SEL for staff

learn all about the SEL DESSA Competencies

Optimistic Thinking

A child’s attitude of confidence, hopefulness, and positive thinking regarding herself/himself and her/his life situations in the past, present, and future

Leader in Me Connection:

Habits 1, 2, 3 and 7

Decision Making

A child’s approach to problem solving that involves learning from others and from her/his own previous experiences, using her/his values to guide her/his action, and accepting responsibility for her/his decisions

Leader in Me Connection:

habits 1, 2, 3, 5 and 6

Personal Responsibility

A child’s tendency to be careful and reliable in her/his actions and in contributing to group efforts


Leader in Me Connection:

habits 1-7

Self-awareness

A child’s understanding of her/his strengths and limitations and desire for self- improvement

Leader in Me Connection:

habits 1, 2, 5 and 6

Self-Management

A child’s success in controlling his or her emotions and behaviors, to complete a task or succeed in a new or challenging situation

Leader in Me Connection:

habits 1, 3 and 7

Goal-Directed Behavior

A child’s initiation of, and persistence in completing, tasks of varying difficulty

Leader in Me Connection:

habits 1-7

Social awareness

A child’s capacity to interact with others in a way that shows respect for their ideas and behaviors, recognizes her/his impact on them, and uses cooperation and tolerance in social situations

Leader in Me Connection:

habits 1, 2, and 3

Relationship Skills

A child’s consistent performance of socially acceptable actions that promote and maintain positive connections with others

Leader in Me Connection:

habits 4, 5, and 6


Staff Wellness

Are you doing something for yourself?

if not, the time is now. self-care is so critical for staff.

Self-care for the Summer

some Mindfulness

Meditation apps to use:

Calm, headspace, simple habit

staff resources

Books about Feelings:

  • In My Heart: A Book Of Feelings By Jo Witek

  • My Many Colored Days By Dr. Suess

  • Feelings To Share From A To Z By Todd And Peggy Snow

  • Double-Dip Feelings: Stories to Help Children Understand Emotions By Barbara S. Cain and Anne Patterson

  • There Are No Animals in This Book (Only Feelings) By Chani Sanchez

  • the color monster by anna llenas

Books about friendship:

  • Cliques, Phonies and Other Baloney By Trevor Romain

  • Frog And Toad Are Friends By Arnold Lobel

  • Little Blue Truck By Alice Schertle

  • Duck, Duck, Goose By Tad Hills

  • How To Grow A Friend By Sara Gillingham

  • bad apple : a tale of friendship by richard hemmingway

  • peanut butter and cupcake by terry border

Books about acceptance and diversity:

  • The Judgmental Flower By Julia Cook

  • Same Same, But Different By Jenny Sue Kostecki-Shaw

  • The Brand New Kid By Katie Couric

  • Where Oliver Fits By Cale Atkinson

  • Janine By MaryAnn Cocca-Leffler

books about Bullying Prevention:

  • My Secret Bully By Trudy Ludwig

  • Bully B.E.A.N.S. By Julia Cook

  • The Bully Blockers Club By Teresa Bateman

  • Llama Llama And The Bully Goat By Anna Dewdney

  • The Juice Box Bully By Bob Sornson and Maria Dismond

Books about Coping Skills

  • b is for breathe by melissa munro boyd

  • grandfather gandhi by arun gandhi and bethany hegedus

  • the huge bag of worries by virginia ironside

  • angry octopus by lori lite

  • soda pop head by julia cook