SEL for staff
learn all about the SEL DESSA Competencies
Optimistic Thinking
A child’s attitude of confidence, hopefulness, and positive thinking regarding herself/himself and her/his life situations in the past, present, and future
Leader in Me Connection:
Habits 1, 2, 3 and 7
Decision Making
A child’s approach to problem solving that involves learning from others and from her/his own previous experiences, using her/his values to guide her/his action, and accepting responsibility for her/his decisions
Leader in Me Connection:
habits 1, 2, 3, 5 and 6
Personal Responsibility
A child’s tendency to be careful and reliable in her/his actions and in contributing to group efforts
Leader in Me Connection:
habits 1-7
Self-awareness
A child’s understanding of her/his strengths and limitations and desire for self- improvement
Leader in Me Connection:
habits 1, 2, 5 and 6
Self-Management
A child’s success in controlling his or her emotions and behaviors, to complete a task or succeed in a new or challenging situation
Leader in Me Connection:
habits 1, 3 and 7
Goal-Directed Behavior
A child’s initiation of, and persistence in completing, tasks of varying difficulty
Leader in Me Connection:
habits 1-7
Social awareness
A child’s capacity to interact with others in a way that shows respect for their ideas and behaviors, recognizes her/his impact on them, and uses cooperation and tolerance in social situations
Leader in Me Connection:
habits 1, 2, and 3
Relationship Skills
A child’s consistent performance of socially acceptable actions that promote and maintain positive connections with others
Leader in Me Connection:
habits 4, 5, and 6
Staff Wellness
Are you doing something for yourself?
if not, the time is now. self-care is so critical for staff.
staff resources
Books about Feelings:
In My Heart: A Book Of Feelings By Jo Witek
My Many Colored Days By Dr. Suess
Feelings To Share From A To Z By Todd And Peggy Snow
Double-Dip Feelings: Stories to Help Children Understand Emotions By Barbara S. Cain and Anne Patterson
There Are No Animals in This Book (Only Feelings) By Chani Sanchez
the color monster by anna llenas
Books about friendship:
Cliques, Phonies and Other Baloney By Trevor Romain
Frog And Toad Are Friends By Arnold Lobel
Little Blue Truck By Alice Schertle
Duck, Duck, Goose By Tad Hills
How To Grow A Friend By Sara Gillingham
bad apple : a tale of friendship by richard hemmingway
peanut butter and cupcake by terry border
Books about acceptance and diversity:
The Judgmental Flower By Julia Cook
Same Same, But Different By Jenny Sue Kostecki-Shaw
The Brand New Kid By Katie Couric
Where Oliver Fits By Cale Atkinson
Janine By MaryAnn Cocca-Leffler
books about Bullying Prevention:
My Secret Bully By Trudy Ludwig
Bully B.E.A.N.S. By Julia Cook
The Bully Blockers Club By Teresa Bateman
Llama Llama And The Bully Goat By Anna Dewdney
The Juice Box Bully By Bob Sornson and Maria Dismond
Books about Coping Skills
b is for breathe by melissa munro boyd
grandfather gandhi by arun gandhi and bethany hegedus
the huge bag of worries by virginia ironside
angry octopus by lori lite
soda pop head by julia cook