I went to Costa Rica in spring 2024 with the IUI honors college service learning program. I stayed with a local family, helped with community projects, and went to talks about sustainability and culture.
I'm not going to pretend I handled it perfectly at first. I'm used to being someone who can communicate well and figure things out quickly and in Costa Rica a lot of that just didn't work the way I expected. Language was part of it but it wasn't just that. The way people communicated, the pace of things, what was considered polite, what was considered rushing, it was all different and I had to slow down and actually pay attention instead of just reacting.
There was a moment during one of the community sessions where I realized I had been answering questions before I fully understood them. just filling in the silence because that's what I usually do. Once I noticed it I started actually listening first and it changed the whole experience.
This experience meets the IUI honors college goal of participating in international and cultural engaged learning. but beyond the requirement it genuinely changed how I communicate. not just in different countries but in general. i think about who i'm talking to now before i decide how to say something. that sounds simple but I don't think I was really doing it before costa rica.
For AI this matters a lot. systems get built by people with certain assumptions and then used by people with completely different ones. if you never get out of your own context you build things that only work for people who think like you do.