there, I know I won’t get it.
When I am involved in a negative interaction I withdraw from the situation and retreat into myself.
When I first arrive at a meeting I am usually a bit late and try and sneak into the back without being heard.
When something is being discussed at work, I will engage in the discussion, no matter how heated it becomes until I’m sure I have put my point across. It’s important that my voice be heard.
In a high stress situation I carefully prepare the points I want to make, the questions I have, and choose a good time for a calm discussion.
I can be sarcastic.
When I feel my needs are not being considered, I rarely ask directly for what I want. I hint at it and hope the other person will figure it out on their own and do it for me.
I can usually make other people aware of my adverse opinion by the way I look at them. I roll my eyes, sigh loudly or shrug my shoulders to let them know they are wrong.
If I’m given a job to do that I dislike, or feel it should be done by someone else, I work as slowly as possible.
I feel I have the right to disagree with my boss, as long as I am polite and have a good reason for disagreeing.
My way of doing something is usually correct.
When I’m not sure about how to do something I guess, rather than ask someone else.
When I get angry I show my feelings without hesitation.
When approaching a new task that I’ve never done before I feel comfortable asking a more experienced person for help.
While talking to a coworker it becomes clear that they totally misunderstood what I just said, so I tell my coworker that I think I said it wrong , and repeat what I said in a different way.
When I’m speaking with someone in authority, I tend to avoid looking at them directly.
When I’m asked to stay late, I nearly always say yes, even if I have made other plans.
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There are 4 types of communication styles most people will use.
Click the link to open the video in a new tab: The Four Communication Styles - YouTube
Sample situation: Your friend asks to borrow your car but you need your car at that time.
Discuss how you would answer
in an aggressive manner
in an assertive manner
in a passive aggressive manner
in a passive manner
The language and words we choose to use are important when addressing people.
Use people’s names when addressing them, and when you meet someone repeat their name to yourself a few times so you will remember in the future. Do not use short forms of their names unless they let you know you should do so.
Pronounce people’s names correctly. If the name is not familiar to you, it is OK to ask the person how to pronounce their name and repeat it to make sure you get it right.
Use the person’s preferred pronoun. Often when people introduce themselves in a group or to you, they will let you know their pronouns. Remember and use them correctly.
Use respectful language when addressing a group of people; for example, the BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, Person of Colour) community 2SLGBTQ+ deaf or hard of hearing, persons with different abilities.
When communicating verbally we need to ensure that we are speaking clearly and effectively.
Sounding professional is very important to your image and how people connect with you.
To help you speak clearly and effectively
Get to the point, be concise – you don’t want to talk too much or too little
Use an assertive yet friendly tone of voice
Avoid using slang or abbreviations
Speak with confidence -even if you are asking a question
Communicate with respect – use the person’s name (pronounce it correctly)
Know your facts and be honest
Slow down – most people speak too quickly
Be clear – do not mumble or cover your mouth
Avoid using um, eh, huh, er
Actively listen to the person
So um I am going to my friend’s house for a party next week and well I was scheduled to work and ummmmm I don’t really want to wait until afterwork to go, I was going ask my friend that works here too but everyone is going to the party so I thought ummmmm maybe since you won’t be going that you could maybe ummmmm work for me – if not that is okay but if you can then maybe put it on the schedule or tell the boss it is okay. Or I can do that whatever works. I can pay you back with another shift some other time other than Friday and Saturday nights because I am usually busy then
Rewrite the above statement to be assertive.
To add to the ways in which we communicate and miscommunicate.
You cannot, Not communicate
-Paul Watzlawick
Humans are always communicating even we are not speaking, writing, or moving
Body language is interpreted in many different ways
People make assumptions based on our body language
There are many ways we communicate through our body language
eye contact, facial expressions
posture
tone and volume of voice
body movements and gestures
breathing – speed, loudness etc.
Gestures Around the World - YouTube
The chart below describes different ways people may be communicating through their body language.
There are common Canadian interpretations of each of these expressions which we will indicate in the 2nd column
There might be other explanations that do not readily come to mind, which we will fill in the 3rd column
Folding arms
Little eye contact
Rapid blinking
Leaning in while listening
Head nod
Staring
Tapping fingers
Head in your hands
scowling
huffing
Sighing - breathing
Fidgeting
Looking disheveled
Body turned away from you
Open posture
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It is impossible for people to communicate perfectly all the time. Our verbal, non-verbal and written messages may be incorrectly interpreted.
How can you check and make sure your message was delivered the way you wanted it to be?
You are a hiring manager, and you are hiring someone new to work in your manufacturing plant for shipping and receiving. Why would you want someone with good communication skills?
Presentation skills are one of the skills employers have stated are important to them. No matter what type of job you are in, you may need to present something to one person, two people or more.
Pick an object in the room sell this to the group in less than 1 minute
Don’t judge a book by its cover is a very common English phrase.
When people meet the first time, it is common to judge each other within the first few seconds. Once that impression is formed it is very powerful and hard to reverse or undo.
People naturally make assumptions about others but often judge too quickly and make mistakes.
Being open minded is the key to effective communication. You don’t have to like every person you work with, but you do have to be professional and courteous
Set aside your judgments
Give everyone a fair chance
We all want to be part of a pleasant workplace.
The New 5 Second Rule: Redefining the First Impression | Quita Christison | TEDxPortsmouth - YouTube
What can affect our first impression of someone?
As we discussed in Unit 1, unconscious bias can skew our first impression of someone either positively or negatively. After watching the video above, discuss your feelings about it.
In the workplace making the wrong first impression about others may not be beneficial to you and your career. What if you assume the person who is dressed poorly is the big boss and you have decided to speak down to them?
You interview someone who had a great résumé, but arrives looking shabby, tired and isn’t prepared. They answer your questions better than anyone else and seem perfect for the job – except for their appearance which isn’t acceptable for a job interview or the job. What do you do?
“The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.” -Rumi
Listening is complicated. It involves, receiving information and then
understanding it
remembering it
evaluating it
responding to it
Most people do not listen with the intent to understand.
Most people listen with the intent to reply
– Stephen R. Covey
We are distracted – there are only so many things people can focus on
We are thinking of what we are going to say in response
We are too busy interrupting – sometimes we get excited and want to add to the conversation
We might be under stress and find it difficult to focus on listening
We are closed minded – sometimes people do not want to hear what someone else is saying
We feel that we know better and therefore are choosing not to listen
In the workplace active listening is very important.
You are speaking to one of your employees and letting them know how to do a certain task They are looking down at their phone, interrupt frequently asking when they can take a break. It looks like they are not listening at all. What do you do? What do you think of them? How do you feel?
Imagine the person you are listening to is the most interesting people ever – your facial expression and your energy will change, and you will be engaged
Limit your own talking, really be conscious of not interrupting
Never look at your phone or type or talk to someone else while on a video call
Concentrate on what that person is saying
Ask questions if you need clarification – it is better to get it now then later
Give feedback every now and again (not too often) with a nod or oh yes, I see
Be open minded
If you are on a video call, adjust your monitor so it looks like you are looking at them and having eye contact or let them know that you are taking notes if you are not looking up
Communication: The difference between hearing and listening - Antoni Lacinai, Keynote speaker - YouTube
Active Listening - YouTube
The Story-Telling Activity
Having occasional friendly conversations with coworkers is enjoyable and fine.
If you can chat easily with people at your work (including people in more senior or junior positions than you), it shows you are friendly and likeable.
Positive conversations build the relationships that improve teamwork and workplace morale.
Know your boundaries – If you chat too much at work it can
interfere with your work and with the people around you trying to do their work
be disruptive and may annoy people
affect your career goals and professional image in a negative way
When you make inappropriate comments, or jokes it
damages how others see you and can ruin your reputation
lessens your chance for a raise, promotion or any future advancement
makes your co-workers feel left out, intimidated, teased, or even bullied - which could result in a harassment claim against you
Small talk is important at work with co-workers.. You don’t have to be friends with everyone at work, although it is important to be friendly. Small talk is about having superficial, polite conversations about surface level things they can range from the weather to current events (avoid politics). Small talk allows others to join easily and not feel uncomfortable. When you are engaged in small talk this is not the place to gossip about others. Gossip is often exclusionary and has negative connotation.
Example: you are at a barbeque you are in line to get some food, and you are standing beside someone you don’t know. Do you: (FN use a poll here to find out if on zoom use zoom poll or online app in class)
a. Ignore the person
b. Just start talking about your illness you had last week
c. Let them know you don’t like the person standing over to your right
d. Ask them how they know the hosts?
What are types of questions could you ask this person? And how could you share something?
You just started a job you walk into the lunch room and there is someone in there heating up their food. Do you
a. Stay silent sit down and begin eating your food?
b. Yell “oh my that smells terrible!”
c. Ask them how their day is going
d. Walk out because you are uncomfortable being in the lunch room with them
Some people find it difficult to start a conversation and others just seem natural at it. It may take some practice. If you are able to start a conversation, more than likely the other person will feel appreciated and comfortable.
Getting to know people at work can enhance your work experience and has been found to be good for morale, as stated before you do not have to be friends with everyone at work although it is important to be civil and not combative. You may find you become quite friendly with some people and have a connection, if appropriate, in your workplace. You could arrange to see these people outside of work and have more in-depth conversations. While at work, things need to remain professional.
Complaining about another coworker/ your supervisor, the company policies
Health issues – you can communicate this to your supervisor if you need time off but keep it out of conversations with coworkers
Relationship issues /Money issues – These can be triggering to others and not appropriate to bring up at work. As mentioned above, you may form a friendship with a coworker and if you are comfortable speak outside of work. Still be aware that you do work with them and what the implications can be if they decide to tell other coworkers
Don’t comment on other people’s food choices – this is not your business
Do not comment on others appearance, weight or bodily functions
It is not your place to comment on someone’s weight gain or weight loss, you may think saying “you look great, you have lost so much weight, you must be so happy”, is a compliment but that person might be struggling with an illness, eating disorder, or they may hear: “you were not acceptable before at your weight but now you are”.
Gossip, rumors, or anything negative about others
Partying and drinking or doing drugs
You need to remember you do not know who can hear you. Walls are usually thin, so be careful not to talk about your coworkers or anyone at work while at work.
There may be times where you feel intimidated or bullied at work. In these cases, you will need to seek out someone to talk to. The best course of action here is to speak to a supervisor for direction as to what to do next. If it is your supervisor who is making you feel uncomfortable, you will need to ask their supervisor for some assistance. This action is not seen as gossip and must be taken to ensure you are kept safe at work. Bullying at work, harassment and other incidents and how to deal with these will be discussed in the problem-solving unit, as well as success on the job.
Technology changes rapidly
Confidentiality at work is very important
Your e-life could ruin your professional life
In the last few years things have changed drastically in the realm of technology and social media. Prior to 2020, the majority of employees in various industries worked in an office with little flexibility to work from home. This changed in 2020 when the majority of office workers and other professions moved out of the office to a home office. As we move in and out of the pandemic 2 years later, there has been a shift and many workplaces offer a hybrid working option.
Back in the day before everyone had computers, confidential information was housed in a locked filing cabinet. Then desktop computers came into offices and information was moved to the computer and housed on a computer server at work. Speed ahead to remote work, and now information is stored in the cloud. These changes have caused issues with confidential information being shared inadvertently through various means. Email is a common way of exchanging information, and you can accidentally share confidential information through email that can have detrimental implications. For instance, if you email your credit card or someone else’s credit card number through an unsecured email it could be compromised. If you email someone’s personal information to another person and then they forward it without knowing it was confidential, this can be an issue.
In addition, posting or tweeting private information on social media can have legal consequences. For example, posting a client’s picture on a website without their permission, or tweeting the new boss’ name before it is public can lead to disciplinary measures.
If you are using a company computer, your employer has the right to see what you are doing on the computer and can trace where you go.
Be knowledgeable what you are allowed to share and what you are not allowed to share with others, at work, at home and publicly is essential.
Using social media at work can be part of your job. Maybe you are in charge of the social media marketing campaign, or you are asked to share work events online, or you are asked to comment on your work Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok or other platforms to increase views, etc. If this is the case ensure you are given some parameters from your supervisor. Most companies will have social media policies.
Social media is now in everyday life – it is the way many people communicate
People often share without thinking of the consequences of their actions – make sure you weigh the consequences before posting
Be careful what you share on social media. Once posted it can be there forever without your knowledge.
Many employers look at social media prior to hiring a new employee.
Be the employer. Go onto a computer, not yours, another computer so none of your settings are saved and Google yourself, do other searches and see what comes up. That is what the employer is going to see when they do a search on you.
One of your employees tells you they just saw a post on Instagram of the employee that called in sick. They are at the beach and the post is dated for today. As the employer what do you do?
How do you feel that employers are checking up on your online information before they offer a candidate a job?
Poor spelling and grammar can make a person appear unprofessional
Be professional in all business communications on any type of device
When sending work communication do not use
Emojis
cute short forms (LOL, TTYL)
ALL CAPS
When at work remember to use correct grammar and spelling this includes
Emails, texts, social media
Reports, invoices, memos, applications, signs
Read the following email that was written poorly. Find the mistakes and re-write the email on your own or as a group.
Consider:
Does the email sound professional?
Is it clear and do you understand everything?
Is all the contact information there?
Not everyone communicates the same way, ask your supervisor what the best way is to communicate. Do not text that you are not coming to work if you are supposed to call, do not call if you are supposed to text.
Remember a simple email can be forwarded to others without your knowledge. Be careful to ensure you are professional. If this is not one of your strengths then use spell check, have others review for you, or attend classes to help you improve.
Clear communication is needed when communicating that you require an accommodation
Know your rights regarding accommodations
Watch and discuss the videos below
Disclosing Your Disability - Career Services (carleton.ca)
How to Disclose Your Disability - YouTube
What did you learn from this Unit?
Any Ahhhh! moment from this Unit?
You are at an event, one of your co-workers that you do not know very well is sitting next to you. They start to tell a story that you find very boring. What can you do so you do not look like you are bored?
At the same event you are sitting next to another person and they are constantly on their phone, interrupting you, what do you do?