So, Why?

 We all come from different places and families. Some of us are born into wealthy families, while others are born into poor families. Even some are born in between.

 Some of us are born into loving families, while others are born into abusive and toxic families.

 So, why do we tend to talk about people who don't have? 

 Why do we make fun of people for their living situations?

 Why do we tend to talk about people who may not dress as we do?

  So, why?

 We all know that everyone has different body structures. We all know that everyone has different skin tones. We all know that everyone likes different things.

 Just because you may like something doesn't mean others may like it. Just because you can fit a size small doesn't mean others can. You may not be insecure, but that doesn't mean others aren't.

 So, why do we tend to talk about people's body structures? 

So, why do we tend to talk about people's skin tones?

 Why do we judge others for liking something we don't?

 So..why?

We know that everyone may not like each other but that doesn't mean that you can talk to them any kind of way. That DOESN'T mean you can BULLY them. That doesn't mean you can spread rumors about them.

If you dislike someone just because of how they look or act just stay away from them. And if you dislike someone for how they have treated you then you just should keep your distance as well.

There is no need to talk about each other or make each other feel about themselves. There is no need to turn anyone against them.

So why do we do that?

Alright we all know that everyone's parents raise them differently. Just because you have a phone doesn't mean others your age will have a phone. Just because you can stay up all night doesn't mean others can. Just because you can eat all the sugar you want doesn't mean others can. You may have a TV in your room but others may not.

So, why do we make fun of others?

Why can't we all just be understanding?

Just..why?

We know the God created everyone from his imagination.

So, why do we tend to call someone ugly or make fun of how they look?

Know that you are perfect and don't change yourself just because someone doesn't like something about you. Don't let them make you feel bad about youself. And always know if you want to change anything about you do it for YOU.

We know that the past doesn't define you. So, why do we tend to bring up each other past? Why do we like to make people feel bad about themselves for something they've done years ago?

Now we all should know that you should be careful about what you say to others because you never know how bad those words can hurt someone. you never know how many times that person has replayed those same words in their head. Once words are said they CAN NOT be erased.

So, why don't we think before we speak?

Just because someone has the same thing as you or maybe they've gotten something similar to something you have doesn't mean they want to be like you.

So, why do we tend to assume that they're trying to be you?

Why do we tend to assume that what they have is fake?

So, why?

Why can't we be kind to one other?

Why can't we all just get along?

Why are we so judgemental?

Why do we talk about one other?

Why do we not try to help each other?

......why?

It is 1000% okay to be different. It is okay to not have friends. It is okay to not hang out with the crowd. It is okay to not have what others have.

So, stand out!!!! And be yourself!!!

Do everything and anything for you. Make yourself proud!!! And go be the light at the end of the tunnel.

So, why can't we do that?

Why can't we make this world worth living in?

So... why??

                                                                                                                                          Written by Ra'Nya Graham