Sandip’s ashes were scattered across the waterfalls of Monocacy Park, located in Bethlehem, PA, where we spent our summers as children. As we scattered his ashes, we scattered white rose petals in the water. His ashes join those of other members of our maternal family have been scattered in the same location.
Be still, my heart, these great trees are prayers. - Rabindranath Tagore
When we are grieving, we're apt to feel in some way alone, cut off from other people and living things. It is salutary to go outside and stand by a tree. To stand in the presence of a great tree is to feel a kind of solidarity with nature, a continuity between oneself and the whole created world. - Martha Hickman
The City of Bethlehem planted two trees and a plaque in the park in Sandip’s honor. The plaque standing between the two trees says “In loving memory of Sandip, and the family he enjoys after life.”
The City of Richardson built a bench in Sandip’s honor in Crowley Park, where we grew up as kids. The plaque reads: In memory of our beloved son, brother and friend, Sandip Gupta (Go Mavs!) The bench sits near a basketball hoop, as basketball his favorite sport to play.
The City of Richardson also built a bench in Sandip’s honor in Creek Hollow Park, near where Sandip was living most recently. The plaque reads: In memory of Sandip Gupta. Never forgotten, always missed, forever loved. The bench sits near a basketball court, as basketball his favorite sport to play.
And if you can't make it to these sites or to a basketball game, you can always remember watch the video from the memorial or tell stories on New Year's Eve while listening to Auld Lang Syne to remember him - and how lucky we are to have known and loved him.